It hasn’t been 6 months since the couple renewed their vows and now, Ne-Yo‘s wife Crystal Renay Smith alleges that the singer has been unfaithful to her for years.
E Online reports:
Crystal Renay, 35, who shares three kids with the musician and has been married to him for six years, detailed her accusations against her husband, 42, in a scathing Instagram message posted on July 30.
“8 years of lies and deception,” Crystal wrote. “8 years of unknowingly sharing my life and husband with numerous of women who sell their bodies to him unprotected…every last one of them [sic]! To say I’m heartbroken and disgusted is an understatement. To ask me to stay and accept it is absolutely insane. The mentality of a narcissist. I will no longer lie to the public or pretend that this is happening it isn’t. I choose me, I choose my happiness and health and my respect.”
Crystal, mom of sons Shaffer Chimere Smith Jr., 6, and Roman Alexander-Raj Smith, 4, and daughter Isabella Rose Smith, 13 months, continued, “I gained 3 beautiful children out of this but nothing else but wasted years and heartache.”
Ne-Yo “liked” her post and tweeted on July 31, “For the sake of our children, my family and I will work through our challenges behind closed doors. Personal matters are not meant to be addressed and dissected in public forums. I simply ask that you please respect me and my family’s privacy at this time.”
In her Instagram post, Crystal pleaded with her fans to “please stop sending me videos or information of him cheating because what he does is no longer my concern.”
She also wrote, “I am not a victim. I’m choosing to stand tall with my head held high. If someone can’t love you the way you deserve then it’s up to you to love yourself. With no hate in my heart I wish him nothing but the best.”
Crystal penned her post three months after she and Ne-Yo renewed their wedding vows in an elaborate ceremony following past marital strife and a breakup in 2020. Speaking on E!’s Daily Pop in May, the singer said that at one point while quarantining amid the COVID-19 pandemic, he and his wife found themselves “considering divorce.”
“It took a lot of really uncomfortable conversations,” Ne-Yo continued. “As a human being, it’s just real difficult, especially with somebody that you love and you care for. You care about how they feel, So to tell them something about themselves that they may not enjoy, it’s hard to do that, on top of it being hard to hear about yourself.”
Their relationship difficulties are at the center of his song, “Don’t Love Me,” which the signer wrote during the pandemic. He added, “I’ve always been better at writing it down as opposed to saying it out loud.”
Neyo picked this woman up off the internet streets and saved her from a life of dealing with other men who would cheat, not marry her and do the same things Neyo is doing to her, for a lot less money. Cause trust me Crystal could get a faithful garbage man, janitor or something.
This couple goes back and forth with the lies and cheating, with Crystal staying, cause like any woman she’s in love and wants her fairytale.
I get it. But leave the public out of it. The chaos makes no sense. It’s not healthy for them or the kids. Not to mention men having unprotected sex with random women, and bring the d back home to their wife. That’s just trifling.
How hard is it to find a therapist that can help Neyo understand why he cheats, or to help Crystal understand why she stays. Heck I can break down their unhealed trauma patterns.
The thing about celebrities is they have way too much money and access to sit around in toxic relationships.
If these two calm down again and swear everything is good, I’m simply going to assume they do this for publicity sake, to get attention and that’s that.
On top of that this is the story of so many every day women. They have a baby or three by a man and they want to be this little fairy tale family knowing the man in the relationship has a sexual addiction and hasn’t dealt with his demons.
What happened to marrying your best friend, and simply being honest with each other?
Come on, it’s the year 2022. The year of conscious, healthy relationships and REAL LOVE. Can we please LOVE the people we married. Geesh!
A man is never going to stop cheating on you, until you stop cheating on yourself.
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