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I swear this sounds like terrible advice. But I promise it’s good advice.
Good women waste WAY too much time being faithful to no good men. Meanwhile tons of other good men come trying to holler at you. By the time you finally get out of the toxic relationship, and you start posting GOD GOT ME QUOTES, n*ggas ain’t sh*t and all of the other break-up memes, the good men who tried to holler at you, are already onto another woman.
Even with myself, when I was in toxic relationships, I had quite a few good men around me who liked me. One time I broke up with my boyfriend, went out with my girl, and as we were leaving the club, I ran into a man outside. We both looked at each other and it was INSTANT chemistry and INSTANT attraction. Like nothing I’d ever felt before. It was definitely spiritual.
I gave him my number. I talked to him and he was an artist. He sang, and had a clothing line. Like me he was an entrepreneur manifesting his way in this world. About a week later I told him that we couldn’t talk anymore, because I’d gotten back with my BOYFRIEND.
He was hurt. He was like “I thought we had a connection.” I responded “We do. But it wouldn’t be fair to to keep talking to you, when clearly I’m already in love with another man.”
Years later, I see that same man has blown up on social media. He has about 200,000 followers, and he’s getting money. Meanwhile my ex is probably somewhere cheating on whatever woman he’s with, working for someone else, and living the same insane circle he always has.
One time I was talking to one of my male friends and he asked me about my loyalty. He asked me exactly what was I being loyal to.
It came out that the loyalty itself was toxic. Why be loyal to a man who isn’t paying your bills? Why be loyal to a man who doesn’t value you? That’s like being loyal to losing.
The other day a man told me that he met some super fine girl, and he thought she was the one for him. But she did what most of us women do and told him to follow her on Instagram. He now has a woman, and he was telling me now the Instagram chick is in her stories posting the typical break-up memes and God got me quotes. 🤷🏼♀️ He said to himself that if her relationship was bad, it only would’ve made sense for her to give him a chance months ago… Now she looks up, comments on his content, noticing that he has a woman.
A lot of heart-centered women fail to realize that life is NOW. You’d better PRESS PLAY all the way!!!
I used to think it was so uncool to say “Don’t let your boyfriend get in the way of finding your husband.” But it’s true. The man who wants to truly be with you is going to marry you and lock it down. He’s not going to take any chances on letting you go. The man for you is SMART when it comes to you. Love yourself enough to ALLOW love in.
I noticed that many men took the opportunity to complain about women in reference to a post.
They stated that women are so bad that an 8 Figure man can’t find a black woman to spend his life with.
Here is what many don’t understand. Not being able to find love is a problem that doesn’t escape the wealthy.
In fact the more wealthy a man is the more he distrusts people, and the more he spends his time working.
Wealth also doesn’t mean that you’ve healed your relationship trauma.
People like Tyler Perry are called to mate with a soulmate. Until he find that person he will continue to seek what’s missing.
I would love to work with Tyler Perry and help him manifest his soulmate. Many of my millionaire clients weren’t finding anyone on their frequency before they met me, and then BOOM, suddenly their soulmate appears.
A lot of men know how to GET a woman, but even less know how to KEEP a woman.
There are women who will take anything, and don’t have high expectations. Then there are women who highly value themselves, know their worth, and aren’t taking shorts from any man.
These are the women that a man not only has to provide for, but he has to cover her.
There are lots of men who will pay your bills. Even more will give you money. But only so few men know how to completely COVER their woman.
Providing for a woman is all about covering her mentally, physically, spiritually, financially and emotional. In her core a woman has deep needs. A man must be able to understand her. He has to know her better than he knows herself. He has to know how to guide her mind.
A man that covers his woman, can make her light up, without even touching her.
In order to be that kind of man, a man must have a DEEP understanding of women. That takes a man with heart and vision.
Where most men go wrong is that they don’t have heart. They’re not in a relationship with a woman they’re deeply in love with.
Money can’t buy you love. But it can buy you ACCESS to love. But to actually GET the love, one has to operate from the heart.
In this life, material possessions are only energy particles just like anything else. But the heart, is he connection to the soul.
When a woman actually has an amazing man, she is going to say to herself “Lord. Where did this man come from?” He’s going to cover her in so many areas, that she won’t know what hit her. A good man makes a woman operate in a state of total gratitude and surrender. It’s not by force. It’s by choice of what is.
A woman decided to hop on Kevin Samuels live and got roasted.
My followers INSIST that I comment on this video. So here are my thoughts.
Kevin actually wasn’t mean to her. He told her many truths. As shocking as the things he says are, THAT is how most high value men like him think.
I do not believe it was wise for Jessica to go on Kevin’s show, especially with rating herself a 5-6. I rarely watch his channel, and even I know how he is. She was asking to have her confidence ripped apart. Even with the particular show she chose to go on. Kevin says he gave her the option to be a CLIENT instead and get her problems remedied.
Most 6-7 figure boss chicks will invest in anything and everything, except relationship coaching. Mostly because they felt their degrees, accolades, money, clothes and make-up would net them their dream man. But it doesn’t work like that.
The thing about women is that many women can’t handle the truth about themselves. High value men are A LOT of work. They want the baddest of the baddest women who also have a brain. They also love a woman who listens and communicates well.
Kevin has a habit of telling women what they can’t get or have. And from experience of talking to hundreds of male clients, I know he is actually right.
The problem with Candice is that she hopped on Kevin’s show seeking APPROVAL from a man. She felt he would think highly of her because she makes 6 Figures. Most alpha men don’t care about how much money a woman makes. They make enough to pay their bills and her bills.
Candice was dressed very classy, so she has that going for her. But there are a few tips I could’ve given her in order to get what she wants. It’s definitely possible.. If any woman wants to attract a high value, bill paying man, then she needs to raise her frequency. Good men operate on a higher frequency.
If any high value 6-7 Boss chick is seeking to manifest her opulent soulmate, I would suggest joining my free FACEBOOK community, Millionaire Soulmate Charm School, where you will learn how to scale up your business, your relationships and your life at the same time.
I once had a conversation with a man, and he told me that other women weren’t like me. He told me that other women didn’t care about a man buying them bags and nice things.
He said they didn’t care about a man providing.
He said that other women weren’t used to men who gave them hugs at night and believed in their goals. He said that’s all those women wanted from him, and they simply liked him for him.
So I totally understood where this man was coming from.
During that conversation I just listened and didn’t say anything. I understood what he needed as a man. He simply wanted to be loved for who he is and not what he could do.
But the difference between me and those women, is that I see the God in him. I know who he is as he walks this earth. Those women think he’s this sweet, brilliant, down to earth guy, who isn’t perfect, but he’s good enough. They look at him in human form and believe that he won’t break their heart.
They see him as this cute little puppy…. When in reality he is a full bred LION.
I know he’s a God that is capable of taking over the world and giving a woman WHATEVER SHE WANTS. I know he’s no different from any other man when it comes to women. He’s going to marry the woman who HIGHLY values herself. He’s not going to marry the woman who accepts crumbs from him.
I laughed and thought it was cute at how he didn’t realize that when a woman can see the GOD in you, she’s not going to settle for a half azz version of you. She’s only going to be with you and choose you, if you go hard for her.
I remember being in relationships with men in the past. I didn’t quite see the God in them. Instead I saw their limitations. I accepted what they gave me and how they treated me, because I believed they were doing the best they can. I looked at those men with sympathy and empathy. I saw their limitations and loved them for them.
But that guy, I can honestly say that I loved his SOUL. I knew where he was going. I knew what he’s gone through in order to accomplish what he had. I was delighted by his MAGIC. I appreciated the small things about him, and the big things too. I loved him as a WHOLE. But he wasn’t able to understand that kind of soul love from a woman who could SEE him.
But when I can see the God in a man, as I am able to do now that I can see the Goddess within myself, a man had better not come at me as half NOTHING. COME WHOLE BABY! Or don’t come at all.
There are so many God’s in this world, enchanted by the women who want NOTHING or very little from him. Although it feels good, those women aren’t the ones. It’s a man’s job to want nothing from a woman but her energy and allowing him to love her. It’s a woman’s job to be a MUSE for a man and motivate him to reach greater heights.
Not every man can tap into a brilliant, beautiful Goddesses energy and get what God wants him to have.
Some men want a woman who asks for nothing, cause he’ll swear he’ll give her everything. But he’ll never reach his full capabilities with such a woman. Men need a woman who makes them just a little nervous and uncomfortable. He needs a woman whose presence and life desires will force him to expand and level up.
Never apologize to a man simply because you are the woman who requires more than just d*ck, distant conversation and hugs. Find you a man who wants you to have it all, and wants to be the man to give it to you.
I recently interviewed a Billionaire, and he spoke about how he wanted to be a woman’s blessing. We had such a beautiful conversation.
In today’s society, many men are experts in business. But complete failures in relationships.
A man is a failure in a relationship for 3 reasons.
1. He doesn’t listen to women
2. He doesn’t know what women want
3. He’s selfish
4. He thinks he is the prize while failing to value women
5. He doesn’t pay bills
I’ve personally only met one man in my life who knew he wasn’t sh*t, and was willing to admit to it. I’ve seen one other man admit to his woman that he wasn’t sh*t. Some men are willing to admit that aren’t about loyalty and love when it comes to a woman.
But most men believe themselves to be not just a good man, but a GREAT MAN.
Their reasons for believing themselves to be a great man, usually involves around the fact that they make money, or that they will take a woman out to eat sometimes.
Maybe he’ll even toss her a small nugget of knowledge.
That’s basically what makes men feel like they are a good man.
But a good man actually understands he emotional needs of his woman and her desire to be loved. That’s the basis of a good man.
Most women have a deeply embedded desire to be with a strong, powerful, masculine man who leads and provides. But because the average in society tends to be the loudest, most women will ignore this desire and take whatever man she can get, as long as he is nice to her.
This is how many boss chicks end up in toxic relationships. She wants WEALTH. Which is why she’s a boss chick. Yet the minute she starts making money, she goes to get a man who is not wealth-minded and has no intentions to provide for her. She’ll happily be strong and do it all on her own, while laying down and opening up her legs for this man, who believes himself to be a good man.
Yet, he knows he doesn’t give his woman any money.
And when the relationship fails, and he finds himself being disrespected, taken for granted, treated like a simp, getting cheated on, and a woman no longer excited to be around him, he will blame her and say that women won’t take self-accountability if she fails to apologize to him.
Sometimes women get tired of a man constantly expecting him to BE HIS ALL and DO for him. Sometimes a woman simply wants a King who will cater to her. That actually FEELS better to her. But getting a man who will do that, often takes some work on her femininity. Women who brag that they pay their own bills, chances are most times, can’t get a man to pay her bills.
To each it’s own. But this post is all about your soul’s truth. When you deny your soul’s truth of wanting a man who provides for you and allows you to live the life of your dreams with him, you’ll often find yourself in a toxic relationship. Or you’ll die early from exhaustion and over-working yourself.
We as society talk too much about bad men, and not enough about good men. Good men pay bills. Period.
So until a man is paying the bills of the woman he calls himself romancing, then he can’t complain about what goes wrong in the relationship. The scales are off.
Your soul can’t really grow in a relationship, until the scales begin to be balanced. As a woman with a provider man is forced to hone in on her femininity and find ways to honor her man that don’t involve her buying him gifts, or doing maid service. She needs to learn how to honor is soul, blow his mind sexually, feed his fantasies, respect him and seduce him in every way.
Bad women know this and will seduce a man to his doom. Good women on the other hand will seduce a man into building one of the greatest legacies on the planet.
Like I said, most good women, want a man to pay bills and treat her like a Princess/Queen…. And some women are Goddesses. A Goddess is a very beautiful woman who has a inner light that shines. Her conversation is healing. Her presence is uplifting. Such a woman must be given tributes and devotion. Rather she knows she’s a Goddess or not, things won’t work out for her until she realizes it and honors who God calls her to be.
A man who does not serve a Goddess, does a disservice to himself. The gift is in her. SHE is the gift. She is a manifestation portal.
Through myself I’ve noticed some Gods & Kings see this in me, and feed into me. In return they prosper. But I noticed that most men simply aren’t as smart as them. Another man would not honor my Goddess throne, and sit there complaining about me, saying I’m the worst person in the world. When the truth is I did nothing to him but support his dreams and goals. He would’ve wanted more from me, but couldn’t access it, simply because he didn’t honor me by paying me tributes.
This is so real. But most people simply don’t get it.
If you are a wise man, I would advise you to find yourself a Goddess and put her on a monthly payment plan. Watch your life prosper. THAT is why God tells men to find a Proverbs 31 Wife. He’s telling men how to get your blessing.
A proverbs 31 wife is a boss chick. She’s a boss, because she has HEART to go after what she wants. But many Gods fall in love with mortal women, who aren’t bosses. Or they try to turn her into a boss. Which is why they end up taking a loss.
The tongue of a true Proverbs 31 woman is anointed. She’s given great vision, to help her husband have PROVISION. But how many men LISTEN.
