💔 Why Do Men REALLY Leave Women?

💔 Why Do Men REALLY Leave Women?

by | Mar 11, 2025 | 0 comments

Ladies, let’s be real. Most men don’t leave unless they are forced to emotionally, energetically, or spiritually check out.   When a man leaves you, it tends to men you are a pretty bad women and need to make some changes.   I know that may hurt, but that’s the truth.  Average men rarely ever leave “good” women… And we know that the word GOOD/BAD is subjective.


Here are the real reasons men walk away (and how to avoid being left in the first place):

  1. She stops being his peace.
    A man will leave when drama is her love language. A King desires peace and joy when he comes home.

  2. She doesn’t meet his needs (and refuses to listen).
    Men will walk when a woman refuses to be soft, feminine, and open to learning how to love HIM right — emotionally and physically. He will also walk away from a woman who doesn’t sexually please him. To be a high value woman your bedroom skills must be on point.

  3. She emasculates him.
    If a man shares his heart, his fears, his dreams — and you use that against him — he will never trust you again.Real men need safety too.

  4. She stops caring for herself.
    Men are visual. If you lose your glow, your radiance, your feminine energy, he will notice. The woman who keeps herself radiant makes her man feel like he won.  (How are you supposed to keep glowing with a 50/50 man who is abusing you, mistreating you and proud of you being his labor mate?  The more he drains you, the more he dislikes you. The only choice is to LEAVE)

  5. She doesn’t have her own purpose.
    A High Value Man will leave a woman who drains his energy because she refuses to rise and own her own life.Masculine men love women with vision and substance.

  6. She has no boundaries.
    If you let him run over you, he loses respect. Men admire women who know their worth.

  7. She’s too masculine.
    If you always want to lead, argue, and compete — he doesn’t feel like a man around you. And men want to feel like the man.

  8. She doesn’t challenge him to be better.
    High Value Men want the BEST woman.  One who inspires him to grow, expand, and conquer. Not one who lets him settle.

  9. She never pours into him.
    Men want to feel loved, desired, and seen. If he’s always pouring and you’re not filling him back up? He will seek that energy somewhere else.

    A High Value Man will leave a woman when he feels like he’s pouring from an empty cup — when he feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually drained because she’s not pouring back into him.

    But here’s the truth most people won’t admit…
    👉 Oftentimes, this man doesn’t even know what he truly wants or needs in a woman — because he never slowed down long enough to get clear on what nourishes his soul.
    Instead, he moves on auto-pilot, chasing attraction or ego-based connections.

    And even more, he may carry a pattern of focusing on everything “wrong” with a woman, amplifying small flaws until he can no longer see the good.

    💡 What you focus on expands.
    If you keep looking for the bad, that’s all you’ll see — even in a good woman.
    So while he thinks he’s leaving because she’s “not enough,” in truth, he’s running from his own inability to receive love and focus on what’s right.

    Sometimes, the partner isn’t bad at all… it’s the lens you’re viewing them through that’s distorted by fear, ego, and unhealed wounds.

  10. She’s insecure. Men leave insecure women. High Value men are naturally drawn to confident, secure women who trust in Divine Love. When a woman is rooted in fear — always worried another woman will take her man, she unknowingly sends out a vibration that attracts exactly what she fears. Because what you fear, you magnetize
    If you’re always afraid of other women, questioning his loyalty, or “testing” him — you push him away energetically. Confidence is QUEEN energy.  

Instead, when you stand firm in love and faith, knowing that what is divinely yours can never be taken, you radiate security, confidence, and magnetism.

A true King is loyal to the woman who believes in herself and the power of love—a woman who expects to be honored, adored, and prioritized.

💎 Affirm: “What is mine by Divine Right is always attracted to me, and stays. I am loved, chosen, and secure in love.”

✨ Ladies, this is not about blame. This is about POWER.
If you’ve lost a man or are tired of attracting the wrong ones, this is your wake-up call to shift into your Divine Feminine energy and become the woman a King would never leave.

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The fastest way to lose a man is to love him too much

The fastest way to lose a man is to love him too much

by | Aug 20, 2020 | 0 comments

Many heart-centered women are starting to realize that men don’t care about being loved.  What men care about is WHO THEY LOVE.

When a woman loves a man too much she is willing to mother him, teach him, coddle him, and tell him what to do. Men want to feel like they know everything and that you believe in them. So, it doesn’t work.

One man that this may not apply to is Grant Cardone. Elena Cardone does not play. When Grant gets low on dough, she tells him to get out there FIX IT, and to go make some sh*t happen. She won’t take no excuses from him.  I don’t believe the average man would be able to appreciate such a woman.

What men care about is being respected.  In order to get love from a man you must respect him, and not love him too much.

There is something about men that makes them care very little about being loved.   Men love women who can pretty much take or leave them.

I’ve never met a man who actually appreciated my love. Not a even my son or my brother.

All men want is RESPECT.

If you love him, show him RESPECT, more than you show him love. 💡 Respecting a man requires that you stay in your FEMININE place. 

And for most strong women, you are not going to respect a man who is not paying your bills. So, you may as well just add that as a requirement.

I’ve learned my lesson. I 100% do not have respect for the opinion of a man who isn’t paying my bills, because chances are, I am outworking him.

Men often have this thing about 50/50 and wanting a relationship to be even. Which actually weakens his position and makes a woman have less respect for him. Therefore 50/50 men shoot themselves in the foot.

A man’s lack of understanding, appreciation and value for love is why most men will never be loved. It’s the reason so many end up with gold diggers and women who don’t give two phucks about them.  Love even scares some men, because they don’t want to be responsible for your emotions.

why men love respect

If you detach from men a little, you’ll notice more men will suddenly like you.

Either way, it’s best that you BE THE WOMAN HE LOVES. Which means get with a man who loves you. Get the man who likes you. Stop chasing or dealing with the man YOU LOVE or LIKE.  Chances are your deep love for him actually turns him off. It makes you weak in his eyes.

Are all men like this? No. But most are.

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When you build men up, they leave you for another woman

by | Aug 11, 2020 | 0 comments

Building a man up is something that’s done on great amounts of love by heart-centered women who seek to put their man in position of being a King.

The only problem? Once he’s built up, he resents the pressure she put on him to become more. He resents the help she gave him, while looking at him like he wasn’t capable of doing it on his own.

When he’s finally in that energetic place of self-love and abundance, when he finally feels the God within himself, quite often he usually goes to get another woman whom he deems as better than you. He even provides for her and does the things you felt like he wouldn’t or was incapable of doing for you. Like paying all of the bills.

WHY? Because she only sees the new him. She doesn’t know about the man you felt you “had” to build up. She speaks to him like the King he is today.  You’ve created HER King for her.

And he sees this new woman as EVERYTHING that you weren’t. He talks bad about you…… You don’t get that credit that you were seeking.

Men often call women gold diggers. But the truth is the average man is a energetic gold digger. They will suck all of a woman’s energy up, until she’s depleted and then move on to the next woman.

Build a man up at your own risk.

If you’re the type of woman that knows you love pouring your love into a man and motivating him, then it’s best to get a man who really doesn’t need you for anything.

Motivating him will stretch you and grow you.  He will cause you to focus on YOURSELF.

That thing you were supposed to be doing in the first place. 

Men leave women who neglect to put themselves first.

Have you experienced men leaving you, after you’ve built them up?  Are you feeling confused and don’t know what went wrong?

God is trying to heal you.

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