Why 50/50 Relationships Are a Scam: Women Deserve More Than a Roommate

Why 50/50 Relationships Are a Scam: Women Deserve More Than a Roommate

For years, women have been sold the idea that “equality” in relationships means splitting everything down the middle — bills, responsibilities, effort. But let’s keep it 💯. Does it ever truly feel equal? Does a woman who is handling half the rent, half the groceries, and still managing the emotional, mental, and physical load of the relationship actually have an equal partnership? Or is she just getting the short end of the stick while playing the role of both a provider and a nurturer, for a man who doesn’t even know her value?

At this point, a woman might as well just get a roommate. Think about it: A roommate helps pay the bills, keeps their space tidy, and respects boundaries. But a roommate doesn’t expect submission, devotion, or intimacy. Yet, in a 50/50 relationship, a woman is often expected to do everything a wife does while still carrying a financial load that doesn’t allow her to fully rest in her feminine energy.

So the real question is: Why are women signing up for this? Let’s break down why the 50/50 relationship model is a scam and why women deserve better. 💎

🔥 Like… what’s the actual incentive?! If a woman is gonna be paying half the bills, stressed out, and still expected to cook, clean, and submit—she might as well just get a roommate and keep her peace, freedom, and sexual autonomy.

A roommate:
✅ Splits the bills 50/50
✅ Respects personal space
✅ Doesn’t expect submission, nurturing, or emotional labor
✅ Doesn’t require sex, emotional support, or daily catering

A 50/50 man:
❌ Expects you to split the bills like a man but serve him like a wife
❌ Still wants submission, loyalty, and emotional labor
❌ Still wants sex on demand
❌ Will often still act entitled & expect you to make him feel like a king
❌ Likely won’t give you financial security, protection, or deep masculine leadership

So tell me… what’s the difference? Because in a true high-value relationship, the man should be providing more than just splitting rent.

A Divine Feminine Woman Knows:
✨ A real, intentional masculine man wants to provide.
✨ A high-value man sees taking care of his woman as a privilege.
✨ When a woman is provided for, cherished, and protected, she flourishes.
✨ Love is not a financial transaction, but a man’s ability to lead & protect naturally shows up in how he provides.

Sis, you are not meant to be in a financial struggle partnership—you are meant to be in a divine union where a man leads, provides, and nurtures the home while you lean into your feminine essence, beauty, magnetism, and peace.

If a woman is paying half, stressing like a man, and still expected to cater to her man—she needs to ask herself… why is she signing up for the short end of the stick?

💡 Moral of the story: If a man isn’t stepping up, you might as well get a roommate and call it a day. 🙌🏽🔥💎

THE REALITY OF BEING IN A 50/50 RELATIONSHIP

😤 The truth is, 50/50 sounds nice in theory, but in real life, it doesn’t exist the way people want to believe it does.

The HARSH Reality of 50/50 Relationships for Women:
1️⃣ Women still end up doing MORE. Even in so-called “equal” relationships, the woman still carries more of the mental load, emotional labor, household duties, and often child-rearing. It’s not really 50/50—it’s pay half, work double.

2️⃣ 50/50 is a scam created to weaken feminine energy. High-value, intentional masculine men know their role as providers. If a man wants an equal partner financially, then he better be equal in everything else—including housework, cooking, emotional support, and nurturing her needs. But we both know that’s never how it plays out.

3️⃣ Men don’t respect women they “struggle” with. Most men who push 50/50 don’t even admire the woman for her contributions—they start feeling like she’s another dude in the house. Meanwhile, when a man provides, leads, and protects, he naturally values the woman he’s taking care of.

4️⃣ A man’s natural instinct is to provide. If a man is comfortable watching his woman stress over bills, he is not in his highest masculine energy. A real man finds joy in making sure his woman is stress-free. That’s just facts.

5️⃣ Women are built for creation, not survival. A feminine woman flourishes in ease, safety, and security. When she’s worried about rent, bills, and keeping the lights on, she can’t fully lean into her softness, creativity, and divine purpose.

So NO, I won’t lie to people.
A relationship should be mutually fulfilling, but that does not mean a woman should be pulling half the financial weight while also carrying the entire emotional, spiritual, and household weight.

💎 True balance is:
✨ A man leads, provides, and protects
✨ A woman nurtures, uplifts, and magnetizes
✨ Both feel safe, valued, and appreciated

A queen doesn’t go half on the kingdom — she rests in her throne while her king builds it. 👑🔥

So if a man wants equal financial contribution, he better be equal in every single way. Otherwise, like I said… a roommate makes more sense. PERIOD. 😌💅🏽


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Sis, let’s be real — you’re not here to struggle, chase, or beg for love. You’re meant to be cherished, adored, and provided for by a masculine man who sees your worth. But if you keep attracting men who want 50/50, it’s time for a shift.

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The main reason it doesn’t matter whether your woman loves you or not

The main reason it doesn’t matter whether your woman loves you or not

A woman’s love is irrelevant because if you don’t keep her happy, she still won’t stay.

That’s why the so called alpha men on Youtube pose a danger to society.

Here’s HOW:

  1. Men seek to find a woman THEY love. If she loves him without him feeling an even stronger love for her, her love for him doesn’t matter TO HIM.
  2. If men are only concerned about their wants and needs being met, they won’t be able to maintain the love of a woman.  When a woman doesn’t feel loved, chances are she’ll be unhappy.  An unhappy woman makes an unhappy household and she will rarely come into agreement with her man.

A woman can only love a man, when she loves herself.  If that man isn’t treating her well, then she has to exit that relationship in order to fully love herself, or work on healing herself inside the relationship.

A woman will leave a man when she believes that she can be happier without him.

Therefore protecting, providing, and keeping his woman HAPPY are a true alpha’s main concern.

In the bible it shows how a woman was created to be LOVED by the man of whom she has submitted herself to.

Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her”

Ephesians 5:26: “to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,…”

A woman is healed by a man who speaks LIFE into her. God’s word is that chosen book of life.

You may now be asking the question, “Well what’s the true benefit to a man?”

If you don’t know the answer, visit www.kissydenise.com to book an I LOVE MY WOMAN strategy session.  You have questions and Kissy has answers along with a seductive certificate for men who like to score bonus points.

The benefit to having the love of the right woman, is that HER PRESENCE can improve your life, business and relationships, overnight.

Keep that woman happy and in love with you forever, and lets just say the well will continue running deep.

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There has to be a man in this world, that’s okay with me being me

There has to be a man in this world, that’s okay with me being me

Trying to fit into society is such a waste of time. You gotta have boundaries, a DO NOT DISTURB list and so many other things to deal with these men. You have to cater to their emotions. You’re too strong so they want you to be even more vulnerable, so that they can talk sh*t about you and call you weak.

What if I don’t want to have boundaries? What if I desire a man who will simply respect me that way I respect him, and if either of us are not doing such, then we sit down and talk about it.

What about truly being in love with your best friend, who you are also super sexually attracted to?

Why does it have to be the other way? Why must there be so many rules?

Can we dance and melt together, into eternity? Can we fully love one another into total bliss?

Why would I have to do it the other way of mistrust?  Why do people tell you to trust, then turn around and break your trust? What is it all for?   Where do the heart-centered people belong?

I quit with all of the rules. I refuse. I’ve discovered that strong men actually exist. Every man isn’t a weak lil b*sh who needs his mama. Some men just let you open up to them, depend on them, and be strong when you want to, and when you don’t feel like being strong, and you need his manly support, he’s there for you to hug you, hold you,  calm you down, soothe you and help you balance your emotions. Some men say “Here baby, let me help you. Let me show you a new way. Let me introduce you to some new things.”

 

And when you have sex with him, his love flows into you like the ocean, caressing you, releasing you, pulling you away from all suffering, into total bliss.

And I see that man, and suddenly I’m like “Yo. Can I explore the world with you, and get to know you on a global level?  I’m asking, but I’m not really asking. I’m letting you know that you are the one.”

 

Now, are you going to squander this opportunity? Are you going to waste it by thinking I am your maid? Or are you going to hop all in, forget what other people say, and REALLY, TRULY experience this thing called divine, sacred love?

It feels like the perfect breeze going through your nose, down into your bloodstream.  Have you ever experienced that kind of love?  The kind where you can just let go of all of your fears and inhibitions?

Have you ever met your match in LOVE? Someone who wasn’t afraid to love you fiercely?

 

Some men really are DADDY. 😍

 

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They say love isn’t a movie. Except that’s exactly what it is. It’s just that quite often, some people don’t realize the movie has started.

Love is always and forever present with each moment. It’s just a matter of letting it in.

Sidenote: You HAVE to BE YOU. No one can give you permission to do that.