When Your Ex Has Moved On, But Your Heart Hasn’t

by | Love & Relationships

At some point you have to stop talking about your ex.  He doesn’t give AF, and neither do the people that you’re complaining to on social media. Even your friends are tired of hearing about him.

As a heart-centered person with a big heart, I understand exactly how you feel.  One of my break-ups was so painful. I loved that man so much and thought he would get some act right eventually.  And even though I dumped him, it didn’t change how much that break-up hurt me.

I’ve learned a lot about myself and men since then.   If you want fast healing simply send me a message to work with me.  Otherwise keep reading.

One of the hardest things to accept about men, especially the narcissistic ones, is that they move on quickly after a break-up.

I know you want him to care, but he doesn’t. He’s moved on and isn’t thinking about you. So don’t you think it wise to CLEAR THAT SPACE and allow a new man in to serve you? Aren’t you tired of COCKBLOCKING yourself?

The thing about men is that while women are fascinated over the chemistry that somehow just didn’t work out, men move on fast with new women and literally can care less about how much you miss him. He has his tongue on the next woman’s clit. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Happy as he can be. Then it will be the next woman and the next woman… It’s a cycle with most of these men, that you should be glad that you opted out of.  You never had to wait for or work hard to receive love in the first place.   That’s the first part of the mis-alignment.

While a man has moved on good women tend to constantly think about what was and what could’ve been. While it seems harmless, you have to let that go after a few months. It’s a BLOCK.

Sure you’ll still attract MEN but you won’t attract your DREAM MAN because you’re holding someone else in that space. Freeing them frees YOURSELF.


Are you caught in a cycle of reminiscing about your ex, replaying memories, and secretly hoping he’ll come back? It’s time to break free from the chains of the past and reclaim your power.

Release the Hold: Your ex has moved on, and it’s time for you to do the same. While it’s natural to feel hurt and longing for what once was, clinging onto the past only prolongs your pain. Take a deep breath and acknowledge that holding onto someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings is hindering your growth and happiness.

Embrace the Truth: Men, especially narcissistic ones, often move on quickly after a breakup. Instead of dwelling on why he doesn’t care, shift your focus inward. Recognize your own worth and prioritize your well-being. You deserve someone who values and cherishes you, not someone who treats you as an afterthought.

Clear the Space: Holding onto memories of your ex blocks new opportunities for love and happiness. It’s time to declutter your heart and create space for new beginnings. Release the emotional baggage weighing you down and open yourself up to the possibility of finding true love.

Shift Your Perspective: Instead of dwelling on what could’ve been, shift your focus to what lies ahead. Visualize the kind of relationship you desire and the qualities you seek in a partner. By letting go of the past, you create room for new experiences and connections to enter your life.

Invite Love In: Freeing yourself from the grip of your ex allows you to welcome love into your life with open arms. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and empowerment as you step into a brighter, more fulfilling future. Trust that the universe has something beautiful in store for you, and believe that you are worthy of love and happiness.

Take Action: Release the hold of your ex and reclaim your power. Let go of the past, embrace the present, and step boldly into the future. Surround yourself with positivity, self-love, and supportive relationships as you embark on the journey of healing and transformation.

Remember, you hold the key to your own happiness. By letting go of what no longer serves you, you create space for miracles to unfold. Trust in the process, believe in yourself, and embrace the freedom that comes with releasing your ex. Your journey to love and fulfillment begins now.