by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Prophetess | Divine Feminine Wealth Oracle | Sep 28, 2024 |
Why Your Relationships Keep Failing (And What You Can Do About It)
Unless you’re in a SOULMATE RELATIONSHIP where both partners appreciate the value of love, connection, chemistry, and the abundance that the relationship provides, it likely won’t last.
Now, you’ve spent 3 years in a 50/50 relationship and have to start all over again. Then, you go out and do it AGAIN and AGAIN, and each guy leaves you for another woman.
Think about it: you give your all for years in a relationship, only to find yourself back at square one, wondering why the cycle keeps repeating.
Women Want Love, But We Were Given the Wrong Instructions
From a young age, women are conditioned to believe that love is simple—get a boyfriend, give him everything, and live happily ever after. But that couldn’t be further from the truth.
The reality is, many women give their bodies, time, and hearts to men who aren’t ready for love. Especially young men, who are often more focused on discovering themselves and “sowing their wild oats” than building a committed, lasting relationship.
These men aren’t investing in you the way you invest in them. They’re still figuring themselves out, and you end up financially and emotionally drained while they move on to the next.
What You Really Want (And Deserve)
You want love that lasts—the kind where a man makes your life easier, provides for you, and shows up without hesitation. You don’t want to be stuck in relationships where you’re paying half the bills, giving daily sex, and calling it “monogamy.” That’s not love.
Women keep repeating the same mistake, giving everything to men who aren’t committed. They think being in a relationship means they’re winning, but true winning comes from being loved, respected, and provided for.
What High-Value Men Really Want
Quality men aren’t impressed by women who give everything for free. They want a high-value woman—someone who makes him earn access to her heart, mind, and body. A woman who knows her worth and makes him prove he’s worthy of her.
What Can You Do?
Stop settling for 50/50 relationships. Recognize your worth and demand more. The women winning in love are the ones who understand their feminine power and know how to vet men properly. They don’t give everything away to men who aren’t invested in them.
Change your mindset. Know that you deserve more—and demand it.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Prophetess | Divine Feminine Wealth Oracle | Aug 11, 2020 |
Trying to fit into society is such a waste of time. You gotta have boundaries, a DO NOT DISTURB list and so many other things to deal with these men. You have to cater to their emotions. You’re too strong so they want you to be even more vulnerable, so that they can talk sh*t about you and call you weak.
What if I don’t want to have boundaries? What if I desire a man who will simply respect me that way I respect him, and if either of us are not doing such, then we sit down and talk about it.
What about truly being in love with your best friend, who you are also super sexually attracted to?
Why does it have to be the other way? Why must there be so many rules?
Can we dance and melt together, into eternity? Can we fully love one another into total bliss?
Why would I have to do it the other way of mistrust? Why do people tell you to trust, then turn around and break your trust? What is it all for? Where do the heart-centered people belong?
I quit with all of the rules. I refuse. I’ve discovered that strong men actually exist. Every man isn’t a weak lil b*sh who needs his mama. Some men just let you open up to them, depend on them, and be strong when you want to, and when you don’t feel like being strong, and you need his manly support, he’s there for you to hug you, hold you, calm you down, soothe you and help you balance your emotions. Some men say “Here baby, let me help you. Let me show you a new way. Let me introduce you to some new things.”
And when you have sex with him, his love flows into you like the ocean, caressing you, releasing you, pulling you away from all suffering, into total bliss.
And I see that man, and suddenly I’m like “Yo. Can I explore the world with you, and get to know you on a global level? I’m asking, but I’m not really asking. I’m letting you know that you are the one.”
Now, are you going to squander this opportunity? Are you going to waste it by thinking I am your maid? Or are you going to hop all in, forget what other people say, and REALLY, TRULY experience this thing called divine, sacred love?
It feels like the perfect breeze going through your nose, down into your bloodstream. Have you ever experienced that kind of love? The kind where you can just let go of all of your fears and inhibitions?
Have you ever met your match in LOVE? Someone who wasn’t afraid to love you fiercely?
Some men really are DADDY. 😍
Are you ready to set yourself free and meet your soulmate? Would you like to learn the secrets to understanding the way people think and how to effectively communicate with them, in order to get what you want from your relationships?
Grab this book.
They say love isn’t a movie. Except that’s exactly what it is. It’s just that quite often, some people don’t realize the movie has started.
Love is always and forever present with each moment. It’s just a matter of letting it in.
Sidenote: You HAVE to BE YOU. No one can give you permission to do that.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Prophetess | Divine Feminine Wealth Oracle | May 30, 2020 |
I was reading something, that sparked my interest.
I read this and I feel the heart of the person who wrote it. They don’t respect boundaries, doesn’t put themselves first, and believes in self-sacrifice. Yet, they know that love is a choice.
I was thinking of how many people meet their soulmate and have no idea what’s standing in front of them. Soulmates have a very strong connection to one another that goes past emotional love. It’s a love that stands if you just let it be and not let outside sources interfere or try to tell you what it is.
Soulmates won’t go away. Wherever you go, there they are, more than likely triggering you. Reminding you of how not in control of yourself, as you may wish to be.
All too often, LOVE brings up in many people, a FEAR. A fear of choosing wrong, a fear of it not working out. So instead of choosing to fall in love with love, and experience it as it comes, people go running, and screaming, the other way. Then subconsciously carry the belief that love is hard. So they make love hard.
They try to put conditions on love, and determine how they receive it, and from who.
When it comes to being the person who believes love to be hard, the other person in the relationship may not know the belief the other carries, and won’t understand why loving that person is so hard. It’s their fear too that’s showing up. That’s how it manifested. Both would have to break the cycle of FEAR and give in to the love.
Whether they do or don’t, they will always be connected in some energetic way.
Unexplored love due to fear… There goes a real love that will never be. People have become VERY cautious of who they choose to mate with. They want their lives to be peace and heaven on earth.
That’s quite understandable. But are you showing up as that peace?
Regardless, another soulmate will pop up. They always do. Maybe they will feel safe with that one, and this one will feel safe with them too. Because both will have prior found safety within themselves.
Relationships are such beautiful mirrors, if we allow them to be and discuss our feelings authentically. They show us how we are not fulfilling ourselves and placing our needs on others to be our end all and be all. No one can ever do that for you or feel the void. Even if they tried to fill up that expectation, they’d break their own heart.
I believe some soulmates we are meant to meet and experience, so that they can teach us lessons. But we ultimately decide on our own when we are tired of lessons being learned from them.
Sometimes those lessons hurt too much. Sometimes those lessons keep reminding you to listen to your intuition.
Choose love, as long as love is choosing you and getting better. When we don’t choose love, we deny our own truths.
Each soulmate is a chance to choose love again. It’s a chance to see their higher self. God sends you are variety of chances to choose love. Those who choose love, choose you the same. Here is the thing that maybe you missed. God gives us a few chances to get it right. To choose the soul the he’s already chosen for you.
When that part really seeps in. Your one true soulmate will appear.
