by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 11, 2025 |
Ladies, let’s be real. Most men don’t leave unless they are forced to emotionally, energetically, or spiritually check out. When a man leaves you, it tends to men you are a pretty bad women and need to make some changes. I know that may hurt, but that’s the truth. Average men rarely ever leave “good” women… And we know that the word GOOD/BAD is subjective.
Here are the real reasons men walk away (and how to avoid being left in the first place):
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She stops being his peace.
A man will leave when drama is her love language. A King desires peace and joy when he comes home.
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She doesn’t meet his needs (and refuses to listen).
Men will walk when a woman refuses to be soft, feminine, and open to learning how to love HIM right — emotionally and physically. He will also walk away from a woman who doesn’t sexually please him. To be a high value woman your bedroom skills must be on point.
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She emasculates him.
If a man shares his heart, his fears, his dreams — and you use that against him — he will never trust you again.Real men need safety too.
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She stops caring for herself.
Men are visual. If you lose your glow, your radiance, your feminine energy, he will notice. The woman who keeps herself radiant makes her man feel like he won. (How are you supposed to keep glowing with a 50/50 man who is abusing you, mistreating you and proud of you being his labor mate? The more he drains you, the more he dislikes you. The only choice is to LEAVE)
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She doesn’t have her own purpose.
A High Value Man will leave a woman who drains his energy because she refuses to rise and own her own life.Masculine men love women with vision and substance.
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She has no boundaries.
If you let him run over you, he loses respect. Men admire women who know their worth.
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She’s too masculine.
If you always want to lead, argue, and compete — he doesn’t feel like a man around you. And men want to feel like the man.
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She doesn’t challenge him to be better.
High Value Men want the BEST woman. One who inspires him to grow, expand, and conquer. Not one who lets him settle.
- She never pours into him.
Men want to feel loved, desired, and seen. If he’s always pouring and you’re not filling him back up? He will seek that energy somewhere else.
A High Value Man will leave a woman when he feels like he’s pouring from an empty cup — when he feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually drained because she’s not pouring back into him.
But here’s the truth most people won’t admit…
👉 Oftentimes, this man doesn’t even know what he truly wants or needs in a woman — because he never slowed down long enough to get clear on what nourishes his soul.
Instead, he moves on auto-pilot, chasing attraction or ego-based connections.
And even more, he may carry a pattern of focusing on everything “wrong” with a woman, amplifying small flaws until he can no longer see the good.
💡 What you focus on expands.
If you keep looking for the bad, that’s all you’ll see — even in a good woman.
So while he thinks he’s leaving because she’s “not enough,” in truth, he’s running from his own inability to receive love and focus on what’s right.
Sometimes, the partner isn’t bad at all… it’s the lens you’re viewing them through that’s distorted by fear, ego, and unhealed wounds.
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She’s insecure. Men leave insecure women. High Value men are naturally drawn to confident, secure women who trust in Divine Love. When a woman is rooted in fear — always worried another woman will take her man, she unknowingly sends out a vibration that attracts exactly what she fears. Because what you fear, you magnetize
If you’re always afraid of other women, questioning his loyalty, or “testing” him — you push him away energetically. Confidence is QUEEN energy.
Instead, when you stand firm in love and faith, knowing that what is divinely yours can never be taken, you radiate security, confidence, and magnetism.
A true King is loyal to the woman who believes in herself and the power of love—a woman who expects to be honored, adored, and prioritized.
💎 Affirm: “What is mine by Divine Right is always attracted to me, and stays. I am loved, chosen, and secure in love.”
✨ Ladies, this is not about blame. This is about POWER.
If you’ve lost a man or are tired of attracting the wrong ones, this is your wake-up call to shift into your Divine Feminine energy and become the woman a King would never leave.
💋 Ready to embody THAT woman? The one who commands love, respect, and devotion?
👉 Book your Goddess Alignment Call and let’s upgrade your love life forever.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 9, 2025 |
Okay men, let’s be fair. Today, we’re going to have a real conversation about why women leave you—even when you think you’re “a good man.”
Here’s the raw truth:
Many men believe that being invested in words, saying all the right things, and “being all in” emotionally makes them a good man in a relationship.
But being a good man is not just about what YOU think makes you good—it’s about being the man that woman wants and needs.
Problem #1: You Chose a Woman Who Doesn’t Even Know Herself
Let’s start here.
Most women are afraid to admit what they truly want from a man. So they settle for relationships with men who are inadequate for their unspoken needs.
💙 If you want a woman to be happy with you, you need to choose a woman who knows herself. A woman who is honest about her wants, needs, and desires. Otherwise, you’re both doomed from the start.
The Hypergamy Truth Most Men Avoid
Here’s what many men don’t know:
Women are naturally hypergamous. We are designed to submit to, follow, and be under the leadership of a strong, powerful King who provides.
But because of modern society, many women have fought against their nature, becoming their own man. We go after money, chase success, and build empires.
Now she’s making 6-7 figures, and suddenly she feels like she’s the prize. But… without learning real communication skills or feminine embodiment.
So what happens?
She gets with a man, and now it’s 50/50 or 70/30, where she’s paying most of the bills, most of the travel, and lowering her standards because she doesn’t want to “burden” him with her lifestyle.
Now she’s talking down to him, emasculating him, all while telling him he’s a king and trying to “build him up” into the man she needs.
But deep down, he knows she doesn’t fully accept him as he is. — She’s loving him for his potential, not his reality.
💔 This is why those relationships turn sour.
💔 She wanted a King, but tried to raise one…and it backfired.
Let’s Get Real: Women Also Choose “Good Men” Who Can’t Satisfy Them
Sometimes women choose a man who can’t sexually satisfy her because “he’s a good man.”
But eventually she faces the truth: she can’t stay where she doesn’t feel fully satisfied.
What MEN Are Doing Wrong (Pay Attention!)
Now, let’s talk about what men are doing to cause women to walk away.
❌ 1. Being boring, never taking her anywhere nice, and offering no excitement.
If you think showing up, eating dinner, and sitting on the couch is enough, you’re wrong. Women crave romance, fun, surprises, and memories.
❌ 2. Being a 50/50 man.
Most women don’t respect 50/50 men. Period. And even worse—many of those men end up cheating on the very woman who is paying half (or more).
❌ 3. Not knowing how to communicate and express emotions.
Women are emotional creatures. If she doesn’t feel loved, appreciated, and secure, she will eventually seek that love elsewhere.
❌ 4. Cheating and thinking money makes it okay.
Just because you provide doesn’t mean you get a free pass to cheat. Women need loyalty, security, and trust… and once you break that, respect is gone forever.
❌ 5. Letting yourself go.
Looks matter. Women need to stay attracted to you. — Appearance, hygiene, fitness all matter. Staying attractive isn’t shallow, it’s human nature.
❤️ What Women Actually Want: Bonding & Emotional Connection
Men, women crave bonding and intimacy —dates, long conversations, deep vulnerability, and shared experiences.
If you never connect on a deeper level, she won’t stay. She needs to feel emotionally secure with you, not just physically provided for.
Why Women Chase the Top 10% of Men
Here’s the harsh reality:
Women chase the top 10% of men because these men:
✅ Know how to treat a woman
✅ Take care of themselves
✅ Provide luxury, love, leadership, and security
✅ Make her feel emotionally and physically satisfied
✅ Spoil her like she’s special
And YES, even rich men get left if they stop making their woman feel loved, cherished, and desired.
So why wouldn’t every man want to follow the blueprint of the top, most desired men?
Final Word: It’s Not Just About Money, It’s About EMOTIONS
At the end of the day, women leave men because their emotional needs are unmet.
A great man is one who knows how to:
✅ Provide and protect
✅ Lead with love and strength
✅ Be emotionally present and vulnerable when needed
✅ Romance and surprise his woman
✅ Dominate in the bedroom
Balance both the emotional and the material — and you’ll never have to worry about losing a good woman.
💥 Ready to Become the Man She Can’t Leave?
If you’re tired of struggling in relationships and want to become the high-value man who naturally attracts and keeps a feminine, loving woman, stay tuned for my upcoming Men’s Guide to Being a King.
Or message me on social media if you’re ready for private coaching on mastering women, love, leadership, and relationships.
In the meantime book a complimentary Clarity Call
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 3, 2025 |
For years, women have been sold the idea that “equality” in relationships means splitting everything down the middle — bills, responsibilities, effort. But let’s keep it 💯. Does it ever truly feel equal? Does a woman who is handling half the rent, half the groceries, and still managing the emotional, mental, and physical load of the relationship actually have an equal partnership? Or is she just getting the short end of the stick while playing the role of both a provider and a nurturer, for a man who doesn’t even know her value?
At this point, a woman might as well just get a roommate. Think about it: A roommate helps pay the bills, keeps their space tidy, and respects boundaries. But a roommate doesn’t expect submission, devotion, or intimacy. Yet, in a 50/50 relationship, a woman is often expected to do everything a wife does while still carrying a financial load that doesn’t allow her to fully rest in her feminine energy.
So the real question is: Why are women signing up for this? Let’s break down why the 50/50 relationship model is a scam and why women deserve better. 💎
🔥 Like… what’s the actual incentive?! If a woman is gonna be paying half the bills, stressed out, and still expected to cook, clean, and submit—she might as well just get a roommate and keep her peace, freedom, and sexual autonomy.
A roommate:
✅ Splits the bills 50/50
✅ Respects personal space
✅ Doesn’t expect submission, nurturing, or emotional labor
✅ Doesn’t require sex, emotional support, or daily catering
A 50/50 man:
❌ Expects you to split the bills like a man but serve him like a wife
❌ Still wants submission, loyalty, and emotional labor
❌ Still wants sex on demand
❌ Will often still act entitled & expect you to make him feel like a king
❌ Likely won’t give you financial security, protection, or deep masculine leadership
So tell me… what’s the difference? Because in a true high-value relationship, the man should be providing more than just splitting rent.
A Divine Feminine Woman Knows:
✨ A real, intentional masculine man wants to provide.
✨ A high-value man sees taking care of his woman as a privilege.
✨ When a woman is provided for, cherished, and protected, she flourishes.
✨ Love is not a financial transaction, but a man’s ability to lead & protect naturally shows up in how he provides.
Sis, you are not meant to be in a financial struggle partnership—you are meant to be in a divine union where a man leads, provides, and nurtures the home while you lean into your feminine essence, beauty, magnetism, and peace.
If a woman is paying half, stressing like a man, and still expected to cater to her man—she needs to ask herself… why is she signing up for the short end of the stick?
💡 Moral of the story: If a man isn’t stepping up, you might as well get a roommate and call it a day. 🙌🏽🔥💎
THE REALITY OF BEING IN A 50/50 RELATIONSHIP
😤 The truth is, 50/50 sounds nice in theory, but in real life, it doesn’t exist the way people want to believe it does.
The HARSH Reality of 50/50 Relationships for Women:
1️⃣ Women still end up doing MORE. Even in so-called “equal” relationships, the woman still carries more of the mental load, emotional labor, household duties, and often child-rearing. It’s not really 50/50—it’s pay half, work double.
2️⃣ 50/50 is a scam created to weaken feminine energy. High-value, intentional masculine men know their role as providers. If a man wants an equal partner financially, then he better be equal in everything else—including housework, cooking, emotional support, and nurturing her needs. But we both know that’s never how it plays out.
3️⃣ Men don’t respect women they “struggle” with. Most men who push 50/50 don’t even admire the woman for her contributions—they start feeling like she’s another dude in the house. Meanwhile, when a man provides, leads, and protects, he naturally values the woman he’s taking care of.
4️⃣ A man’s natural instinct is to provide. If a man is comfortable watching his woman stress over bills, he is not in his highest masculine energy. A real man finds joy in making sure his woman is stress-free. That’s just facts.
5️⃣ Women are built for creation, not survival. A feminine woman flourishes in ease, safety, and security. When she’s worried about rent, bills, and keeping the lights on, she can’t fully lean into her softness, creativity, and divine purpose.
So NO, I won’t lie to people.
A relationship should be mutually fulfilling, but that does not mean a woman should be pulling half the financial weight while also carrying the entire emotional, spiritual, and household weight.
💎 True balance is:
✨ A man leads, provides, and protects
✨ A woman nurtures, uplifts, and magnetizes
✨ Both feel safe, valued, and appreciated
A queen doesn’t go half on the kingdom — she rests in her throne while her king builds it. 👑🔥
So if a man wants equal financial contribution, he better be equal in every single way. Otherwise, like I said… a roommate makes more sense. PERIOD. 😌💅🏽
💎 Ready to Attract a High-Value King Who Provides? 💎
Sis, let’s be real — you’re not here to struggle, chase, or beg for love. You’re meant to be cherished, adored, and provided for by a masculine man who sees your worth. But if you keep attracting men who want 50/50, it’s time for a shift.
That’s why I created “5 Shifts to Attract a High-Value King Who Provides”— a powerful guide designed to help you:
✔️ Stop wasting time on men who can’t meet your standards
✔️ Shift your mindset to attract a masculine provider effortlessly
✔️ Embody your divine feminine magnetism so the RIGHT men pursue YOU
✔️ Position yourself as the kind of woman a King chooses for life
🔥 This isn’t free — because free gets ignored. This is an investment in your future. 🔥
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 23, 2025 |
Ever found yourself begging a man to love you? ❤️
A 36-year-old client came to me, exhausted from chasing her husband’s love.
The divorce papers were already filed.
He had moved on with another woman.
And there she was ….. crying, broken, and stuck on repeat:
“HE did this… HE said that… HE left me…” It was He, He, He…
I let her get it all out.
Then, I asked her one simple question:
👉 “What is it that you really wanted from him?”
She wiped her tears and said:
💔 “I wanted him to love me… the way I loved him.”
And that’s when everything changed.
I helped her see the truth…that she had chosen this relationship, shown up in a certain way, and that the real work wasn’t about him. It was about her. Our work begun.
Fast forward a few months…
She transformed.
She butterflied. 🦋
Her energy shifted.
And guess what?
Her husband came crawling back, asking to cancel the divorce.
Because the NEW version of her, the one overflowing with deep self-love, was the woman he had always been searching for.
Here’s the truth, ladies…
Instead of begging a man to love you, pour that love into yourself.
The problem isn’t him. It’s the reflection of your inner world.
A man cannot give you something you don’t already have within you.
Because if you truly loved yourself, you would have never chosen a man you had to beg for love in the first place.
When you love yourself unconditionally, your soul radiates a magnetic energy that pulls in a love that’s deep, soulful, and fully conscious.
💖 Are you ready to transform your love life?
Book Your Goddess Alignment Call now
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 12, 2025 |
Just because you’re a high-value man doesn’t mean women are lining up to LOVE you.
Most men can do nothing for a woman beyond spending money on her. You might have wealth, status, and success, but you don’t have the ism to truly stimulate her heart, mind, body and soul.
And just because you have money doesn’t mean she’s going to fall in love with you.
Money alone doesn’t make a man lovable, just like money alone doesn’t make a woman lovable.
You still have to bring more to the table.
You might have a line of women who want to date you, but how many of them want to LOVE you?
🎲 How many are emotionally, spiritually, and energetically aligned with you?
Know the difference.
The real problem is EGO.
If you’re a man making 6 or 7 figures consistently and can’t find ONE woman you connect with – who loves you as deeply as you love her – it’s not the women. It’s you.
This world is backwards.
Everyone knows the value of money, assets, and status…
But almost no one understands the value of LOVE, which is the most precious currency of them all.
💔 What’s even more interesting is that:
✔️ The more money men make, the more disconnected they become from love. Instead of using their position to find a woman who a woman whose essence elevates him, and inspires him to be better, they use it to separate themselves from love entirely.
✔️ The more successful women become, the more masculine they get, which makes them unattractive to the best men. So they end up choosing from who is available and those be some of the worst men…
And yet… both men and women swear they don’t need help.
That’s the ego talking.
Everyone needs help moving out of their own way.
When you’re ready to stop letting your success keep you from love, and start using it to create the life you really desire, message me.
💜 It’s time to let go of what’s holding you back and step into something real, that you can feel.
THIS IS HOW IT GOES:
A man elevates a woman by creating the foundation, security, and leadership that allows her to thrive in her feminine energy.
In return:
A woman inspires a man by being his muse, through her softness, her love, and her ability to make him feel like a King.
The disconnect happens when men with wealth and success separate themselves from love, often due to ego or fear. They use their position to avoid vulnerability and genuine connection. Instead of seeking a woman whose essence inspires them to be better, they chase superficial connections that keep them emotionally unfulfilled.
When a man chooses a woman who is emotionally, spiritually, and energetically aligned with him, she doesn’t elevate him in a masculine sense, she elevates his soul.
He’s still leading, providing, and holding space for her. But her presence inspires him to reach his highest potential.
A man elevates a woman by creating a life where she can rest in her feminine essence, and she inspires him by being the kind of woman who awakens his heart, his desire, and his higher purpose.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 11, 2025 |
Most men simply want to have sex, because that’s an easy way to do something pleasurable.
But they refuse to do the work to find the woman who makes his heart beat, one who takes his breath away. The one who mentally stimulates his mind. The one who can please him in so many ways, that the relationship would last a lifetime.
She requires that he put in more effort than he’s used to… And I’m not talking about simply taking her out to eat, giving her money and buying her nice gifts. I’m talking about being so tuned in with GOD that you are told how to capture her spirit and bond with her very soul. That kind of connection is on a whole other level. It’s the soulmate level that most people have never experienced.
It’s the land where I perform best. It’s a realm that I can take you to.
People generally don’t mind doing hard work in order to gain monetary results and success in business, but when it comes to relationships, most are quite willing to settle for:
– relationships with no love
– situationships
– sex with no emotions
– having no sex life
Those who are happily married, in love, and succeeding in both your business and relationship should definitely be feeling yourself.
Especially if the man is providing…… But of course you should feel extra good about yourself.
And for those who want your dream life of love and success, I can help you remove whatever is blocking you so you can quickly manifest what you want. I can help you open your heart, and expand it so that you are able to experience new levels of love.
Your next level of happiness is a few shifts away. I would take you it’s one shift away, but that would be a lie. lol
The truth is, love and success require the same thing: intentionality.
You don’t stumble into a thriving business or a dream relationship. You create it. Yet, most people are willing to grind for years in their careers but refuse to put the same energy into creating the love they truly want.
❤️ Here’s what no one tells you:
When a man finds the woman who inspires his soul, she elevates everything in his life: his purpose, his wealth, his happiness. She’s not just his partner; she’s his legacy.
But here’s the catch:
She’s not sitting in his comfort zone.
She’s not settling for breadcrumbs, half-hearted efforts, or surface-level connections.
The woman who can transform his life is the one who requires him to rise to her level – emotionally, spiritually, and energetically. That’s why so many men settle… because growth requires effort, and effort requires a decision.
💙 The same is true for YOU.
You can keep hoping for the love and success you want, or you can decide that you’re done with settling in ANY area of your life.
The moment you decide to raise your standards, everything shifts. You stop entertaining mediocrity. You start attracting abundance in love, in business, and in life.
Right now you THINK, you’ve made the decision to raise your standards, but you actually haven’t. 😘
When you work with me I help you make that decision to be intentional a lot faster and equip you with a strategy to attract your match fast. 💋
Think of it this way: while a flower will naturally bloom when the conditions are right, a gardener can help ensure the soil is fertile, the weeds are removed, and the flower is nourished with sunlight and water. I am the gardener who can show you Eden while you’re still on this earth. Working with me creates the conditions for your divine timing to manifest faster, with more ease and joy.
You Ready?
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About Paul
Paul is absolutely one of my favorite clients. When Paul came to me, he’d just turned 42, and told me a story of going to a seminar, listening to a woman speak, and suddenly realizing that he doesn’t know everything. He realized that women often see things from a different perspective and maybe it was time to listen to a woman.
Paul sought out a woman who could give him some understanding about his relationship patterns. Most women were easy to him. He’d buy them gifts, show them his nice car, his nice house, flash his million dollar smile, pay a couple of her bills and the panties came off.
Women were easy for Paul. He felt him charmed mostly attracted women who thought they were in love, but they were merely in love with what he was doing for them.
Randomly one day he came across my post on social media and knew I was the answer. He immediately messaged me and asked for the invoice to help him find “this elusive Goddess wife that you talk about.” where his exact words.
I laughed, sent the invoice and Paul paid in full that same day.
On the first call I asked Paul what was the difference between a woman who loves him vs a woman who loves what he does for her., He said he could tell by the questions they asked him. It wasn’t by their doing, because most of the women tried to show him that they were the best pick for him. While other women were gorgeous, quiet, non combative, but didn’t offer anything that would enhance Paul’s life.
hmmmmm.
Interesting. So i sat down with Paul and eventually we touched on his childhood. His mom taught him to be good to women. But what she didn’t teach him was how to choose a woman that would be good to him…
I asked Paul, what kind of woman would be good for him? He initially said he didn’t know…
He gave it some thought, responded and I stayed quiet, allowing Paul to have his own revelation. He realized his response was so surface based…. A fallacy.
I then asked Paul, “When was the last time you felt deeply seen and appreciated in a relationship? What made that connection stand out?”
So then we got real. Exactly 36 days later, Paul met a woman named Nimasha. He called her “Mashaa.”
Maasha was beautiful, a woman of GOD. Intelligent, fun, feminine, had a nice body and owned a spirit led bookstore.
He talked about how long they stayed on the phone talking about various things. He delighted in the questions Mashaa would ask him. Paul said her energy felt so soft, open and inviting. Mashaa was a breathe of fresh air that he hadn’t experienced before.
By the time that had sex he’d aiready felt deeply connected to her and knew she was the one.
He’s been slowly releasing his hot girl collection despite Massha never asking him to.
Paul is even talking about an engagement soon.
He’s out ring shopping and Facetiming me asking me ‘Kissy, do you think she’ll like this princess cut?”
Had to tell him how to be slick in finding out what she likes..
Then he’s like “Great! Now it’s time to plan the perfect proposal, cause I can’t be proposing to my dream woman at the house, like these lames do.” lol.. Paul is hilarious. It’s really nice to see him become a match for the love he desires.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 9, 2025 |
I know everyone else has been trying to rock you to sleep and tell you that you’re not worthy. But I came to wake you up. I came to change the game.
Listen, You’re THAT woman. Gorgeous. Successful. The one everyone looks up to. But no one really sees the moments when you’re doubting yourself…”
Like that time you were head over heels for that guy. He was charming, fine as wine, smelled like Heaven, and was everything you thought you wanted. But then he started pulling back, making you second-guess every move you made.
✔️ You gave him your best energy.
✔️ You showed him you’re a catch.
✔️ You bent over backward to show him what an amazing partner you’d be…
But instead of stepping up, he left you feeling like you weren’t enough.
And here’s the part you don’t want to admit:
You STILL think about him. You’re STILL attracted to him.
💔 But why? Because you’re drawn to the potential he represents. Not the reality of what he’s offering. Which is less than what you subconsciously know you’re worth.
And then there’s your business…
You’ve poured your heart into it. You’ve done the work, taken the courses, and shown up consistently… You hit 6 figures, but that wasn’t the goal.
Why aren’t you a millionaire yet?
You’re spinning in circles, juggling 20 things at once, and wondering what piece of the puzzle you’re missing.
You know you’re destined for MORE. But you’re stuck in your own head, overthinking, doubting, and staying in patterns that keep you just out of reach.
You go to bed every night, feeling frustrated, wondering when you will ever get there to the life you’ve always dreamed of living.
Here’s What’s Happening:
💎 It’s not you. It’s your clarity and alignment.
You’re playing at 50% of your power, stuck in loops of proving yourself to men who don’t deserve you and hustling for money instead of receiving it with ease. You don’t mind working hard. You’ve been doing it for years. But look where it’s gotten you.
Yes, it has got you far. Very far. You’ve accomplished miracles. But you know GOD has more for you. Your next level of greatness won’t come from sheer hustle. The beautiful, loving relationship with your soulmate King won’t appear by you dimming your light and settling for less.
💎 High-value men and high-value money both require the same thing: Alignment to your deepest truth.
👉 A man who is generous, wealthy, and ready to claim you isn’t interested in potential or a woman whose still trying to figure out WHO she is. He wants a woman who embodies her worth.
👉 A multi-million-dollar business doesn’t come from grinding harder. It comes from clarity, strategy, and feminine flow.
✨ Now here is the beauty of it all. The same energy that attracts the RIGHT man will also unlock your next level of wealth and success.
It all comes down to who you are being in this world.
Time to Embody The Divine Feminine Goddess
Love, it’s time to shift everything.
Imagine:
✔️ A man who adores you, makes your heart beat, provides for, and protects you without you having to lift a finger to prove yourself.
✔️ A business that finally feels aligned, where the clients and money flow to you without overworking.
✔️ Waking up every day living the life of your dreams… Feeling powerful, magnetic, and clear about your next move. Noticing how things now seem to be so effortless for you.
💋 This is what I do for my clients. It’s time for you to stop playing small and start stepping into the life you deserve.
Know your worth. Show your worth. You are God. You are Power. You are Unbreakable.
Who cares what another woman thinks or says? Everything about you is >>>> than her.
What does a man want? A trophy. I am —– The Ultimate Trophy.
I’ve always known that. You’ve always known that about yourself too.
Now it’s time to show THEM.
- Not by doing what everyone else does.
- Not by being clingy or overly emotional.
- Not by worrying about what he’s doing outside of you.
Your unbothered confidence will drive men crazy.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jan 22, 2025 |
Saw this woman about 7 months ago announce that she’d hit 7 figures in her business, and she wrote a post telling her “future husband” that she’s going to be a great business partner for him.
At the time I said nothing… But in my head I was like “Awwwwe. poor baby.. She’s actually thinks that post will attract a King in her life.”
I wanted so badly to comment and tell her the post probably wouldn’t attract the kind of man she wants.
But spirit was like “Goddess. Stay out of non-client business.” I’d already offered her my services and she declined… Honestly it seemed like she was anxious to show me that she didn’t need me…
She found a guy and started posting “couples” photos. It was “bae,” this and “bae” that. All of her followers were like “Yes, Boss Lady! You finding love is so inspiring.”
Later she posted about helping her “boyfriend” build his business to 6 figures, and ended up catching him cheating in the car with another woman…. Chick was on his lap riding and everything, right there in the parking lot…
On Facebook I see many women makes these posts begging men to come “wife” her because she’s going to be a good business partner… (Advertising to get used) Or the women who advertise who they don’t need luxury or anything else from a man, claiming they simply want “love, attention and time.” I smh at these pick me videos that men are so quick to share. Because most men of course want a woman who is sleep, is honest about her desires and is willing to settle for less, only to later be disappointed in him, cause she magically thought he was going to level up and give her her secret desires.
Anyway, back to the story. High Value Men are looking for a feminine partner… Not a business partner. He can get a male business partner.
He wants his woman to have feminine qualities to offer him…
Honestly, ya’ll would be better off advertising blowjobs.
I learned my lesson about thinking my brilliance and success in business plus my good looks was my bragging point for relationships.
Now all I offer a man is my beauty and feminine essence. Everything else he receives will come as a surprise, after getting to know me. There is no need to advertise anything else… Because if he can’t feel her feminine essence and energy simply in her being, he’s unable to emotionally connect to her. Which means everything else that you offer now doesn’t count.
Which is why most women can not get a high value man who provides. Men provide for women with feminine energy. Women who can receive from him.
A high value man’s dick does not get hard at the thought of marrying you cause you say you would make a good business partner.
Any man who responds to that request is going to d*ck you down real good, have you going 50/50 and running his business while he spends money on the side chick. And the side chick won’t have a quarter of your brain or power. It will leave you confused.
You want a man who values your brilliance and business skillsl. But first you must have something to offer him that he feels his valuable….
My question is why do such women choose to ignore feminine advice, level up advice and literally any advice that will help her soften her feminine essence and attract a King into her life?
I’ll get to that answer… But first I look back at myself and I ignored feminine advice in the past, before I shifted into divine feminine Goddess embodiment, because I would see the most unattractive women teaching femininity. They would always say why pretty women couldn’t get or keep a man. And that didn’t resonate with me because I never had a problem getting or keeping a man.
In fact, I’ve never been dumped. Despite that, I ended up breaking up with one of my soulmates and broke my own heart. I asked myself “Why do I keep dumping men?” Men want to marry me and everything. They are willing to give me exactly what I want. They even spoil me, cook for me, take me out nice places and buy me nice things.
In my exploration I began to understand purpose, alignment, clarity and most of all femininity. I realized that I was a perfectionist and put a lot of pressure on those around me to be perfect… I also talked recklessly at times and emasculated men.
Anyway I received divine feminine coaching and magically I started to attract men who would tell me that I have “wife energy.” But that’s a different conversation and a level of embodiment that most women simply will never have, because it requires a ton of inner and outer work.
WHY BRILLIANT WOMEN IGNORE FEMININE WISDOM
When a successful, intelligent woman ignores wisdom that’s all over social media telling her to tune into her femininity, this points to a larger issue about conditioning, misalignment, and misunderstanding feminine power.
Here’s why some women struggle to embrace the advice that would truly help them level up:
1. Societal Conditioning & Overemphasis on Achievement
- Many women are raised to believe their value is tied to their achievements…. Education, career success, and accolades. They’re taught that being “independent” and showing they can “hold their own” will earn them love and respect.
- Not only does this make most successful women believe they are better than drop dead gorgeous women who have “nothing to offer, but nice IG pics.. But this mindset also pushes them into their masculine energy, where they lead with doing, proving, and building, instead of resting in their essence.
- DOING and pushing seems natural and norm.. She believes working harder means she’s worthy…
- Many successful women genuinely believe that advertising their business skills or financial contributions will attract a high-value man, not realizing this often repels Kings who seek softness, love, and peace.
Listen, even me on social media, I’m like “Hey.. I keep running my platform trying to level women up, as a sacrifice to myself.. Even this post, me helping women again, when i could totally be spending my time doing something that will attract high value men to me.
2. Fear of Vulnerability
- Embracing feminine energy requires trusting, receiving, and surrendering. This starts with trusting GOD and trusting yourself. Concepts that can feel foreign or even unsafe to women who’ve been burned in relationships or told to “never depend on a man, and know that the bible says “faith without works is dead” Relaxing, trusting, learning back. letting go and letting GOD just doesn’t seem like a real path to her.
- Many women feel that leading with their feminine energy leaves them vulnerable to being hurt, used, or undervalued, so they overcompensate by trying to control the dynamic with their masculine traits. And this is totally understandable because the truth is men do like women who have their own money and women who don’t need them.. (To a degree… what I said isn’t surface. Surface cause most women don’t know how to receive from a man, which makes her not a choice for a viable mate.)
3. Misunderstanding “Value”
- These women equate their worth with what they can do for a man, not who they are as a woman.
- They believe offering their business savvy or financial contributions is what will make a man commit, when in reality, a man of means already values those qualities in himself and doesn’t need them in a partner. His woman has to bring something else that he values.
4. Insecurity & Lack of Self-Worth
- Deep down, many women who lead with “I’m a great business partner” or “I’ll build him up” don’t feel their feminine essence alone is enough. And it’s not… Cause again, it requires vulnerability and the willingness to be seen, Naked…
- They’ve never been taught to trust that their softness, radiance, beauty, and presence are the most valuable things they can offer the right man. Again, most women don’t have softness, radiance, beauty, nor presence… Yet darn there every woman thinks she does, due to filters.. But in person, she doesn’t look soft and radiant at all. The difference is the women who are drop dead gorgeous in real life, have that going for them… But that doesn’t mean she still isn’t secure and lacks self-worth. Anybody can get the work!
5. Lack of Representation
- Many women don’t see examples of what it looks like to embody Divine Feminine energy while maintaining independence and success.
- They assume it’s an either/or choice: either I’m a powerhouse businesswoman, or I’m a soft feminine Goddess.
Without role models or mentors who live in harmony between the two, they stick to what they know — masculine energy… because it feels safer.
But i find this weird because those who follow me know that I am the embodiment of both. But I guess many don’t see that being a reality for them, because unlike them, I really did that inner work… I had the outer work on lock over a decade ago, and the success tooo. But thankfully I knew to not stop there.
Most successful women literally stopped at the success part. They skipped health, beauty, femininity, relationship mastery and everything else.
WHY? Because our society puts so much pressure on us to succeed. So of course one would believe that success and money is all they need to be worthy of having a great mate. Yet what’s interesting is that to those very same women, some of them have met met with money and deemed his not good enough, because his character and social skills sucked.
But because she deems herself to be a “nice” giving woman, along with success, she believes she is the ultimate mate. Never once thinking that maybe she is missing the attributes that good men look for.
Even down to cooking…. Like most successful women know they run from the kitchen. A man can’t even get a hot home cooked meal out of her.
Successful women are simply behind in relationships…
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- Women who struggle with this don’t always realize they’re in their masculine energy or sabotaging their relationships.
- There is a difference between leading with your essence vs. leading with your résumé. Understanding this shift can change everything. the Solution
Sis, he doesn’t care how many degrees you have, how many zeros are in your bank account, or what you can build with him. High-value men are drawn to your softness, your joy, your essence. Because those are things he can’t buy or build on his own.
Those are the things most of the women he meets doesn’t have. Feminine energy is the key to unlocking the relationship you desire. Once you have that, add your success and baby you are unstoppable!
- What’s Possible: Imagine a man who worships the ground you walk on. Not because you built something for him, but because your presence alone inspires him to be more, do more, and give more. That’s what happens when you master your feminine energy.This allows a man to actually be a leader and a King for you, vs you trying to coddle him and take care of him like you’re the alpha in the
relationship.. You finally get to relax and be a woman who is covered… Seriously, imagine that.
- Many women don’t listen to advice about softening their essence because they feel judged or attacked. Being told you’re imperfect definitely doesn’t feel good. But let’s face the truth.. Pain is often your awakening.. Cause when things are soft, easy and breezy you often ignore it, cause you have a belief that things must be hard in order for it to be worth anything, including yourself and your love life.
Just think.. When has love ever been easy for you?
TRUTH BOMB:
I get it. You’ve worked hard to become the powerhouse you are, and you want a man who values your brilliance. The truth is, a high-value man will admire all of that, but what makes him commit is how you make him feel. Feminine energy is your superpower, and when you embody it, you’ll never feel like you have to prove your worth again.
Not even in business… I went from trying to prove myself in business to finally releasing, leaning back and saying “Hey. If they miss out that’s on them.” Those same people who miss out end up paying another coach thousands and still don’t get results.
Maybe that’s their path to waste $50K, before they realize they should’ve came to you… But you could’ve saved them time and money, by simply owning your worth and charging $50K for your services in the first place…. Cause honey offering your services and magic for $3,000 seems way to good to be true… Which is why she didn’t buy from you… But notice she bought from others… Many others… Peep game.
- ABUNDANCE
- I am the embodiment of the balance between success and feminine energy. Leading with my essence has allowed me to attract abundance, opportunities, connections, and soul aligned relationships.
The Root of Your Resistance
Women ignore feminine advice because they’ve been conditioned to value masculine traits over feminine ones. They see their feminine side as weak, unimportant, or unworthy of love.
When realize your brilliance and your beauty can coexist in harmony, you’ll start to see the path to attracting the King you desire.
