In July, Princess Love filed a request for dismissal of her divorce from Ray J, just two months after she initially filed the claim to dissolve their marriage of four years.
On Monday Ray J announced that he was now divorcing Princess.
He told ET, that he didn’t even think about it, and just filed the paperwork.
When asked about how he came to the decision to file for divorce this week, Ray J confessed, “It was just how I felt at the time. I didn’t really talk to nobody about it.”
“I just went to God.”
Princess Love learned about husband Ray J’s divorce filing through social media.
The fashion designer was never told directly that her singer-songwriter spouse filed to legally ditch her on Monday, according to The Shade Room.
Additionally, Love claims the Love & Hip Hop: Hollywood star ‘won’t return any of her phone calls or text messages’ in the wake of the filing.
Ray J said he only wants the best for his family. Even if that means the mother of his two children — daughter Melody, two, and 8-month-old son Epik — moves on with someone new.
“I just want to make sure that my babies and my Princess is in a great place mentally and that they can enjoy life,” he explained. “My wife — if there’s somebody better out there that she wants to be with, then I have to respect that as well. But hey, I don’t know. I can’t say too much, but I love you, Princess. That’s what I can say.”
According to B. Scott, Ray J & Princess been having marital problems forever.
“Back in November of 2019, a pregnant Princess accused Ray of abandoning her and their daughter in Las Vegas, which prompted an epic social media war as Princess took to Instagram to say the marriage was over.
“I don’t have time for this. This is not love. And I’m done,” she posted.
Ray J denied leaving his pregnant wife in Las Vegas.”
Even after filing for divorce, Ray J seems to really be pulling a chess move on Princess, cause he somehow still has hopes of a reconciliation.
“Even if we don’t make it, we still have to be with each other a lot, because we have a baby, so we’re together for life. Happiness is important. I think. I’ll sacrifice all my happiness for my kids,” he told ET.
This Princess Love & Ray J situation really goes to show what happens when a woman doesn’t stick to her guns and put herself first.
It’s highly embarrassing as a woman to have a man file for divorce on you. But I guess at least he’s being polite and saying he’s doing it for her well-being.
Situations like this are why it’s often pointless to stay with a cheating man. After a while he realizes he messes up and he lets go to go be with another woman. For a man, it’s easier to start all over again with a new woman, than to do the DIFFICULT work of healing the woman he broke. Most times I swear, they always bring God into it, and say God told them to let go.
Now she has to go out into the world broken, meeting new men, and probably not even realizing she is broken. Sure, another man will hop on it. But before Ray J she was with Floyd Mayweather who also has an abusive history. Princess has a victim pattern.
What’s even more true is that quite often I hear black men saying how black women are constantly choosing the flashy guys, instead of the nice guys who would do right by them. It’s true. Black women want to live a luxury lifestyle. Beautiful women need men who will invest in them and appreciate their beauty. But oftentimes a celebrity man is the last man who is going to give her the true love she desires.
As to Princess, any normal adult could see how she fell in love with Ray J. He’s attractive with a beautiful voice, and seemingly has everything a woman could want. But the thing about any man is that he MUST have a desire to treat a woman like a Queen, keep her happy, keep his family together, handle his business and maintain a healthy relationship. The minute a man cheats, he has to know that all of that is in jeopardy. Cheating people cause their own relationship problems and seem highly surprised by the repercussions of their decisions to be unable to control themselves. And many women THINK that they will get with a man and not care if he cheats, until they get abandoned in Vegas, and realize the man truly gives no phucks.
People are getting married and entering into relationships without any form of counseling or knowing how to maintain a healthy relationship, let alone a MARRIAGE that means we’re supposed to be together forever.
If a couple wants to stay together, each person has to know that the other’s happiness is just as important as their own. And a man has to realize that it is he who LEADS the relationship and a woman maintains the balance by setting high standards and not putting up with no sh*t.
Often times the minute you taking a cheating man back, it’s a set-up for failure. People don’t view forgiveness as forgiveness sometimes. They view it as having a sucker willing to put up with their crap.
Toxic relationships, cheating and abuse are so normalized in the black community.
As I always say, all of Hollywood needs a spiritual life coach. In this world we mostly all have to heal from patterns. But very few people are putting in the effort to do so.