Are you a successful woman who has achieved great heights in your career, but find yourself longing for a deep, fulfilling romantic connection? If so, I understand the unique challenges you may face as you navigate the path of being a single and successful woman.
I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey. Many remarkable women like yourself have found themselves in similar situations, wondering how to bridge the gap between their personal and professional accomplishments and their desire for a loving relationship. The good news is that there are actionable steps you can take to manifest the love you deserve while embracing your success.
In my years as an author, relationship blogger, and manifestation coach, I have had the privilege of working with incredible women who have transformed their lives and attracted their dream partners. I believe that with the right guidance and mindset, you too can experience the joy and fulfillment of a loving, committed relationship.
Allow me to share a few key strategies that can help you stop being single and manifest the partner you desire:
Embrace Self-Love and Self-Acceptance: Start by nurturing a deep sense of love and acceptance for yourself. When you radiate self-confidence and embrace your uniqueness, you become a magnet for love and attract partners who value and appreciate you.
Clarify Your Relationship Vision: Take the time to reflect on the qualities and values that are important to you in a partner. Create a clear vision of the kind of relationship you desire, and hold that vision in your mind and heart as you navigate the dating world.
Align Your Energy with Your Desires: Harness the power of manifestation by aligning your energy with your desires. Visualize yourself in a loving partnership, feel the emotions associated with being in that relationship, and trust that the universe will bring forth the right person at the right time.
Expand Your Social Circles: Step out of your comfort zone and explore new social opportunities. Engage in activities and events that align with your interests and passions, and be open to meeting new people. The more you expand your social circles, the greater your chances of connecting with someone who shares your values and vision.
Cultivate Authentic Connections: When dating, prioritize authentic connections over superficial traits. Look beyond external factors and focus on building emotional intimacy and shared values with potential partners. Authentic connections are the foundation of lasting and fulfilling relationships.
I would be honored to support you further on your journey to manifesting the love and partnership you desire. As an experienced manifestation coach, I offer personalized guidance and strategies tailored to your unique situation.
If you’re ready to embrace love and create a fulfilling romantic relationship alongside your successful career, I invite you to reach out to me for a complimentary clarity consultation. Together, we can explore how my coaching services can empower you to manifest your ideal partner and experience the love you deserve.
Remember, being a successful woman doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your desire for a loving relationship. It’s possible to have both and thrive in all aspects of your life.
Wishing you love, happiness, and fulfillment on your journey,
Written with Love,
Kissy Denise – The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Relationship Guide, Blogger, and Manifestation Coach
For women who have a tendency to go with the flow, love deeply, see everything with rosy red lenses, you can change your life and save YEARS of wasted time energy and effort, by avoiding dealing with a man who is or would rob you of your beauty, energy, self-esteem, confidence and everything else.
He’s actually not robbing you. You’re robbing yourself by being co-dependent and unconsciously taking a detour to try to change a man. Chances are you even attempt to change the people around you and take on their burdens.
What if you stepped back and allowed everyone around you to simply be themselves with no pressure from you?
And Deepak Chopra’s Law of Detachment includes this commitment: “I will allow myself and those around me the freedom to be as they are. I will not rigidly impose my idea of how things should be. I will not force solutions on problems, thereby creating new problems.”
Law of detachment love
Detaching with love helps codependents and enablers. When we detach with love, we stop worrying and interfering and let others take responsibility for themselves.
Now, as to YOUR PROBLEM of hanging with men who don’t break bread. Ask yourself why do you do it in the first place?
Chances are, you are attracted to HIM, but are you attracted to his CHARACTER and the way he treats you?
Does being around him feel suppressive to your soul?
Submitting to a man is submitting to his frequency. Imagine the imbalance that comes from you attempting to submit to a man whose frequency calls you to be less than you.
God doesn’t want you with him. That’s why he’s not giving you money or investing in you. Does that make him stupid? No. It simply makes you not the one for him.
THat’s okay. Nobody told you that you had to stick around.
Would you break bread on YOU? Are you a keeper?
This isn’t about gold digging. It’s about matters of the heart and WHO God called you to be. He called you to be prosperous and abundant. He called you to make profit from all of your trades, including your trade of time.
But why would someone invest in spending time with you and unleveling you if you’re willing to spend your time being less for free, complaining about everything they do?
Are you sitting around waiting for someone else to tell you that you are worthy of your own desires, before you honor them?
The right man for you is willing to expand, go all in and commit to you. Handsome tall men will hand you money. What else? Once that’s given to you, what do you REALLY want? WHY do you want it?
Boys like playing with girls as toys. Grown men value their woman.
A boy becomes a man when is willing to help those who need his help. Be the channel of His mercy to others; the harbinger of hope for the hopeless.” Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it” (Proverbs 3:27).
Proverbs 3:27, NLT: Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it’s in your power to help them.
“When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” (KJV). ~ 1 CORITHIANS 13:11
You not feeling worthy and deserving of a man who protects and provides for you has attracts such a man who agrees with you.
But when you embody Goddess consciousness you simply attract who you are. Remember everyone likes honey. So of course you’ll attract few dusty flies. But that doesn’t mean you have to open your door, stop what you’re doing and give the dusty your attention when there 100 Men waiting to serve you.
What you focus on persists, expands and gets amplified. Self-Love and truly being a beacon of light, amplifies your vibration and allows you to manifest the abundant love that you desire FAST with ease and grace.
That’s why they have their appearance together. THAT is the kind of man you need to be around. His frequency is high. He makes you happy. He WANTS to make you happy.
Unattractive men rob women of their life force. Not being attracted to a man is a sign as plain as day. Admit it, you’re disgusted by the lil short, inadequate dude who has no value for love, chases beautiful women, acts like a groupie when he’s around you, trying to sneak pictures and sh*t. He ain’t sh*t. Stop feeling guilty about feeling that way about him. Ask him for some dough, let him tell you NO, and get rid of his dusty azz.
Look at his appearance for what it is. Don’t cut him any slack. Either he breaks bread or he remains unattractive. Cause he surely judges you 100% by your appearance. Even dusty dudes do it. They chase beautiful women while swearing beauty isn’t what they are chasing. Opt out of their b.s. storylines.
Listen ya’ll. I have been in the house working on building my business for 2 years. During that time I was FOCUSED. I wasn’t thinking about no man. But now I have TIME. Let me tell you something…. Men are running up on me to HAND me money. Not just white men, but cute, YOUNG, black men too. It’s all frequency.
You WILL NOT get what you want out of life by dealing with 50/50 men under any circumstances. I am writing this post from the bottom of my heart, to save you.
You will not get what you want out of life, without a KING and a TEAM. Kings take care of their Queens darling. If he runs up on you and he’s not trying to cut the check, he ain’t your King. All he comes with is raggedy ding-a-ling. Which is why you don’t like phucking him in the first place. See, you feel all these kinds of ways, but you try to DENY YOUR OWN FEELINGS, for the sake of SOCIETY.
Here’s a random video I found.. Check it out.
Also do yourself another favor and stop listening to masculine b*shes who keep telling you about getting your own money. You need your own money plus HIS too. That’s the way this sh*t goes. Men who don’t break bread on you are embarrassments. Your vagina is not a free ATM for him to stick his d*ck in and you receive nothing in return.
Listen to me when I tell you that YOU ARE NOT a portable mattress that allows a man to dumb his semen in you and run off. GROSS is a woman who doesn’t value her body. Gross is a woman who hangs out with men who don’t break bread. These men need to break bread simply for hanging with them.
If you don’t have my book YOU CAN’T FORCE A MAN TO VALUE YOU, BECOMING A HIGH VALUE WOMAN & ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM MAN, Then darling it’s time to INVEST in yourself. Cause smart men do not invest in women who don’t invest in themselves.
This thing going around the planet, has really made me look at the men who pursue me and their true intentions. I realized that I have time for some good love. I have lots of time available for sacred love.
I also noticed that you beautiful, brilliant, sophisticated, empowered, divine, magical, spiritual women full of love, laughs and purpose, will be surrounded by an army of men in pursuit of you, if you let them in.
If you’re not letting more than 1-1 at a time in to get to know you, you’re limiting your dating choices to whatever comes at you, instead of holding space until you get what you want.
Rule #2 is that men tend to bore of women whom they don’t have to compete for. He finds not much value in a chill woman.
Relax, he can take it.
A beta man may be outright devastated if he knows you went out on a date with another man, and he’ll hold that in his heart. But have no doubts, that man is full of mediocrity, and fear of honoring his greatnesss. (Yes girl, a whole extra “S”) Because a true King, has belief in himself to beat out all others.
A King be like “Girl, you know you’re going to be my wife.” But so many clowns have said it that it probably doesn’t mean much to you. But that’s not the way you act. That’s why you need to have boundaries, and not strictly operate from your heart.
Attracted people with boundaries will teach you some valuable lessons.
One guy told a woman that he was done with her since she wouldn’t marry him. He moved on to a basic chick, and seems to be at least finding some temporary form of happiness. She always knew he would be happy with less than, and never actually saw her deepest value. Love was simply not apart of him. For him a relationship is LOGIC and in his eyes, if he gives a woman $30,000, that means he should be able to buy her heart. He wanted a boss chick without understanding our mind or heart. On top of that he had no value for my beauty. My oh my, how in the past, you thought that was quite alright since you know they say “Beauty fades.” You would never discount yourself like that again. It’s all about the facts of NOW.
Another guy said that he wasn’t accepting A. B. and C. from her. and that if she wanted to be with him, she would have to do things another way.
This freed the woman of her people pleasing syndrome and truly reiterated the understanding and depth of how men don’t value being loved by a woman. Instead they care about who they love, and the way to a man’s heart is completely opposite of the way most women think it is.
Loving him is not the key to his heart. Ask most men about his last relationship and he will say that she did A.B.C. & D, which to any woman you will see instantly how she wasn’t in love with him. But his belief system will say that she did indeed love him, because she never said a negative word to him. She just showed up with the ACTION of cheating on him, and came back with kind words about that too. Therefore he still felt SAFE with her. That safety allowed him to make excuses for him and be blinded to the fact that the problem was that she didn’t love him. Which is also a reflection of his own lack of self-love.
You can always see how much someone loves themself, off of their appearance alone. Vanity usually isn’t apart of their routine. They view vanity as a negative thing, and let themselves go. Or they are in pain, so they let themselves go. They no longer feel good enough or worthy of looking good. Their subconscious negative beliefs and their pain slowly takes over them. But because the are so busy focused on making money, they never notice.
Other men, a woman can go clean off on him, use him up, and still, that vision of her being the perfect woman remains in his mind. He’ll chase that image although he is clearly not being loved.
For these experiences to happen and for a woman to learn the deeper lessons, she has to put away the ego that has kept her experiencing the same patterns.
Your ego can often tell you to drop something and let it go. But instead you decided “Hey. I am not really interested in dating right now. So let’s just watch them and see how they operate.” (The decisions you make.)
People pleasers have a hard time telling someone conditions and sticking by them. People pleasers have empathy for anyone who truly loves them, and will look over their faults. People pleasers make excuses for others, and find themselves in unhealthy, toxic, relationships. Because you think with your heart too much, instead of facing and addressing what’s in front of you.
Later you’ll be thankful that you didn’t commit or surrender to either of those men, because at times, dealing with them, made you feel less than love.
Now you see how those experiments were more of you self-sacrificing yourself. Sometimes its only through painful or mirrored experiences that we can see the true roots of your own self-sacrifice. Only then can you clearly see how you were always in control of it all.
You must live in your own truths. I enjoy hanging out with people who vibrate on the frequency of divine love. That is my truth that I accept and am okay with. Low energy is draining. High energy feels so right, so luscious and so good. High energy be like “WoW. Is it really this good?”
I totally appreciate a man who has a taste for passion and love. It’s a pleasure to be around a man who isn’t into being mediocre in any department.
You would love a man who won’t accept less than a loving experience with a divine, sacred, spiritual woman.
You ever notice your spirit feels so free when you stop talking to men who aren’t crazy about you? You ever notice how heavy you feel when you’re dealing with a man who obviously isn’t feeling you. Which is why he ignores you? But you thought it was something he did just in the beginning, and he’s running with it.
If you let go of trying to control, you’ll feel whole again.
My normal, warm, kind-hearted, loving, magnetic, soul filled self, loves to be free to be divine love. How does your soul feel?
My natural high came back. I felt joy, fresh air and life again. I began to play to the beat of life again.
Operating in a space of pure love is everything in this world. For the purposed are called to stay vibe high.
High vibe coaches get grounded in before client calls.
I definitely receive divine downloads for my clients, because I’ve done the work.
It was selfish you to allow myself to be part-time loved by anyone. It is selfish of you to deal with men who don’t show up properly. It is selfish of you and sacrificial of you to sit there and watch their behaviors, instead of admitting the FACTS.
You can always choose to learn from the WISDOM of others. But so many people love to say “What works for one person, isn’t good for the next.” So instead of taking wisdom and applying it, some of us chose to learn the hard way. The way of pain. Wisdom would’ve been so much easier.
Like the wisdom to not have sex on the first night or the first week, or the first date. So many women would choose to say that doesn’t apply to them, and learn the hard way. It may just work for 1/50. But why take that chance?
You must know your type and who is for you. Love is not a game to divine souls. You’re not like other people. Marriage isn’t just a business deal to you. You want your love to last. You want both people in the relationship to be happy. You’re not interested in controlling anyone, playing games or having ulterior motives. Yet you try so hard to not be separate from them. Which is why in the past, you’ve wasted time in the wrong relationships.. It came from failing to accept yourself and your deepest desires. It came from failing to understand that what you seek is seeking you.
Average people don’t deserve to mate with those who are called for divine love. Nor are they meant to. It’s meant for you to find your sacred soulmate.
So now you know you don’t have time for part time love, toxic love, half-way love or any love that’s not following up with actions in congruence with it.
Many have told you that they love you. But you’ve never felt an ounce of love coming from either of them. Their actions didn’t match up. But in the back of your mind you heard society and your exes telling you that you didn’t know what love is, because they believed that you should’ve been accepting of their mediocre, toxic forms of love.
Meanwhile, your version of love is innocent and pure. Pure, yet you took with you defense mechanisms from dealing with toxic men.
Like how many women go off on a man, instead of just closing the door on him and leaving him alone. The most loving thing you can do for a man is to close the door on him when he’s not showing up. Going off on him, and walking with him through it, because you love him and believe in him, won’t be seen as love by him.
Like I said, the ex who cheated on your ex, and hopped in the next man’s bed, but said sweet words to him, is LOVE, to him.
Why do you keep letting meant how are not your type creep into your space and be so unromantic. How many romantic dates did he take you on? How many holiday gifts did you get? Did he attempt to charm you at all? Nope… Men only do that for dream women.
It’s the little things. Though they can and do, do other MAJOR things… this is about your accepting your DEEPER desires.)
It sucks to be with such an unromantic man. Any woman with them needs a man on the side, which is what most unromantic men experience. Women who cheated on them and ran into the arms of other men. They only covered one area of a woman.
Those men usually blame the women with no understanding that it was all HIM.
A man must take care of his woman in 5 different categories, not just one. A woman is a HUGE investment. Without nurturing her in those 5 categories, he won’t reap the full abundance of his investment.
In fact, men greatly benefit from tapping into a Goddess. Especially when they see the depth of her light and fully invest in her, WITH LOVE. Such men will reap even greater benefits of abundance.
And when I say that, both men reaped in HUGE benefits. It just could’ve been better.
When you part-time a woman, you cut yourself off from the rest of her. You don’t have time to be half-way loved or part-time loved, so make sure that you are giving your all too.
The love you seek from others, is the love you need to give yourself.
Loving yourself for some means not allowing anyone to take you off the frequency of divine love.
When you allow people to play you short, that’s how you part time yourself. People are simply reflecting that back to you.
The man for you, knows he wants to be with you by the 6 month mark and takes action to solidify the relationship. They each took action, and would’ve solidified had a played my part.
The ones who move slow, simply use women up, and will tell you that they are just chilling. They believe themselves to be good men because they are honest. But everyone knows even if a woman agrees to give her body up in exchange for nothing, that she will still crave that man and want to be with him. If a man isn’t financially covering a woman, he’s using her body up. That’s hard for many to take. However, it is the truth. I covered this in “You Can’t Force A Man To Value You.”
Men who don’t know what they want, damage women. Women who won’t admit what they want, and keep boundaries that only allow in men who are with it, damage themselves.
There’s a whole world of madness going on because people are focused on money and everything other than love.
Refuse to be apart of that world. In your world you get money, love, success, joy, freedom and everything good that life has to offer.
Why CHOOSE to settle for less?
In addition, are you the type to cut people off. Here is a meme for you.
