On December 8th, Lamar Odom hopped on Instagram to reflect back to December 2020 when he broke off his relationship and engagement to Sabrina Parr.
In Lamar’s latest Instagram post, he writes that he left Sabrina “without notice” and returned to San Diego, Calif. “When she realized I was gone back to my home in San Diego she was livid. I received over 250 calls and text messages over the course of last December from her wanting to fix us,” the athlete says. “We were toxic. Independently and collectively. Leaving broke my heart but saved my soul. The relationship was abusive.”
Lamar Odom Reveals Why He Dumped Sabrina Parr
Sabrina Reveals Why Who Broke UP With Who
Sabrina on the other hand seems to disagree about who broke up with who in December 2020.
Sabrina has a different recollection of how their split went down, writing on Instagram, “A year ago today, I officially walked away from my ex-fiance. I did not tell a soul (not even him); I just left! I knew the more I continued to talk about my unhappiness, the more I would stay comfortable being in it.”
The Atlanta-based influencer adds that she was preparing to marry Lamar, who she doesn’t name, at the time, but she “was scared, hurt, and unsure of the outcome” at the time.
“But I knew if I stayed, I would never be free,” she continues, while promoting pre-sales of her upcoming memoir, The Freedom in Walking Away: How to Regain Your Life Piece by Peace.
Back in March, Lamar scorched his ex on The Real … blasting Sabrina as “deceitful” and accusing her of using him in a shameless attempt to get famous.
If Sabrina were using Lamar I wouldn’t be surprised. There was honestly, no other point of dating him at the time. Not to say that Lamar doesn’t deserve love, because he does, however dating Lamar wasn’t a good look to any aware or high profile person. Sabrina however was an unknown brand that needed visibility and to establish authority in the marketplace.
Sabrina’s visibility has gone up on social media since dating Lamar. It was a smart move on her behalf, because popularity brings more sales. It would’ve have been a wise decision for her to play the background and allow the opportunity to shine to pass. Some of these opportunities are once in a lifetime.
The average fans views Lamar as a rich superstar. I believe Sabrina did however in some ways cared about Lamar. He started to heal with her.
On the other hand, it’s simply not righteous to use people to get ahead and have fake relationships. But this is the world we live in these days. Very few people actually know what real love is or have the guts to have a character that only enters into soulful relationships with no desire to use.
As to Sabrina’s own Instagram post, referencing the breakup being her decision, Lamar post in his caption, warning his followers: “Do not believe everything you read. Luckily my team keeps record of EVERYTHING so I am reminded of how far I have come. I have not arrived yet. I will not let troubled exes from my past haunt me. I will stand in my truth.”
Who knows who broke up with who. In this case, I do believe Lamar. However I have broken things off with a man before by blocking him, then he later messaged me after he realized he was blocked and said he was ending things with me.
I figured it was an ego thing on his behalf. Men hate to be left, although they are quite accustomed to being left. It’s more important to think about WHY the relationship didn’t work out, versus trying to feel like the dumping was YOUR decision.
This is one of the lessons I’ve learned after dumping every ex I had. You see you can keep dumping people, but the truth is you have to look within to see what you are truly running away from. Healing is such a beautiful thing. Unfortunately many souls believe themselves to be healed, but are very much still broken, which is why beautiful souls do not like being around them.
ENERGY does not lie, and can not be faked in front of someone with their third eye open. The third eye only opens to LOVE.