What does true humility  look like in a relationship with a man?

What does true humility look like in a relationship with a man?

Successful men and men in general are oftentimes so full of themselves. They expect women to bow down for no other reason than the fact that they are a man.

I used to get really annoyed when a man told me to be humble. I didn’t like it one bit.  I never tell anyone to humble themselves. I don’t see a reason why they should. Plus I learned long ago to not listen to the negative things people say about you or the limitations they try to place on you, and instead listen to the greatness that God instilled in you.

Humility in God

Usually when I was told to practice more humility, it was a man who didn’t dress as nice as me, or didn’t have as much money as me, or didn’t look as good as me.    It never came from a man who deeply honored me. So I ignored the advice thinking they didn’t know what they were talking about.

As you can see I looked for ways to diminish the person’s advice based on them somehow being less than me. 

God forgive me, for I have sinned. 🙏  That’s NOT love.

Then one day out of the blue, shortly AFTER reading the bible, God showed me what truly humility is in a man’s eyes.

Sometimes someone tells you something and maybe they don’t say it in a way that you can understand at the time. But that doesn’t mean that they aren’t right.

One of the biggest relationship healers is giving up your need to be right. It’s also one of the biggest WEALTH/ABUNDANCE healers.

When our desire is to be right, we tend not to listen to the other person.

When you give up your need to be right you allow in love, money and miracles.

To give up your need to be right, first, you must become conscious of when you feel that desire to make someone or something wrong.

According to the Dream Maker blog:


Always Being Right Is Nothing But Perception



Life as we know it is not black and white. It’s never a question of who is right or who is wrong, but what is right and what is wrong. Believing that your own way is the right way is just a perception that enslaves your mind.

Having an underlying need to be right comes from underlying fears and insecurities.

The problem is you’re open to being told you’re wrong. But in some areas, you can be subconsciously rigid.


But back to what I was saying earlier. It was the men who didn’t treat me well who told me to humble myself.  The ones who treated me well thought I should be even more confident.

Humility vs Confidence

According to Scott Young that means:

Confidence would come from focusing on the positive things you already know. In contrast, humility isn’t focusing on the negative information as it is focused on the overwhelming amount of information you don’t know.

They were all right.  They were also the wrong man for me. I THOUGHT I was being humble by dealing with them in the first place. That is why you can’t date men who aren’t on your level.  Level meaning the spiritual level you are called to thrive on. Some men can see that you are a Goddess and other men are unable to… Probably cause they think they are doing YOU a favor by dealing with you. (see how that thought backfires on everyone?)

I used to talk sooooooooo much sh*t…. But then God always pops up to humble me in spirit. For that I have so much gratitude and gave up talking ish.

I always say there are levels to everything. Baby there is another level to HUMILITY too. I was right about humbling myself to God. But how many people put their worries in God’s hand and avoid trying to solve all of their problem’s on their own?

Chances are, that doesn’t feel humble to a tapped in soul. It feels weak. Or even more perhaps you feel like God has more important people/problems to tend to and you don’t wanna bother him with your lil problems….

Scott suggests the following to practice more humility: 

How to Use Humility

The amount you don’t know is far larger than the amount you do. Humility utilizes that space by acknowledging it exists. Here are some ways you can apply humility to improve:

  1. People. Everyone is better than me in some way. More importantly, everyone has something to teach me if I look closely enough. Although I write fairly opinionated articles here, I focus on being more observant in my offline interactions.
  2. Projects. Every project I start has a million uncertainties. Instead of assuming a rigid plan, I leave flexibility to allow new opportunities to come in. Although I have longer term plans for this website, I’m also open to new possibilities.
  3. Passions. When I wrote this article, What Do You Want to Do With Your Life, I was basically advocating taking a more humble stance towards your life directions. Be open to everything and get curious rather than confident.
  4. Productivity. It requires humility to admit you’ve been doing things wrong all along. My traffic tripled in a short period after I made changes to how I wrote articles. That couldn’t of happened if I was too sure of my own methods to change.



It takes LOADS of CONFIDENCE to walk this path.

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True humility is KNOWING you’re in the presence of a King, speaking to him as such and treating him as such. Not because you are doing HIM a favor, but because that is the way you honor a God King and the love he makes your heart feel…

This means knowing that he is just as worthy and deserving as you are, and if you don’t believe such, then you shouldn’t be with him.

No need for excuses that he doesn’t treat you right. Why are you with a man who doesn’t honor you?  Blaming anything or anyone outside of you is not the way to go.

Jada Pinkett Says Only Concentrating On Marriage To Husband Will Smith Turned Her Into A Terror

Jada Pinkett Says Only Concentrating On Marriage To Husband Will Smith Turned Her Into A Terror

More footage of Jada Pinkett speaking candidly on Red Table Talk about her relationship with husband Will Smith has surfaced.

Speaking with Stephen Curry’s wife Ayesha Curry Jada spoke about how concentrating only on the kids and husband Will Smith made her life worse.

Although Jada said she put herself in Will’s shoes, she simply does not seem to like Will. Yet, they are still sticking together in a lifetime partnership.

Essentially Sports Reports:

In one of the episodes of Red Table Talk, Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith, and Gammy traveled to North Carolina to meet the Curry family. And they had some candid moments during the discussion.

During the talk show, Ayesha Curry was talking about how she didn’t just want to be a basketball wife. She said that Sonya perfectly balances her needs, her husband’s, and her children’s. But she said that this made her realize she needed something for herself.

Ayesha said that she wanted to build a career for herself so that she could work on that and said that it would make her happy and fulfilled. So Jada asked what was the most difficult part for Ayesha in her pursuit of a career.

Curry said that trying to figure out how to balance her career and family was the hardest. And said that she wanted to give up her career just to be around her family more. She said that she had to talk her out of quitting her career due to the family because, when she was a housewife, she was miserable.

Hearing this, Jada Pinkett confessed, “Oh, I am with you, I am with you that phase. Like, not working. Like, okay, ‘I am just gonna concentrate on my kids and I am gonna concentrate on my husband’, and I turned into a terror.”

Ayesha Curry said that the children would eventually grow up and leave to live their own lives, which would leave the mothers with an emptiness if they didn’t have a career.

You notice that Jada never has anything positive to say about Will?

Flip to the next page to watch Jada Pinkett open up about her life being worse as a result of concentrating on Will Smith and their kids…

Jada Pinkett Says She’s Not Really Married To Will Smith Anymore They Are Just Business Partners

Jada Pinkett Says She’s Not Really Married To Will Smith Anymore They Are Just Business Partners

The way the internet is all up in Jada Pinkett Smith’s marriage is quite interesting.  Many believe the couple is headed for divorce. But according to Jada, she and Will Smith are in a lifetime partnership.

BSO REPORTS:

Jada Pinkett’s marriage with Will Smith is gradually hitting the rocks and I wouldn’t be surprised to see headlines of their divorce following the Oscars slap brouhaha in the coming months.

In 2019, Jada Pinkett along with Willow Smith and Gammy visited the Curry family in North Carolina for the show and during their interaction, Jada let everyone know that she’s now in “partnership” with her husband Will Smith. The couple now refer to their marriage as “partnership” via Essentially Sports;

They talked to Ayesha Curry, Sydel Curry-Lee, Sonya Curry, and Callie Rivers. Ayesha Curry is an entrepreneur and chef who is married to basketball superstar Stephen Curry. Sydel Curry-Lee is Stephen and Seth Curry’s sister. Sonya Curry is their mother and was married to NBA veteran Dell Curry. Callie Rivers is engaged to Seth Curry and is also the sister of NBA star Austin Rivers.

When they started talking, Sonya Curry shared that she has been married to Dell Curry for 30 years at the time. And Jada said, “Did you know I am on 21?” with a hand on her face. Then Sonya said, “You can make it. It’s possible.” And everyone broke out laughing.

Then Jada said, “Yeah, you know, I mean, our partnership. We don’t really call it a marriage anymore, we call it a partnership. We are life and business partners, we are in a different stage of our union. I know that unions go through many stages.”

On Jada Pinkett and Will Smith’s partnership, here is what you need to know;

Will Smith met Jada on the set of Smith’s television show ‘The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air’ in 1994. Jada auditioned for the role of Will’s girlfriend, but she didn’t land it. Later, Will and Jada started dating. Jada and Will Smith married on December 31, 1997, while she was 3 months pregnant. Their son Jaden Christopher Syre Smith was born in 1998 and daughter Willow Camille Reign Smith was born in 2000.

In April 2013, Jada reportedly said in an interview that she had always said that Will can do whatever he wants because he is his own man. This made everyone believe that Will Smith and Jada were in an open relationship. But she immediately denied such claims and said that she was not referring to an open marriage with her comments.

But all hell broke loose in June 2020 when rapper and singer August Alsina said that he and Jada had been involved in an affair in 2016 when he was 23 and Jada was 44. He was also a friend of Will’s son Jaden. To make things worse, he also claimed that they had Will’s permission for the affair. A spokesperson of Jada denied Alsina’s claims.

Then in July, Jada hosted her husband Will Smith in the Red Table Talk, where she confirmed her affair with Alsina when they were separated. But she maintained that didn’t happen with Will’s permission. Then in 2021, Will Smith took a U-turn and stated that Jada didn’t believe in a conventional marriage. And admitted that he and Jada have had sexual relationships outside their marriage.

Ironically not too long after this Sonya Curry would file for divorce from Dell, so you can blame Jada for that too.

Something I recently learned about relationships is that it’s best to commit to the relationship and not to the person.  Is that how so many people have a long-lasting marriage?

How To Get A Man To Fall In Love With You

How To Get A Man To Fall In Love With You

If you ask a man what makes him fall in love with a woman, he’ll say so many things and chances are he may mention something about RESPECT.

But the truth is, most men don’t know WHY exactly they fall in love with a particular woman. Oftentimes they will say she is smart, has a great career and things based upon accolades, without realizing those things aren’t the carrying factor of a relationship.

A man falls in love with you when he knows he can be his real self around you. He falls in love with you because he feels SAFE expressing his innermost, private feelings with you.

That’s when he suddenly calls you, he wants to be around you all the time, and doesn’t understand why he wants to be near you. He just does. He can’t put his finger on it, but he knows there is something special about you.

Men feel most at peace with a divine feminine woman.

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Men are actually more emotional than women. He’s not in love with you when he’s too afraid to show you parts of himself. 💋 He doesn’t fall in love with a woman who expects him to be perfect.

In fact, men run, when a woman thinks he’s perfect, because he knows he’s not.

Now you know why Mr. Perfect ran for the hills when you told him how great he was.

No human is perfect. Your delusion that you will find human perfection dooms you.

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Rapper Big Sean Allegedly Caught Cheating On His Girlfriend Jhene Aiko With Multiple Women

Jhene Aiko must be addicted, cause she’s not leaving BIG Sean alone, no matter how many times he “allegedly” cheats on her.

The internet has jokes for days, as news is circulating that Rapper Big Sean is has once again been caught cheating on his girlfriend Jhene Aiko with multiple women, they are assuming the rapper is tired of his girlfriend after 3-years of dating.

According to MTO News;

Rapper Big Sean has been dating R&B sensation Jhene Aiko for almost five years. But now a rumor is circulating online that Sean is cheating on his Asian crooning girlfriend.

A popular Tiktoker is spilling tea on Big Sean and Jhene Aiko’s relationship and claims that Sean is cheating. The tea was spilled by the gossip blogger KlatSCHhh. She’s the same blogger that spread the rumor that R&B singer Teyana Taylor had an alleged drug overdose after learning of her husband’s cheating. Teyana quickly denied that rumor and says she’s never used drugs.

Well according to the blogger, she was working at a Miami hotel when she observed Big Sean renting a room with two beautiful Black women. She later suggested that Big Sean and Jhene’s relationship is “fake”, and that the two have what the blogger describes as a “PR relationship.”

As evidence she posted this picture of Big Sean, with the two beautiful women. Media Take Out has blurred out the faces of the women, because we have not been able to independently corroborate the story.

But even without corroboration, the story is spreading FAST on social media. Millions of people on TikTok have watched the above video, and millions more have seen it on Twitter.

You never know with these stories so take everything with a grain a salt until you hear someone is breaking up with someone else.

For now they both seem to be going strong together.

Married Woman Finds Her Power & Becomes A Millionaire

Married Woman Finds Her Power & Becomes A Millionaire

It’s easy for a married woman to lose yourself. Finding your power, your source and your center is a must.

You’re sitting at home, being a good mom, a good wife, serving your husband and forgot all about yourself. You forget who you are.

Baby, you came here to do more than open your legs, cook, clean, open your legs and have kids.

That’s why your brain is so remarkable. 🧠 Heck even the brain you give is on point. 😜

Right now, You’re screaming for help, wanting to relax, to have more, be more, yet to relax and do less.

You have sacrificed your whole life and failed to PLEASE YOU. 😛

You see so many single women free. 🦋

It’s time to take charge of your femininity, breathe, feel safe, find your voice, communicate your needs to him and manifest a better life.

A man can only give you so much, when you’re not giving him the proper vision.

Good men seek to lead you to your place of happiness. They watch you and often seamlessly guide you to that place…. Where you are luminescent and feeling really good.

Many beautiful single women often attempt to forego men without healing deep inner wounds. You believe detachment from men is the answer.

Other women love men and believe that being a pick me will grant you your souls desires…. It won’t.

Lots of Pretty women believe nothing is wrong with them, but can put out sour patch energy that even feminine women can pick up on. Those tend to be the competitive single women…

Than you have the beautiful feminine women who want to be someone else, instead of their beautiful amazing selves. Men love them, but don’t latch on because they don’t know their authentic highest self. (Real Goddesses must deeply love YOUR own identity.

Self-Love is a full time job baby! Healing your femininity, gaining the confidence to find your voice, feeling your connectedness to the source of the universe, feeling sexy, embracing the incredible, allowing expansive love to flow from within you, overflowing with joy, and drawing men/your partner deep into the enchantment of love with you, is such an amazing experience.

There are two worlds going on. One where women are tapping into healing, expressing deep femininity, and becoming master manifestors of cash and love. Those are the women who will also Phuck a man silly because her soul is so free to seduce and conquer his desires. Body and mind surrendered.

Then you have the other women that keep talking, going in circles, not choosing and being lost.

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Inconsistency In A Relationship Is Abuse

Inconsistency in a relationship is abuse. It’s a sign that he really doesn’t want you. The fact that you stay means you like abusing YOURSELF. #kissysaid

#Men: Chances are she’s inconsistent cause she has mental issues/past unhealed trauma or you show signs that make her pull back. If a man is choosing the ONE chick that’s completely not into him, get a divine relationship coach to heal you.

Basic chicks waste time with men they don’t like. You’re good target practice…. Beautiful, successful women do not. They invest time into men THEY want.

Therefore there is no point of a man dealing with a smart, analytical, intuitive, attractive women unless you came to do right by her and HAVE A PLAN for her. (Spiritual women are wise…)

She’s going to sense that something isn’t right with you, if your heart isn’t aligned with truth to prosper HER. If she’s healed NO she’s not going to sit around trying to figure out which game you’re playing today.

🛑 Men hate arguing. Women hate mind games.

NO, the divine feminine is not going to come closer to see and go deeper into the abyss. Clearly she can see the black hole 🕳 that lies where YOUR heart used to be.

While women are responsible for staying in their femininity, many men keep women in their head with the mind games you play. It confuses her EMOTIONS.

When a woman is living from her heart, the last thing she needs is a man who causes her to overthink. As if she doesn’t THINK enough already. 🧠 You are there to help her feel safe to LIVE in the moment.

❤️ A woman shouldn’t have to overthink when it comes to you. You must love her deeply enough that she KNOWS and FEELS the desire to submit with every fiber of her being.

A woman should feel FREE to feel JOY around a man. Not just when she’s riding on top of you.

💖 And you women have to stop letting men damage you. It’s your life at the end of the day.

YES men will smother your life and light IF YOU LET THEM. 💡 They don’t care. It’s not even intentional. No one taught them how to treat a woman right.

You let these men damage you for FREE99 at that. That’s so NOT high value.

Meanwhile, a good man would’ve loved you, made your light brighter, and provided for you. That relationship would FEEL HEALTHY to you.

It feels good to be so divine that you only attract the warmth of a real divine masculine man.

That’s why so many of you women don’t want to have sex. Truth is you are tired of letting broken men use your body, frustrate you, lie to you, and drain you for everything you have, while telling you how much you suck. It’s always the dude who hasnt even given you $100 that complains about you…..

👉😘💋 Woman BE A BOSS. Take charge of your feminine LIFE. Join Goddess Unleashed to magically change your energy and attract a real man who will run circles around these other dudes.

Stop sitting around being hurt.

Catch international flights ✈️ Not negative feelings on a flight by yourself.

Find yourself in the presence of a King. 👑 Period.
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5 Things Smart Single Women Need To Manifest Millionaire Men

5 Things Smart Single Women Need To Manifest Millionaire Men

A lot the frustration with women is that you struggle with manifesting what you desire because you don’t have the right masculine energy in your life.

Not that you don’t already know HOW to DO things, but you need certain energy to help you get in the flow of receiving it.

It’s wise to stop listening to people who encourage you to keep being a single, strong, independent woman.

✅ If your idea of SUCCESS comes with a SUCCESSFUL relationship then YES, check that off the list.

Maybe I don’t come out and be like “OMG. I have a boyfriend.” But most times I do have some sort of man in my life who is feeding into me.

👑 Although I work, I get help from a genius man here and there. 👑 God keeps me covered. 🙏

Men are supposed to cover us. The love and support of a divine King is extremely helpful for the soul.

Same thing for men. They are successful even while single, because they use up different women’s energy to manifest. Free p*ssy keeps him from having to committ and believing that he’s doing it all on his own. These men have SEVERAL women pouring love into them, often while telling the women that they do nothing for them…

💖 Some men are pouring love into several women.

💜 If you as a man doesn’t have a woman pouring love into you, check your character, or check your choices. Women are the most loving beings on the planet.

💰 Most people who make 6-7 Figures are married or in a relationship. Can you get there on your own? Yes, you can. You’re amazing. But baby that is such hard work. Tiring… Even draining.

I cut off my hair chasing my first 6 figures. I worked endlessly. It still didn’t work. What worked is seeing how I was helping a man client make millions, yet I struggled.

Something shifted in me in my expectations. I expected my money NOW. I got tired of waiting.

So I got down on my knees and talked to GOD. HE did for me what I couldn’t do for myself at the time. I didn’t have the manifestation knowledge that I have now.

The next day I woke up making LOADS of money. I began to make MULTIPLE 6 Figures per year.

Then comparison set in. I wanted more. I wanted to be a millionaire.

This time I had to figure it out.

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Here are the five things you need to become a millionaire or to finally manifest your dreams.

🌸 1. Increase your faith
🌸 2. Get a partner
🌸 3. Love Yourself
🌸 4. Be Your Authentic Self
🌸 5. Write the Vision, Make It Plain & Embody It

God created Eve for a reason. Don’t ever forget that.

Love is the most potent, most magical miracle inducing frequency on the planet. It’s omnipresent. It’s abundant, potent, healing and encompassing. It’s GOD’s gift to you.

💖✨💋 Your life can change for the better in a day. Mine does all the time.

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