Do men realize that when a woman shares her body, with you, she is seeking to connect? It is her soul’s way of saying, ‘I like you. I choose you. I want more with you.’
When a man enters a woman, she doesn’t just feel him physically; she emotionally bonds with you.
It is a biological and spiritual seal. This act is sacred. Yet, in today’s swipe-and-dispose society, many men view it as cheap entertainment.
I wonder do men realize how much emotional pain a woman goes through when her vulnerability is rejected by a man after sex?
When she realizes he has no intentions of pursuing anything serious with her…
I’m not writing this, as a woman who experiences this.
Men always want to marry me.
I write this as a woman with healthy emotions.
A woman who has healed many women from the trauma of empty intimacy and unrequited love.
I know the dating game. The goal is to get sex as fast as possible for the lowest investment possible.
Some men will even pressure a woman just to see if she folds, and then they discard her because they assume she folds for everyone.
I had an ex who had that effect on women. He was tall, fine, hung, articulate and just YES GAWD!
He told me one time that a girl once walked up to him and said “You remember me?”
He said he didn’t remember her. She said “You took my virginity.” He didn’t even know her name.
He said women always told him “I usually don’t do this.”
In his mind women were lying… They do it all the time.
I realize men are unaware that a lot of women mean that when they say they usually don’t do it that fast. They were overtaken by the chemistry and attraction she felt to him.
Most women don’t know that’s when the game begins.
They don’t allow a man to chase. They give in because most women flow with our feelings.
Do men ever think about or Imagine if you were honest and asked her: ‘If we have sex, will you be okay if I never speak to you again? Are you okay if we never become a couple?’
That would make it fair…
Cause there are plenty of women who are okay with casual sex and one night stands.
Do men realize how much you are hurting the self-esteem of women when you have sex with her and don’t pursue a serious relationship with her?
When A Man Has Sex With A Woman, He’s Supposed To Cover Her. Not leave her wandering alone in the wilderness.
When he doesn’t she becomes ashamed of him.
The Genesis 24 Protocol: The Claiming of Rebekah
This chapter is the ultimate blueprint for a high-value man “claiming” his woman and bringing her into his “tent” (his established container).
1. The Meeting (Genesis 24:64-65)
“And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel. For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself.“
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The Energetic Shift: Rebekah recognizes Isaac’s authority and “covers herself” in a gesture of modesty and transition. She is preparing to be moved from her father’s house into his.
2. The Claiming and the “Covering” (Genesis 24:67)
“And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.”
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The “Tent” as the Container: In the ancient world, bringing a woman into the “tent” and having relations was the act of covering her with his name, his protection, and his legal status.
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Immediate Alignment: There was no “three-month trial.” There was a recognition of identity, an invitation into the container (the tent), and the physical seal of that union.
The “Covering” Principle (Ruth 3:9)
While Isaac provided the “tent,” the specific language of a man physically covering a woman to claim her comes from Ruth:
“And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman.“
In Hebrew culture, this act (spreading the kanaph or “wing/corner of the garment”) was a formal request for the man to fulfill his role as a Kinsman-Redeemer.
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It meant: “Take me under your protection.”
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It meant: “Provide the masculine frame so I no longer have to navigate the world alone.”
Why This Revelation Matters
The Bible doesn’t suggest that a woman should wander the wilderness alone to “heal” indefinitely. The “covering” is what provides the safety for the woman to rest. Isaac brought Rebekah into the tent, and the scripture says he was “comforted”… the masculine pillar found peace because the feminine presence was finally in its proper place.
When I say it’s “unhealthy” to be without that masculine presence, I am tapping into this Genesis design: The man provides the “tent” (the structure/protection), and the woman provides the “life” within it. Without the tent, the woman is exposed to the elements.
Truthfully this is literally how a feminine business works. It has masculine structure and containment, allowing the feminine to thrive inside it.
But I won’t go into that. At the end of the say we now see why men who trick off on women are blessed. It’s cause he is covering HER. That’s obedience.
Yet somehow the man who takes from a woman’s body, and doesn’t cover her afterwards, feels he smarter and better than the generous man… 🤦🏽♀️
This is the message that God told me to deliver to you.
