A 36-year-old client came to me, exhausted from chasing her husband’s love.
The divorce papers were already filed.
He had moved on with another woman.
And there she was ….. crying, broken, and stuck on repeat:
“HE did this… HE said that… HE left me…” It was He, He, He…
I let her get it all out.
Then, I asked her one simple question:
👉 “What is it that you really wanted from him?”
She wiped her tears and said:
💔 “I wanted him to love me… the way I loved him.”
And that’s when everything changed.
I helped her see the truth…that she had chosen this relationship, shown up in a certain way, and that the real work wasn’t about him. It was about her. Our work begun.
Fast forward a few months…
She transformed.
She butterflied. 🦋
Her energy shifted.
And guess what?
Her husband came crawling back, asking to cancel the divorce.
Because the NEW version of her, the one overflowing with deep self-love, was the woman he had always been searching for.
Here’s the truth, ladies… Instead of begging a man to love you, pour that love into yourself.
The problem isn’t him. It’s the reflection of your inner world.
A man cannot give you something you don’t already have within you.
Because if you truly loved yourself, you would have never chosen a man you had to beg for love in the first place.
When you love yourself unconditionally, your soul radiates a magnetic energy that pulls in a love that’s deep, soulful, and fully conscious.
There is no such thing as “blocks.” There is only DECISION.
When you DECIDE that you’re ready to change your life, align your belief system, and take aligned action, the path clears. What once felt like a block becomes nothing more than an illusion.
If you’re CALLED, then you’re already equipped. God has given you everything you need. The only question is: will you step into it?
Success isn’t about figuring it all out alone. It’s about focusing on what you’re brilliant at…the gifts God has placed in you, and allowing others to support the vision.
Here’s the truth: 👉 Your magnetism is the energy that fuels everything. 👉 Your alignment is what attracts opportunities, love, and wealth. 👉 Your belief is the oil that makes the machine work.
You don’t need to force. You don’t need to hustle endlessly. You need to stand in your calling with full confidence and let the systems and support come into place.
Whether you’re creating a business, building your dream life, or calling in love and abundance, you are NOT meant to do it all. That’s the old way.
The new way? ✨ Align your energy. ✨ Take inspired action. ✨ Let your magnetism lead.
Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Instead, let God’s covering be the foundation for your success.
Because when your oil comes from above, there are no limits.
If you’re ready to step into the fullness of your calling and create the life you know you’re meant to have, it’s time to make the decision.
Decide. Align. Walk. Believe. Everything else will follow.
Still Feeling Blocked?
Journal, and ask yourself these questions……
“What am I resisting or afraid to feel?”
“What am I holding onto that no longer serves me?”
Blocks often come from fear, overthinking, or a need to control outcomes. Trust that it’s safe to let go and allow God to lead.
2. Release Resistance
Shift the Energy
Detach:
Step away from
social media, news, or anything fueling the negative energy. or belief in the block.
Ground Yourself:
Go for a walk,
touch nature, or sit in silence. Breathe deeply and slowly.
Focus on One Thing You Can Control:
Whether it’s writing,
praying, or even just cleaning your space, take one small action to regain a sense of power.
Blocks often come from fear, overthinking, or a need to control outcomes. Trust that it’s safe to let go and allow God to lead.
Release Resistance and Surrender the Rest to God
Pray This: “Lord, I release this heaviness to You. I trust that even in the chaos, You are working all things for my good. Fill me with peace, clarity, and strength to navigate this moment. Show me how to align with Your will and purpose. Amen.”
“We must know our worth, but lately empty women only ask and do not give. That is why they are old and single…”
Someone said this about Lisa Raye in response to a post about Lisa saying she will only date a man who can afford to pay all of her bills.
In a world where success is often measured by professional accomplishments and financial milestones, many accomplished, high-value women find themselves grappling with an unexpected and deeply personal challenge: remaining single. Despite their impressive achievements and deep inner qualities, they struggle to find lasting, fulfilling relationships. Here’s a closer look at why this may be the case and how these incredible women can shift their reality.
1. Misaligned Self-Worth and Relationship Expectations
High-achieving women often measure their worth through their professional accomplishments and financial success. While these are admirable, they can sometimes overshadow the importance of self-worth and emotional alignment in personal relationships. When we tie our value to external achievements, it’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling unworthy of genuine, nurturing love. This misalignment can lead to entering relationships where we either overcompensate or undervalue ourselves, leading to dissatisfaction.
Solution: Embrace and cultivate self-worth that is independent of external achievements. Focus on recognizing your inherent value and the love you deserve simply for being who you are, not just for what you’ve accomplished.
2. Operating in Masculine Energy
Many successful women operate predominantly in their masculine energy—driven, goal-oriented, and independent. While this energy is valuable in business, it can create a disconnect in romantic relationships where vulnerability, receptivity, and emotional openness are crucial. The imbalance can lead to attracting partners who either do not understand this energy or are unwilling to match it with their own.
Solution: Balance your masculine energy with nurturing, feminine qualities. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and receptive in your personal relationships. Embrace the qualities of softness, intuition, and emotional openness to create space for a partner who values and complements your essence.
3. Patterns of Over-Giving and Self-Sacrifice
For many successful women, giving their all in relationships has been a pattern—often to the detriment of their own needs and boundaries. This can result in relationships where they feel used, undervalued, or even abused. Over time, this pattern can create a significant emotional scar, making it harder to open up to new, healthy connections.
Solution: Set clear boundaries and prioritize your needs and desires. Learn to give from a place of abundance rather than scarcity, and ensure that your relationships are reciprocal and fulfilling. Embrace the idea that your needs are valid and should be honored.
4. Fear of Rejection and Vulnerability
Even the most successful women can harbor fears of rejection and vulnerability. These fears may stem from past experiences or societal conditioning. The fear of being judged or rejected can prevent them from fully engaging in new relationships or from expressing their true selves.
Solution: Work on embracing vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness. Practice self-compassion and affirm your worthiness of love and connection. Remember, authentic connections are built on honesty and openness, which requires facing and overcoming fears.
5. Difficulty Finding Compatible Partners
Sometimes, the issue isn’t with the individual but with the lack of suitable partners. High-achieving women may struggle to find men who are equally successful, emotionally intelligent, and ready for a serious commitment. The disparity in relationship readiness or life goals can create obstacles in finding a compatible match. It gets even worse if a woman is introverted and doesn’t leave the house much.
Solution: Expand your social circles and engage in activities where you are likely to meet like-minded individuals. Consider working with a matchmaker or relationship coach who understands your unique needs and can help you navigate the dating world effectively.
6. Past Trauma and Emotional Baggage
Unresolved trauma and emotional baggage can significantly impact one’s ability to form healthy relationships. For many high-achieving women, past experiences of rejection, abandonment, or emotional hurt can create subconscious barriers to finding love.
Solution: Invest in personal healing and growth. Engage in therapeutic practices that address and release past traumas, and work on building a strong, positive self-image. Healing is a continuous journey, and addressing emotional baggage can pave the way for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
Embrace Your True Self
Navigating the complexities of high achievement and personal fulfillment can be challenging, but it’s essential to recognize that love and relationships are a reflection of our inner state. By aligning with your true self, setting healthy boundaries, and embracing both your feminine and masculine energies, you create the space for meaningful connections to flourish.
Remember, your worth is intrinsic, and your desires are valid. With self-love, intentionality, and openness, you can manifest the love and partnership you dream of while continuing to thrive in every area of your life.
Embrace Your Journey to Love and Fulfillment
Finding the love and partnership you desire is a journey that starts with embracing and aligning with your true self. If you’re ready to take actionable steps towards manifesting a fulfilling relationship while continuing to excel in your professional life, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Here’s how you can get started:
Book a Goddess Alignment Call: Dive deep into understanding your unique challenges and how to align with your highest self. This personalized session will help you uncover and overcome the obstacles standing between you and your dream life and relationships.
Discover Yourself with Our Quizzes: Take our insightful quizzes to gain clarity on your current relationship dynamics and uncover areas for growth. These quizzes are designed to provide you with personalized feedback to help you navigate your journey more effectively.
Explore Our E-books and Books: Delve into our collection of e-books and my transformative book, You Can’t Force A Man To Value You – Becoming A High-Value Woman & Attracting Your Dream Man. These resources are packed with actionable advice and powerful insights to help you attract the love and success you deserve.
Enroll in Our Courses: Whether you’re looking to enhance your confidence, align with high-value partners, or manifest your dreams, our courses offer structured guidance and support to help you achieve your goals.
Ready to transform your love life and align with your highest self? Take the first step today by scheduling your Goddess Alignment Call and exploring our range of resources. Embrace your divine feminine energy, unlock your potential, and manifest the fulfilling relationships and success you’ve always dreamed of.
Deciding to embrace your desire for financial success, even aspiring to achieve millionaire or billionaire status, is a pursuit laden with potential.
Starting out, you may have believed it was all about the money. Eventually, you realize that the true essence lies in the mindset cultivated during this journey, and the profound impact it can have on one’s life. Tis where the heart of life itself is at.
Life is truly all about the journey. When you channel your financial aspirations with a broader perspective, you unlock the transformational power that extends beyond mere financial milestones.
Balancing Financial Success and Fulfillment
In understanding WHY it’s important to shift or expand your mindset , here are a few points to consider:
If you are constantly focused on the pursuit of more money, one might find themselves in a cycle of discontentment. This can prevent you from appreciating your accomplishments and blessings that you already have.
Emotional Well-being:
Relying solely on external markers of success, like financial wealth, can lead to emotional instability. If your self-worth is tied solely to your financial status, your mood and self-esteem might fluctuate with your financial ups and downs. Lack of Fulfillment:
Money alone does not guarantee fulfillment. The pursuit of wealth might distract from cultivating other aspects of your life that bring you joy, purpose, and meaning, such as relationships, hobbies, and personal growth.
Impact On Health & Relationships
Obsessive focus on financial success can lead to neglecting health and relationships. Stress and neglecting self-care due to work-related pursuits can have detrimental effects on both physical and mental well-being. We can’t have you neglecting yourself divine one. You deserve, love, time, attention and affection too. Comparison and Envy:
Constantly comparing oneself to others who might have achieved greater financial success can foster feelings of envy, inadequacy, and anxiety. As we set our sights on monumental goals, it’s natural to observe others who seem to have achieved them more swiftly. However, remember that your journey is uniquely yours, unfolding at its own pace for reasons beyond what meets the eye. The stories of others don’t define the worth of your aspirations or the merit of your progress. Instead of dwelling on comparison, focus on the strides you’ve made, the lessons you’ve learned, and the growth you’ve experienced. Your path is distinctive, and the journey holds treasures that align with your personal growth and fulfillment. Shallow Pursuits:
Overemphasizing financial gains might lead to a shallow pursuit of success, neglecting deeper personal growth and contribution to society. Meaning when you’re so busy chasing wealth, it may be hard to see how much you are awesomely, and abundantly already contributing to the world. Short-term Gratification
Chasing financial milestones might provide short-term gratification, but it might not lead to sustained happiness or contentment. This is why GOD said to chase him by simply putting him first, and all of those other things will be added unto you. When you feel ONE with GOD you have all. You are allowed to feel one with God even when you spirit has felt broken. You can let go, surrender and LET GOD take the wheel from you trying to do it all, be all, by working your butt off in order to feel worthy. You never had to do anything by yourself. Therefore you are free to have learn-term goals that bring you sustainable happiness, and peace. You don’t have to work so hard for everything. You can simply ask/expect God to make you new and accept the changes.
WHAT THIS ARTICLE IS ABOUT
It’s important to assess your values, goals, and priorities. While financial success can be important, it’s usually more fulfilling when it’s part of a broader life plan that includes personal growth, meaningful relationships, health, and a sense of purpose. You get these things from walking with God. But by no means are things going to always go prefect, before you realize you are one with him and already victorious.
Balancing financial aspirations with loving and supporting your spiritual well-being is key to leading a fulfilling and satisfying life. God will help you keep this balance by taking care of the light work and the heavy work. He will keep you focused. That’s why focusing on God is the best path for those who are called. You love God. Therefore you are chosen. Because you have chosen. Because you have chosen and you are chosen, you have all.
When you feel naturally comfortable just being you and doing what makes you happy, God will cover the rest. So you can get rest and not stress.
GOD’S MISSION
FOR YOUR LIFE
RICH is actually in the mind. The easiest way to attract WEALTH, is to first be rich in the rest of your life. Then you can easily allow large amounts of money flow to you with ease and grace.
~ Kissy Denise | The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation
Are you a successful woman who has achieved great heights in your career, but find yourself longing for a deep, fulfilling romantic connection? If so, I understand the unique challenges you may face as you navigate the path of being a single and successful woman.
I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey. Many remarkable women like yourself have found themselves in similar situations, wondering how to bridge the gap between their personal and professional accomplishments and their desire for a loving relationship. The good news is that there are actionable steps you can take to manifest the love you deserve while embracing your success.
In my years as an author, relationship blogger, and manifestation coach, I have had the privilege of working with incredible women who have transformed their lives and attracted their dream partners. I believe that with the right guidance and mindset, you too can experience the joy and fulfillment of a loving, committed relationship.
Allow me to share a few key strategies that can help you stop being single and manifest the partner you desire:
Embrace Self-Love and Self-Acceptance: Start by nurturing a deep sense of love and acceptance for yourself. When you radiate self-confidence and embrace your uniqueness, you become a magnet for love and attract partners who value and appreciate you.
Clarify Your Relationship Vision: Take the time to reflect on the qualities and values that are important to you in a partner. Create a clear vision of the kind of relationship you desire, and hold that vision in your mind and heart as you navigate the dating world.
Align Your Energy with Your Desires: Harness the power of manifestation by aligning your energy with your desires. Visualize yourself in a loving partnership, feel the emotions associated with being in that relationship, and trust that the universe will bring forth the right person at the right time.
Expand Your Social Circles: Step out of your comfort zone and explore new social opportunities. Engage in activities and events that align with your interests and passions, and be open to meeting new people. The more you expand your social circles, the greater your chances of connecting with someone who shares your values and vision.
Cultivate Authentic Connections: When dating, prioritize authentic connections over superficial traits. Look beyond external factors and focus on building emotional intimacy and shared values with potential partners. Authentic connections are the foundation of lasting and fulfilling relationships.
I would be honored to support you further on your journey to manifesting the love and partnership you desire. As an experienced manifestation coach, I offer personalized guidance and strategies tailored to your unique situation.
If you’re ready to embrace love and create a fulfilling romantic relationship alongside your successful career, I invite you to reach out to me for a complimentary clarity consultation. Together, we can explore how my coaching services can empower you to manifest your ideal partner and experience the love you deserve.
Remember, being a successful woman doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your desire for a loving relationship. It’s possible to have both and thrive in all aspects of your life.
Wishing you love, happiness, and fulfillment on your journey,
Written with Love,
Kissy Denise – The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Relationship Guide, Blogger, and Manifestation Coach
