Cam Newton Faces Backlash For Saying Women Should Cater To A Man’s Needs And Know WHEN To BE QUIET

by | Love & Relationships

Cam Newton is facing serious backlash over his latest statements.

The NFL quarterback believes women should cater to a man’s needs … saying his ideal partner should know how to cook and when to be quiet — and, yeah, he’s now he’s facing serious backlash.

Cam made the controversial comments on Barstool Sports’ “Million Dollaz Worth of Game” podcast this week … when he opened up about being raised in a household by his mother, father, and grandmother.

During the podcast the trio discussed what a badd b*tch is.. Gillie explained that his definition of a badd b*tch is a woman who has her internal right. He relayed a broken woman to a luxury car with cloth seats…

Newton says his experiences at home helped him understand the difference between a “woman” and a “bad bitch” — explaining he believes the latter is not something women should strive for.

“A woman for me is handling your own, but knowing how to cater to a man’s needs,” Cam said on the pod. “I think a lot of times, when you get that aesthetic of like, ‘I’m a boss bitch, I’m a this, I’m a that,’ — no, baby. But you can’t cook.”

“You don’t know when to be quiet. You don’t know how to allow a man to lead.”

Cam insisted on the show that he was not trying to “beat up my queens” with his statements … but he called for “men to start being men, bro.”

“That sucka s*** should not be rewarded.”

As you could imagine, Cam’s comments did not go over well on social media … with many calling the words sexist and misogynistic.

Kissy's Thoughts

It’s nothing new for women to argue against the desires of a man.  Men are rarely allowed to voice what they want. Mostly because their desires tend to take from a woman and diminish a woman’s freedom of choice and power.  These days women care more about being respected than they care about being cherished, without understanding what kind of man aligns with the choice.

Most times a high value provider man, does not align with a woman who wants respect.

What Cam is true.   What many  women don’t know is that masculine men tend to get overwhelmed when a woman talks too much.   It  requires them to process it. Interestingly enough that exact topic was on my mind this morning.  How much talking is too much when it comes to your conversations with a man

But on the other hand, why is it that a man can take a man talking too much but not a woman?

In addition, being a feminine woman and knowing your place, still does not guarantee marriage. A woman still must know how to seduce at another level that gets a man to leave all other women alone for her.

For example, back in February Cam Newton appeared on an episode of his “Funky Friday” YouTube series, the quarterback said his high profile job prevented him from marrying the the mother to four of his biological children, Shakia Proctor.

“That’s a great question… The thing is that person that I was while we were having children together, I couldn’t be the best husband. I wasn’t prepared to be a husband then,” Newton told Brittany Renner, an Instagram fitness model, and influencer, who pressed him about not giving Proctor a ring.

“I was on temptation island. A football player, young, ‘no’ is not even in my vocabulary,” said Newton, the first overall pick in the 2011 NFL Draft, and 2015 NFL MVP.

“I just found myself in this downward spiral. Did she deserve better? I would humbly say, yes, she did… I was falling deeper into my own selfishness and realizing I gotta be better.”

Newton’s relationship with Proctor, a former exotic dancer, turned romantic in 2013, according to The Sun. They share four kids together: Sebastian Newton, Sovereign-Dior Cambella, Camidas Swain Newton, and Cashmere Saint Newton. Proctor has an older daughter from a previous relationship, whom Newton has reportedly publicly claimed as his.

Cam also talked about energy on the podcast stating that he often hung out alone and takes pride in people being blessed with his amazing energy and knowing there is something different about him.

The entire podcast was actually very interesting to listen to.


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