At some point you have to stop talking about your ex. He doesn’t give AF, and neither do the people that you’re complaining to on social media. Even your friends are tired of hearing about him.
As a heart-centered person with a big heart, I understand exactly how you feel. One of my break-ups was so painful. I loved that man so much and thought he would get some act right eventually. And even though I dumped him, it didn’t change how much that break-up hurt me.
I’ve learned a lot about myself and men since then. If you want fast healing simply send me a message to work with me. Otherwise keep reading.
One of the hardest things to accept about men, especially the narcissistic ones, is that they move on quickly after a break-up.
I know you want him to care, but he doesn’t. He’s moved on and isn’t thinking about you. So don’t you think it wise to CLEAR THAT SPACE and allow a new man in to serve you? Aren’t you tired of COCKBLOCKING yourself?
The thing about men is that while women are fascinated over the chemistry that somehow just didn’t work out, men move on fast with new women and literally can care less about how much you miss him. He has his tongue on the next woman’s clit. 🤷🏽♀️ Happy as he can be. Then it will be the next woman and the next woman… It’s a cycle with most of these men, that you should be glad that you opted out of. You never had to wait for or work hard to receive love in the first place. That’s the first part of the mis-alignment.
While a man has moved on good women tend to constantly think about what was and what could’ve been. While it seems harmless, you have to let that go after a few months. It’s a BLOCK.
Sure you’ll still attract MEN but you won’t attract your DREAM MAN because you’re holding someone else in that space. Freeing them frees YOURSELF.
THE NICE GIRL VERSION OF MY SPEECH
Are you caught in a cycle of reminiscing about your ex, replaying memories, and secretly hoping he’ll come back? It’s time to break free from the chains of the past and reclaim your power.
Release the Hold: Your ex has moved on, and it’s time for you to do the same. While it’s natural to feel hurt and longing for what once was, clinging onto the past only prolongs your pain. Take a deep breath and acknowledge that holding onto someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings is hindering your growth and happiness.
Embrace the Truth: Men, especially narcissistic ones, often move on quickly after a breakup. Instead of dwelling on why he doesn’t care, shift your focus inward. Recognize your own worth and prioritize your well-being. You deserve someone who values and cherishes you, not someone who treats you as an afterthought.
Clear the Space: Holding onto memories of your ex blocks new opportunities for love and happiness. It’s time to declutter your heart and create space for new beginnings. Release the emotional baggage weighing you down and open yourself up to the possibility of finding true love.
Shift Your Perspective: Instead of dwelling on what could’ve been, shift your focus to what lies ahead. Visualize the kind of relationship you desire and the qualities you seek in a partner. By letting go of the past, you create room for new experiences and connections to enter your life.
Invite Love In: Freeing yourself from the grip of your ex allows you to welcome love into your life with open arms. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and empowerment as you step into a brighter, more fulfilling future. Trust that the universe has something beautiful in store for you, and believe that you are worthy of love and happiness.
Take Action: Release the hold of your ex and reclaim your power. Let go of the past, embrace the present, and step boldly into the future. Surround yourself with positivity, self-love, and supportive relationships as you embark on the journey of healing and transformation.
Remember, you hold the key to your own happiness. By letting go of what no longer serves you, you create space for miracles to unfold. Trust in the process, believe in yourself, and embrace the freedom that comes with releasing your ex. Your journey to love and fulfillment begins now.
True or False: Women who say they don’t need a man have never had a real man.
It’s a thought-provoking statement that challenges our beliefs and experiences. While independence and self-sufficiency are admirable qualities, we understand that deep down, every woman desires authentic love, connection, and a fulfilling relationship. If you’ve been hurt, experienced heartbreak, or suffered from narcissistic abuse or toxic relationships, we have an extraordinary opportunity for you to heal, grow, and transform your belief system.
Embrace True Empowerment: Discover the Healing Power Within
Have you ever considered the profound impact a quality man can have in a woman’s life? While some women may confidently declare that they don’t need a man, I can’t help but wonder if they have truly recognized and appreciated the tremendous value that a quality man can bring. Once you’ve experienced the genuine worth of having a remarkable man by your side, you’ll come to understand how he can enhance your life in countless ways, making it easier and more fulfilling.
When we speak of a quality man, we’re referring to someone who embodies integrity, respect, support, and genuine care for your well-being. Such a man can bring immeasurable benefits to your life, including:
Emotional support and companionship: A quality man can provide you with a loving and supportive presence, someone to share your joys and challenges, and a companion who truly understands and appreciates you.
Partnership and teamwork: With the right man, life becomes a beautiful journey of partnership and shared responsibilities. Together, you can navigate life’s ups and downs, building a strong foundation of teamwork and mutual support.
Growth and personal development: A quality man inspires and encourages your personal growth, fostering an environment where both of you can continuously learn, evolve, and become the best versions of yourselves.
Strength and stability: Having a quality man in your life can provide a sense of stability, both emotionally and practically. He can be a pillar of strength during difficult times and a source of unwavering support.
Shared experiences and adventures: With the right man, life becomes a tapestry of shared experiences, adventures, and unforgettable moments. Together, you can create cherished memories and explore the world with a partner who adds depth and richness to your journey.
It’s essential to recognize that desiring a quality man doesn’t diminish your independence or diminish your worth as a woman. Instead, it amplifies your life, adding an extra layer of love, support, and fulfillment.
So, if you haven’t yet experienced the incredible value that a quality man can bring, keep an open mind and heart. Embrace the possibility of finding a partner who complements and uplifts you, making life’s journey all the more beautiful.
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Heartbreak, narcissistic abuse, and toxic relationships can leave deep scars on our emotional well-being. The pain, confusion, and trauma can be overwhelming, making it difficult to imagine a life free from the grip of these experiences. However, healing is possible, and it begins with acknowledging our worth and taking steps towards self-renewal. In fact my journey of coaching actually started with me healing a heartbreak.
The thing about school is that we are not taught three of the most important things in life. Financial management, how to love, and how to heal when love doesn’t go your way.
Anyone equipped with this 3 skills, chances are will live a really good life.
A really good life is what most people who seek a high value mate want to live. The entire process to being able to maintain a high vibration and becoming magnetic enough to attract high vibrational soulmates starts with HEALING.
In this blog post, we will explore the 4 Step journey of healing, offer insights, and introduce a transformative class designed to guide you towards reclaiming your power to attract divine love and finding inner peace.
Step 1: Understanding the Impact
Unveiling the emotional aftermath: The profound impact of heartbreak, narcissistic abuse, and toxic relationships on our mental and emotional health.
Recognizing the signs: Identifying the red flags and patterns of toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse.
The road to healing: Embracing the journey of healing and personal growth.
Step 2: Reclaiming Your Power
Breaking free from the past: Letting go of the pain, resentment, and self-blame associated with heartbreak and toxic relationships.
Establishing healthy boundaries: Empowering yourself by setting clear boundaries and nurturing self-respect.
Rebuilding self-esteem: Cultivating self-love, self-compassion, and rediscovering your inherent worth.
Step 3: Finding Inner Peace
Embracing forgiveness: The transformative power of forgiveness in releasing the emotional burden and finding inner peace.
Practicing self-care: Prioritizing self-care rituals and activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul.
Cultivating a positive mindset: Harnessing the power of positive thinking and reframing beliefs to create a more fulfilling life.
Final Phase: Attracting Your Dream Mate
Self-Reflection and Clarity: Before attracting a dream mate, it’s crucial to develop a clear understanding of yourself and what you truly desire in a partner. Take time for self-reflection and identify your values, priorities, and non-negotiables in a relationship. Consider the qualities, characteristics, and shared goals that are important to you. This process of self-discovery will provide a solid foundation for attracting a partner who aligns with your desires.
Personal Growth and Becoming the Best Version of Yourself: Invest in personal growth and development to become the best version of yourself. Focus on enhancing your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment, cultivate self-confidence, and nurture self-love. By prioritizing your own growth and happiness, you radiate positive energy and become an attractive and magnetic presence.
Aligning Your Vibrations and Taking Inspired Action: Align your vibrations with the energy of your dream mate by practicing gratitude, visualization, and positive affirmations. Imagine yourself already in a fulfilling relationship with your ideal partner, feeling the emotions and experiences associated with it. This helps to attract compatible energy and opportunities into your life. Additionally, take inspired action by actively participating in social activities, joining communities or groups aligned with your interests, and being open to meeting new people. Engaging in activities that resonate with your passions and values increases the likelihood of crossing paths with potential partners who share similar aspirations.
Remember, attracting a dream mate is a journey that requires patience, self-love, and authenticity. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself and trust that the right person will enter your life at the perfect time.
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There are people in this world who have lived and loved, and there are people who have never loved because they are detached and claim happiness in their relationship.
For those who have truly loved, that gift of giving of yourself has grown you like no other. But the pain you had to undergo to get that growth, lets talk about that.
Have you ever had a hell of a breakup that feels like your whole life is draining out from you? Where you feel you’ve lost your entire soul and your best friend too. Where you can’t eat, you can’t sleep and going out to hang with people simply makes it worse? Where you feel pain coursing through the veins of your arms? All the while wondering, how could he destroy such a beautiful relationship? You thought you would be together forever. At least you wanted to….
Even worse, you have no desire to feel this pain of heartbreak. You throw yourself into work and “wait” for the pain to go away, to no avail. 6 months later you’re still in phucking pain, and uninterested in dating. Meanwhile the ex who just couldn’t seem to do right by you, is happily in a relationship with someone new. You look at the calendar like “Yo son, it wasn’t even 60 days since our breakup, before you hopped into bed with someone new!” Then suddenly you realize you were never fully loved. You don’t even want anyone to touch you. 12 months later you’re still in a kind of pain. But you don’t want your ex back. You can’t go back. Truth be told, although you were madly in love with them, you know you had to let go of them, and chose yourself.
Being smart enough to understand self-love and choosing to pick yourself first, means that you had the strength to break your own heart. Sometimes you even tried to get out of the relationship and let go before your heart got broken too bad. But of course it was too late.
Darkness comes because you’ve loved. The more you love, the more you suffer.
Now you’re walking through a sort of hell, trying to find your way out to the other side. Life starts coming at you fast. You start rapidly changing in ways you never even imagine. Heartbreak starts to show you how strong and amazing you are, and how beautiful the depths of your soul. As you heal you start to attract more beautiful souls who are a reflection of you. You even start attracting better men who are more aligned with you and appreciate the divine gifts you bring. And you break down crying all over again, wondering where have all of these people been all of your life? Like why couldn’t they have shown up years ago? WTF is wrong with the Universe? Why does it suddenly magically decide to bring you these beautiful souls only AFTER you’ve invested in yet another heartbreak?
At this point, you can’t seem to shake it, so you get used to pain, willingly or unwillingly because once your heart is broken, it will never be the same.
With this closing chapter, your ex moves on to cause more chaos in his unhealed, cheating life. Meanwhile you’ve changed so much, that now your standards have gone up. You start to have some gratitude for yourself and the magnificence of you as a brilliant, beautiful, loving, kind, human being. You keep changing and allow grace and peace into your life.
At this point you’ll never take your ex back. You can’t. You went through too much pain for them. They forced you to choose yourself over them, when they could’ve easily chosen your relationship and to do right by you.
Now you have doubts about people. Even though you’re open to love you notice red flags immediately. You are uninterested in anyone who shows up to show you dry love and dry effort. Even though you are heartbroken, you can never settle for less than love. You can’t. For you know that even the little bit of love you experienced was better than the lack of love that most romantic relationships seem to dwell in.
Instead you become grateful for your wonderful like. You pick up the pieces and know everything is working out for you. You are blessed. You are a powerful creator and you know that the next time you will get it right. You know now that you will find yet another ‘The One’ from God knows where. But you know he’s out there, somewhere. But you’re not the same person you’re better. You’ve grown closer to source. Your new mature view of love, knows that you matter more than Mr. so called Perfect. You will never again allow another man in your life who fakes it till he makes it, cause you know he’ll never make it, if he didn’t mold himself into a King well before he met you.
Even if you are in a relationship, you know when it’s time to leave him. You know it’s not going to work because he doesn’t respect you, and you can only pretend to be less than Queen for another 5-minutes before you explode. You know you deserve better. You love him, but to stay would be a crime against your soul. You’re not into settling for less than divine love. Now it’s time to open your heart and allow more energy to flow to you. You have a greater hope for a healthier relationship. Your ex could never get you back at this point. You don’t check their social media, you don’t even care. You already know they went back to doing the same things they’ve always done anyway. He’s out there living a basic life with a basic chick, and you are to go on and live your best life. Suddenly you wake up one day and you feel so free. You see life in a whole new way. You see how that relationship had your spirit condensed. It rocked you to sleep. It slowed you down and stopped you from birthing God’s purpose for your life.
Although you hate that you had to let go, your gut told you that he couldn’t make you happy. He was with the sh*ts and too many antics. You realized there was no point of trying to change him because that’s just the way he is. Silly you tried to turn a Prince into a King.
Now it’s as if you never even knew them, who caused you so much pain. But the once broken down and healed version of you now knows she can accomplish anything. This is the miraculous process of self-love and putting yourself first that comes from the bravery of loving someone who never loved you back.
All of this because you handled business and let go. You knew no one was coming to save you. You saved yourself.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
I saw a great article circulating this morning about women accepting the bare minimum from a man. As I was sharing the article on my personal page, I of course was going into a long spill that would’ve wound up a whole blog post, so here we are….
Currently I’m single. Noting that I’m a social media star who often uses my life lessons to teach others, it’s not surprising when people comment on my life, in judgement of me.
Many people often comment on the fact that I’m single. 100% of the time, those people are not millionaires. Millionaires who vibrate on my level already know why I’m single. If it’s a man he usually tries to shoot his shot.
Currently I’m going through a spiritual transformation and I’m doing a great deal of shedding from my past life. That’s not something the common person can identify with. Nor is it enjoyable to speak about the darkness that one must walk through in order to get to the light. But what I’m about to say next, you must take it into understanding and apply it to your own life. I’m single for 2 reasons.
1. My dream guy has yet to show up. I believe that love is a fairytale that truly happens. I believe in the beauty of it, I believe in deep soul connections. I believe in the smiles, the warm feelings, and the closeness and familiarity that two souls feel when they meet and wonder where has each other been their whole lives. That moment two people kiss, fall in love and then suddenly the whole world, and their journey of life makes sense.
Many men have shown up to pursue me. 5 Figure Men, 6 Figure men, and 7 Figure men too. They are Doctors, Lawyers, Motivational speakers, brilliant business owners, regular guys… Many men. They all see something deep within me that they know will change their life. But they don’t know what it is… They can’t quite identify with it. So they’ve each pursued me in the most basic manner possible. They show me the bare minimum. Behavior that they feel is impressive…
Most successful men are accustomed to women liking them and chasing them based upon their accolades. Many don’t know how to connect to the soul of a woman, because they’ve never had to. Their money and success speaks for them. These kind of men will do one small thing for you, and think they’ve given you the world. Meanwhile other men find their dream girl and set out to give her the world. Her happiness becomes an innate desire of his.
There is a certain trigger that alters a man when he meets the woman of his dreams. He pursues her relentlessly, until he gets her. He knows, like he knows, that’s the one he wants. He then becomes the man of her dreams, and the fairytale begins. This requires a great deal of ROMANCE. Romance is much apart of every Queen’s dream.
Many men aren’t aware of this. They are mostly focused on them and what’s outside of them… But the key to a woman is giving her want she wants. She will then submit to you…
WHAT DOES AN AMAZING WOMAN OR A QUEEN WANT?
A Queen wants a King. She desires a man who is way better than average. She wants a man who protects her and makes her feel safe. She wants to feel like she’s special to him. To make her feel this way a man must first and foremost provide for her. A Queen can never feel safe with a man who doesn’t provide. Even if she has her own, she has to feel like she’s doing it just because it makes her happy, not because she has to in order to survive in life. She wants a man who feeds her soul, both mentally and sexually. A Queen has to be fed in more than one way. Most men are simply used to being providers and covering that lane. But she needs more than that, because her deepest desire is real, deep love. Gold diggers just want a man who will provide. They don’t have any qualifications besides that.
This should be easy for men to understand, as how many do you hear say “Just being pretty isn’t good enough. You have to be more than that.” Men want a well-rounded woman who delights him physically, mentally, spiritually, sexually, and in the kitchen too. So why would he not realize that he has to be well-rounded too?
Relationships are all about giving and receiving. In order to get what you want from a woman you must pour into her. She’s like an empty box. Whatever you put into that box is what you will get back from her. Not only will you receive it back in abundance. As a woman multiplies everything you give her. If you give her hell, she will give you hell back multiplied. If you give her joy, she will give that same joy back to you over and over again.
Now when it comes to a Queen, she will only allow her dream man to fill up that box. So you have to figure out what her dreams are.. Start with the basics. Figure out what her current needs are, and fulfill them. That’s a great start. Then she will not be afraid to be vulnerable enough to open herself up and tell you the rest. You will then have the keys to unlock that woman… The thing is bad men tend to know this information, which is why they also tend to get all of the good women. They put in more work than the average man. They go hard in the paint from day one. For it’s a sport for him to unlock women, just to later break her down, or break her heart, just because he felt like it. He enjoys the power, and treats her the way he sees himself.
Queens are aware of the power transfer, and simply will only allow a King into their space. She already tried with the court jesters and got stung. There are different levels of Kings… Some men are the King of the hood. Others King of corporate America, and others are the King of their world… You have to be a King on her level… Her level is not the man who comes with the bare minimum nor the man who doesn’t respect her.
Now let me tell you about the women who aren’t aware.. Non aware women date men and accept the bare minimum from them. All a man has to do is say he likes her and that she’s pretty. Get her to grin and she’s in…just like that. She’s good with receiving mere crumbs.. They hit me up asking for free relationship advice, and say they can’t afford my consultation fee. (Dear Kissy letters are always fine. I’m speaking of 1 on 1 deep advice.) Not being able to afford my consultation fee is the first sign that they are in a bare minimum relationship. Either it’s not worth them investing in themselves to finally get the answers they’ve sought after years of pain, suffering, and not being whole-heartedly loved, because they don’t love themselves. Or they don’t feel like the relationship is worth it, because they don’t truly love themselves. Real love provides abundance. A woman glows like the sun when a man is treating her right. She’s capable of accomplishing amazing things when she’s being loved. Which is why I look at married women sideways when their finances are lacking. Yet a single boss chick is out in the world living her best life… (think) Sex with a man who truly loves you is some empowering sh*t! Lets just be honest.
Marriage is about building wealth. A wealth of love and growth together. Two people working as a team. Yet many find themselves in relationships with people who are playing on other teams. So lack rears it’s ugly head in the relationship.
Everything comes down to self-love. Often when we don’t have what we want it’s due to a lack of self-love and a lack of feeling worthy. People have a lot of healing to do.
But back to the Queens who desire an amazing King, yet don’t have one. Here are the more deeper reasons why you haven’t attracted that man into your life yet. At least one of these blocks applies to you.
You’re not vibrating love
You are vibrating lower than your worth
You don’t feel worthy or good enough
You believe you have to be perfect before you can receive unconditional love
You lack love for self
You’re emotionally hurting and suppressing it
There’s nothing to feel bad about. Life is a learning journey of discovering yourself.
For highly spiritual women I also know that part of your problem is that you are so swiftly evolving that you barely know who you are anymore. In the middle of that you have to forgive yourself for the past, forgive others who hurt you, let go of it all and give yourself permission to love yourself unconditionally. You must give yourself permission to live an abundant life filled with love, wellness and consciousness.
You must break down all of those walls that’s stopping true love from finding you. The moment you reach that point, your King will come.
So my reason #2 for being single is that I still have more work to do on my inner self. I vibrate beautifully with love. I give love. I give lots of love in abundance. My followers inbox me daily to tell me how much i’ve changed their life and how much they love me.
I must learn to receive that love. Too much humility is not a good thing… As a light worker you must know what it is that you do, and be accepting of yourself. You must start to receive that you are only getting back from people what you are putting out. It’s okay to know that you are a truly, deeply, beautiful person. You have to learn to love and accept your soul.
Love yourself for who you are. Love yourself for being the amazing person that you are.
Here are 2 of my favorite songs. Listen to them.
P.S. Ladies, don’t give up. It’s real. I know it’s real, cause I receive messages like the ones below from men all day, every day. These two are the ones I received today. I wake up to an abundance of love. 💜
A third man who adores me sent me this video today… It’s Deep!
And just incase that’s not enough. Here’s another song.
