by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jul 17, 2020 |
Of course people take you for granted. You take yourself for granted.
That’s what I said to myself today, when this memory popped in my Facebook feed from a year ago.
I saw that I had 293 followers to a page that now has over 13,000 followers.
I get followers like it’s nothing. Getting followers is the easiest thing in the world for me to do.
But my how little appreciation I had for myself and that SKILL.
Some people say that followers don’t make you money. They do. You just have to know what to sell to them or feed them.
Followers are definitely a brand essential. But you honestly don’t need them until AFTER you have a successful business. Yet you can gain followers as you build a successful business.
Either way, up until today I didn’t appreciate my ability to get hundreds of thousands of followers.
My instagram account is nearing 100K followers and I barely even put in effort.
I’ve been through stages of my life where the internet wasn’t exactly real to me. Like I never felt the love was real or genuine so I never catered to it towards my ego.
Yet, I’ve shown up each and every day for years, inspiring people, motivating people, healing people, teaching people how to attract love, be love, how to get closer to God, and even how to get money.
I’ve poured a rich amount of love into the internet and I’ve reaped financial reward and branding benefit.
But there is the other side of the internet where you realize these people are not your friends. There is no loyalty. People like you when they like you, and they don’t like you when you say things they don’t like.
Anyway, in my lifetime many people have taken me for granted, or thought me to be a stupid silly girl because I love people, believe in them and give them chances to redeem themselves.
Godly people often have a hard time in this world. But it does get better. It gets better not only when you stop caring about what people think of you, but also stop caring so much about people.
You do your job of speaking the message. Don’t take sides. The only side you ever need to take is God’s side and speak from there.
People on this earth are so mean, callous and uncaring that they will literally drain you and stop you from doing your purpose work if you let them.
In other ways, people are blind. Like the way I was. Blind to the love that so many people online genuinely do show me.
I am so much love, so much light, so much beauty , so much God and so much brilliance and fun, that I attract millions of people to my content on a monthly basis.
I reach millions of people, but have a little over 600,000 social media followers.
My own level of lack of gratitude was ginormous. But it’s even deeper than that.
It came from me not truly wanting to win. I set out to be a millionaire. I didn’t care if I was in the background unknown.
But God wasn’t going to let me go that way. He knew what way was best for me.
God wanted me to rise, heal, claim my divinity and truly be me. He wanted me to be hungry to make BILLIONS. He wanted me to step my game up.
So when you ask God for something and he doesn’t deliver, perhaps you’re not thinking big enough. Perhaps you lack gratitude for what you already have.
Perhaps you lack gratitude for who you are and who God called you to be.
Look around you love. The way people treat you is quite often a reflection of the way you treat yourself.
Kissy Denise – The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation
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Sidenote: After I posted this story, I went back and actually READ what the guy said in the comment. I realized how much I’ve grown in no longer focusing on unleveling people with impoverished, diminished mindsets.
I chose to stop focus on wealthy men. As when I focus on wealthy men, I mostly have positive things to say. I’ve learned to focus on things that make me happy. It’s not my job to teach poor men. My job is to match high value men with high value women. Something else that I didn’t have gratitude for. I never had to deal with low level men.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 16, 2020 |
How to Change Your Mindset From Obligation to Opportunity
With what’s going on in the world right now, it’s quite possible for many to wake up stressed out, overwhelmed, not knowing where to start and dreading how much work you’ll get done today.
That would be waking up with a negative mindset. A positive, wealth conducive mindset is waking up excited, saying “I get to.“
For me, each day is an exciting opportunity to wake up and see what I can experience and create today. I literally look forward to what cool thing will happen that day, or what new knowledge I will learn. It’s been my daily routine for years.
This routine however starts at night, before you go to bed. Before you go to bed revision your day and see things that didn’t go your way, as if they did go your way. Then imagine the next day going your way.
For introverts and empaths, it’s also best that you spend a decreased amount of time, reading people’s social media posts. They all basically say the same thing. It’s a world wide epidemic and although we understand, the anxiety can cause severe stress to the system of an empath, because you take on the emotions around you. So if you’re noticing you’re feeling drained, that is why. You are confusing the weight of the world, for your own inner feelings.
This is truly a time to do something to build your brand/company. Write a short ebook. Sell 200 copies for $19.99. That’s $4,000 of play money, and a product to add to your brand.
In order to transmute the negativity, look for the good in every situation.
This is Good Because
“This is good because” “I Get To” is a really dope combination. It completely changes your focus point.
What do you get to do this week? How can you use this time to your advantage? How does this situation benefit you?
Dig deep and look for good reasons to focus on a positive aspect.
When you’re not doing what you would like to do, it is often due to being stuck in a negative mindset that repeats itself every morning.
I find that starting with 1-3 tasks that you will complete that day moves you out of overwhelm. Doing THE WORK, and completing tasks not only causes you to feel good about yourself, as if you’re accomplished, but it also gives you more expansive ideas for creativity.
Life is all of what you make it. I would suggest you buckle down, set goals, and have a daily strategy to make them happen. Negative feelings and emotions are a sign that you are going the wrong way in thought.
If you need a day or two to yourself, to recalibrate your energy base, be sure to take it.
Self care is just as important as work. The two go hand in hand. The better you feel, the better work you’ll do and the better you are able to show up in the world, and fill it with love & light.
I Get To
What are 3 things that you GET TO DO today?
Remember everything is happening FOR you, not to you. See things going in your favor.
A week from now your life will be in a better place.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 31, 2019 |
I’ve experienced really beautiful relationships, and really deep love. It’s because of the way I love. I love so deeply that it results in a raised consciousness. When you don’t put your all into a relationship and you listen to light and love that tells you to detach and not care too much, you’re going to get that same thing back.
So many people are in relationships and still aren’t in deep love. They don’t even know what it feels like. If you’ve never been heartbroken, then you’ve definitely never put your all into anyone. And that’s really good for the earth realm. But it scores you no points in the spirit realm. The best way to love is to have no fear of total devastation. You gotta go ALL IN.
Even if it doesn’t work out, your spirit will grow tremendously. People tell me I’m brilliant and a genius all the time. I’ll be honest, I’ve always been smart since birth. By the age of 6 I noticed that my intelligence exceeded that of the other kids. In high school I was placed into advanced classes. As an adult, people would be shocked to know that I only have a high school diploma. I dropped out of college. Yet, rarely do I ever meet anyone smarter than me. I read books ferociously. I literally get turned on by knowledge. Place a cute, nice, brilliant man, who is also on his purpose and his money in front of me, and he’s crazy about me, and I just may faint. I’m a pure sapiosexual with a hint of genius, and a taste for the finer things in life.
But back to what I was saying. People also tell me that I’m anointed, gifted, magical, powerful and a bunch of other things. I know I am these things, but I can’t necessarily take credit for them. I was born that way, BUT, in order to grow in my magic and power, I am obsessed with God. I sleep with the bible in my bed. (That keeps away those nightmarish, ghoul sucking spirits, that attack you during sleep paralysis. You’re welcome.)
Anyway, so yeah, I love, love, love, love me some God. So obviously it’s no surprise that I’m spiritually advanced and gifted. Well maybe, maybe I was programmed for that too. Who knows.
But here is something that YOU can definitely do. The reason I left my fanbase of 500,000 is because I knew I could just build a new one, with the kind of people I like. I like conscious people, because I want to grow people, guide them and help them acquire the life of their dreams. That’s fun to me. I love seeing people happy, successful and in love. LOVE is a big thing for me. It’s very much who I AM. I put a lot of love out into the world. I truly love people. So it’s no surprise that I get so much love in return. People know when people truly care about them. They can feel it.
I see many coaches who try to copy me and make fierce AF posts. But those posts they make are truly judgmental. Therefore the posts don’t attract worthwhile people. The posts I make are simply to guide people into the light. For I know the truth shall set them free. I make posts with love in my heart.
So this goes back to the golden rule. If you want people to love you. You must first BE Love. Much of my blessings in life simply come from me being love. God trusts me with a heavy mantle cause he knows I’m going to do right by the people. I don’t abuse my magic. I use it for good. I help women find their confidence. I also set men free and guide them into their God Kingdom.
Because of my heart and gifting my light shines so bright that I don’t have to introduce myself. My tribe can see if from a mile away. They know I can help them in divine ways. They show up asking to pay me. My tribe is composed of some of the most wealthiest, most powerful, most spiritual people in the world. They too are magical and gifted. It’s not an easy feat to vibrate on our high frequency. This is the reward for the LOVE we put out into the world. Remember, GOD IS LOVE.
So often people look for things outside of yourself or you think everyone else is better than you. The truth is God gave you a gifting too. But you’ll only discover it by becoming a better person. Each day seek to be better and better. Hone in on your purpose. Each day seek to love yourself more and love others just the same.
