Kissylations: Check His Phone Before You Buy Him Something For Christmas

by | Dating

Many a man’s biggest problem these days is that they refuse to put away their childish ways, and society actually nurtures them to be a boy forever.

In the bible it says: When a boy becomes a man, he puts away childish things.

Dating multiple women, for extended periods of time, with no intent to find a wife, is childish.


1 Corithians 13:11 New International Version
When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.

Chances are, you’ve heard that bible verse before. Now I’m going to extend this verse and help you to get more context.


1 Corinthians 13:8-11
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be restrained; where there is knowledge, it will be dismissed. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial passes away.

In AUTHENTIC marriage is when a man begins to face his real self and learn his true identity in God.

1 Corinthians 13:12
Now we see but a dim reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

Marriage forces both partners to get naked and come face to face with who they truly are.

Now that I’ve done my preaching, let’s get on to the TEACHING.


Saw this meme on Instagram and immediately received a Kissylation:

This is something that both men and women can learn from.

When you’re the kind of guy who dates multiple women for extended periods of time, a REAL woman is going to let THEM:

✅ Buy you Christmas gifts
✅ Cater to you when you get sick

YOU thought she would go hard to PROVE herself at this point. But baby, she already knows YOU.

She doesn’t want to get in the way of you receiving your blessings from THEM. Just not from HER.

She also knows you really don’t care about any of the women you date. It’s just something to do.

Amazing women cater to men who value themselves enough to not want to keep a harem of women.

Nobody is special to you.

So let the Harlem do their part, and stop wondering why SHE isn’t stepping up.

She knows YOU are COVERED.

Besides, nobody is competing with a bunch of lost chicks for a lost man.

This ain’t the lost and found department sweetie, and we stopped riding the circus train a long time ago. 🎪

So if you want amazing women to love you, respect you, and serve you, try not being a clown. 🤡

Clowns compete against themselves to never be fully loved by an amazing woman…

attractive WOMAN serving man plate Food

Women these days – specifically boss chicks want so badly to cater to her man, to buy him nice things, and surprise him with beautiful gifts to show her love.

But 9/10 times it backfires on her

Not about to go into all of that, if you are one of my clients, you can log in to your membership portal and get the expanded reason why.


If you want a woman to regard you like a King, cater to your needs,  and you treat you special, then baby you first have to realize SHE is special.  (There is also a part that reflects on you. VIP clients can log into your portal and get the expansion of this.)

Society hasn’t taught a majority of men what a special woman is, and most don’t learn until they are bald, fat, over the age of 50, thinking they still got it, and wanting to seduce a young honey for free99.

Women actually value men ALOT. But men receive value in a different way than most women understand. Unfortunately most men also don’t know what they actually VALUE.

This is why we see hoards of men, believing they need a hareem of recyclable women  around.  Their heart chakra is blocked. But if you tell a broken man with money he’s broken, he will tell you he’s healed.

Broken Clock Right Twice A Day

And the saddest thing about most of these men, is they don’t cover ANY woman, yet expect a good woman to cover him in compassion, love and prayer.

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