Detach Your Love – Stop Dating Men Who Don’t Spend Money On You

by | Dating

For women who have a tendency to go with the flow, love deeply, see everything with rosy red lenses, you can change your life and save YEARS of wasted time energy and effort, by avoiding dealing with a man who is or would rob you of your beauty, energy, self-esteem, confidence and everything else.

He’s actually not robbing you. You’re robbing yourself by being co-dependent and unconsciously taking a detour to try to change a man. Chances are you even attempt to change the people around you and take on their burdens.

What if you stepped back and allowed everyone around you to simply be themselves with no pressure from you?

And Deepak Chopra’s Law of Detachment includes this commitment:  “I will allow myself and those around me the freedom to be as they are. I will not rigidly impose my idea of how things should be. I will not force solutions on problems, thereby creating new problems.”

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Detaching with love helps codependents and enablers. When we detach with love, we stop worrying and interfering and let others take responsibility for themselves.

Now, as to YOUR PROBLEM of  hanging with men who don’t break bread.  Ask yourself why do you do it in the first place?

Chances are, you are attracted to HIM, but are you attracted to his CHARACTER and the way he treats you?

Does being around him feel suppressive to your soul?

Submitting to a man is submitting to his frequency.  Imagine the imbalance that comes from you attempting to submit to a man whose frequency calls you to be less than you.

God doesn’t want you with him. That’s why he’s not giving you money or investing in you.   Does that make him stupid?  No. It simply makes you not the one for him.

THat’s okay. Nobody told you that you had to stick around.

Would you break bread on YOU?  Are you a keeper?

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This isn’t about gold digging. It’s about matters of the heart and WHO God called you to be.  He called you to be prosperous and abundant. He called you to make profit from all of your trades, including your trade of time.

But why would someone invest in spending time with you and unleveling you if you’re willing to spend your time being less for free, complaining about everything they do?

Are you sitting around waiting for someone else to tell you that you are worthy of your own desires, before you honor them?

The right man for you is willing to expand, go all in and commit to you. Handsome tall men will hand you money.  What else? Once that’s given to you, what do you REALLY want? WHY do you want it?

Boys like playing with girls as toys. Grown men value their woman.

A boy becomes a man when is willing to help those who need his help. Be the channel of His mercy to others; the harbinger of hope for the hopeless.” Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it” (Proverbs 3:27).

Proverbs 3:27, NLT: Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it’s in your power to help them.

“When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” (KJV). ~ 1 CORITHIANS 13:11

You not feeling worthy and deserving of a man who protects and provides for you has attracts such a man who agrees with you.

But when you embody Goddess consciousness you simply attract who you are.   Remember everyone likes honey. So of course you’ll attract few dusty flies. But that doesn’t mean you have to open your door, stop what you’re doing and give the dusty your attention when there 100 Men waiting to serve you.

What you focus on persists, expands and gets amplified.  Self-Love and truly being a beacon of light, amplifies your vibration and allows you to manifest the abundant love that you desire FAST with ease and grace.

That’s why they have their appearance together. THAT is the kind of man you need to be around. His frequency is high. He makes you happy. He WANTS to make you happy.

Unattractive men rob women of their life force. Not being attracted to a man is a sign as plain as day.  Admit it, you’re disgusted by the lil short, inadequate dude who has no value for love, chases beautiful women, acts like a groupie when he’s around you, trying to sneak pictures and sh*t.   He ain’t sh*t. Stop feeling guilty about feeling that way about him. Ask him for some dough, let him tell you NO, and get rid of his dusty azz.

Look at his appearance for what it is. Don’t cut him any slack. Either he breaks bread or he remains unattractive.  Cause he surely judges you 100% by your appearance. Even dusty dudes do it. They chase beautiful women while swearing beauty isn’t what they are chasing. Opt out of their b.s. storylines.

Listen ya’ll. I have been in the house working on building my business for 2 years. During that time I was FOCUSED. I wasn’t thinking about no man.  But now I have TIME.  Let me tell you something…. Men are running up on me to HAND me money.  Not just white men, but cute, YOUNG, black men too.  It’s all frequency.

You WILL NOT get what you want out of life by dealing with 50/50 men under any circumstances.   I am writing this post from the bottom of my heart, to save you.

You will not get what you want out of life, without a KING and a TEAM. Kings take care of their Queens darling. If he runs up on you and he’s not trying to cut the check, he ain’t your King.  All he comes with is raggedy ding-a-ling. Which is why you don’t like phucking him in the first place.  See, you feel all these kinds of ways, but you try to DENY YOUR OWN FEELINGS, for the sake of SOCIETY.

Here’s a random video I found.. Check it out.

Also do yourself another favor and stop listening to masculine b*shes who keep telling you about getting your own money. You need your own money plus HIS too. That’s the way this sh*t goes. Men who don’t break bread on you are embarrassments. Your vagina is not a free ATM for him to stick his d*ck in and you receive nothing in return.

Listen to me when I tell you that YOU ARE NOT a portable mattress that allows a man to dumb his semen in you and run off. GROSS is a woman who doesn’t value her body. Gross is a woman who hangs out with men who don’t break bread. These men need to break bread simply for hanging with them.

If you don’t have my book YOU CAN’T FORCE A MAN TO VALUE YOU, BECOMING A HIGH VALUE WOMAN & ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM MAN, Then darling it’s time to INVEST in yourself. Cause smart men do not invest in women who don’t invest in themselves.