I see so many men on social media crying about women who cheat on them. I admit that God is still working on me, cause most times I lack empathy for the situation.
Here is why:
Women outnumber men.
Women search high and low for a good man. Most women will take any man. It’s so easy to get a good woman that a man really has to take accountability for picking a bad one. Society is forever making women take the blame for getting in bad relationships, but rarely are men made to take accountability.
Both women and men cheat, but good women simply don’t cheat most times. But here is why a woman would cheat on a man.
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He doesn’t provide. Therefore there’s not much to lose if he finds out. Always do A LOT for your woman.
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Ya girl’s a hoe and everybody knows. lol. I’m kidding, (it’s a song) well a little. But I’m going somewhere with this. See a lot of people don’t understand that there is a difference between a prostitute and a hoe. Prostitutes get paid, and aren’t seeking men’s approval. She knows how most men are and chooses to profit from them. When she’s in a relationship, she’s done. A “loose” woman on the other hand gets off on attention. All a man has to do is whisper something juicy in her ear and her legs are open. Just like men, she is turned on by new sexual encounters, but she didn’t tell you that from the jump. Just like some men don’t tell a woman from the jump, but no one calls them “hoes” or “loose.”
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She doesn’t love you and isn’t sexually compatible with you.
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She’s a drug addict.
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She knows you will take her her back, she has no fear of repercussions from you. You’re soft and she knows it.
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She doesn’t care about losing you, nor does she care about the relationship.
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Some dude gave her some weed, and she freely hangs around other men getting high, and she’s going to say “it just happened.”
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She’s not attracted to you… you don’t turn her on. You ain’t even her type
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You’re not hitting it hard enough. At times a man has to dominate during sex and let her know he’s daddy.
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She’s only with you because you provide. Refer back to #3.
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You cheated first. When a woman knows you’ve cheated or will cheat, it removes the guilt she could feel. It’s open season.
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You’re an abusive narcissist, ungrateful, and deserve to be cheated on. Mistreating your woman is dumb.
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She feels unappreciated, and you don’t pay her enough attention. Women need attention. Don’t ever forget that.
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Your penis is too little and she wants something a little more fulfilling, your tongue game is coming up short too.
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She’s not a high value woman. High value women rarely ever let any man touch them, especially one who isn’t the man she already has at home. What is another man going to do for her compared to her fabulous knight in shining armor who says YES to everything she likes? Not much. Most men are clowns compared to a King. She will allow a peasant no where near the King’s crown jewels.
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You didn’t put a ring on it, and now she feels forced to explore other options. Clocks are always ticking in a woman’s head. A high value woman will give you approximately 2 years max. Make a decision son.
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She knows that if you find out she’s been with other men, and that other men actually want her, she will seem more valuable in the eyes of the simp she already has.
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Cheating with her baby daddy turns her on.
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She wants to do sexual things that she’s too embarrassed to discuss with you, because she feels you will judge her.
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You got married early and she feels like she’s missing out and wanted to see what she was missing. When people don’t have a lot of sexual experience before committing to a long-term relationship, they often cave into their hormones, wanting to do what they see being done on the pornos. She’ll regret it later, but it’s too late now.
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The janitor at work told her she’s pretty and her simple azz got turned on, cause your simple azz never tells her she’s beautiful. Your woman should be so darn pretty to you that you get hard on sight of her.
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She’s a bored, ungrateful housewife, who has fantasies about the cable guy, the pool guy, the hung black buy, or the FedEx guy.
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She agreed to have a threesome with you with another girl, and you liked it so much, that cheating and getting some without you, didn’t seem like cheating at all.
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Her Twin Flame decided he wanted to hit it again, cause he knows she’s easy to get access to, because she will always hopelessly love him, and even though you’re her so called soulmate, the internet says a Twin Flame is more important.
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A rich n*gga wanted her. I don’t need to explain this. I’ll just post a link.
Don’t mind me. I wrote this whole blog while laughing, but ALL of this is true. The best way to avoid these things is to get a good woman who loves you, values you, is loyal, and wants to keep you. Give her what she wants and have good, healthy communication skills to make sure you’re always on the same page.
The title of the post, isn’t my opinion. I don’t actually speak to men in such a way. But it’s how a cheating woman often see’s a man. She has very little RESPECT for you, or your image. She doesn’t mind allowing another man to laugh at you, and look at you as less than him. But chances are you didn’t understand the level of disrespect, until you read the title of the post… WHY? Because chances are, she said very sweet words to you, while doing you wrong. Most men fall for sweet words. They are like sugar to your soul. Women who don’t truly love you, are great at not showing EMOTIONS.
Here is Chris Brown’s reasoning women cheat.
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