Love Beyond Emotion: Unveiling the Power of Conscious Choices in Relationships

by | Love & Relationships

Love is more than a fleeting emotion; it’s a deliberate choice we make every day. In the journey of choosing love, we often encounter moments where our actions don’t align with this intention. This blog post delves into the intricate dance between emotions, choices, and the profound impact they have on our relationships.

Love isn’t just a feeling. It’s a choice.

Embrace the exploration of love beyond the surface. You have the feeling down, and believe that you are CHOOSING LOVE, however some parts of you have not been showing up as love inside of your relationships. Picture this: moments when you believe you are choosing love, yet certain aspects of yourself seem to resist, leading to friction within your relationships.

The Dichotomy of Feeling Unloved

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you don’t feel loved by your partner? It’s a common experience that often triggers certain reactions, mirroring the behavior you wish to change. Let’s unravel this dynamic and understand why it happens.

Here’s why: When you don’t feel loved by your mate, you react to what you feel, by emulating their behavior, allowing them to feel the same way that you do.

Reflecting on Disrespect and Character

What about the times you’ve disrespected your mate, or chose to not humble yourself in character as GOD told you to?

Consider the times you may have unintentionally disrespected your partner or neglected the call to humble yourself, in character as GOD told you to? You know that you are your beliefs.

Therefore, that’s not love for your mate nor God.  It’s especially not love for self, because you only slow down your own progress and blessings when you move out of character.

True love can only be manifested by truly loving yourself.  When you truly love yourself you will be that person effortlessly.

True love involves respecting your mate, embodying the principles you hold dear, and honoring the character that aligns with your values.

Navigating Betrayal and Choosing Love

Let’s say someone cheated on you, and then you cheat back. Did you really WANT to have sex with that other person, or are you ONLY doing it to get back at your cheating mate?

Of course you have the option to do as you please, but why become a cheating mate, just because you have one?

Life’s challenges should not dictate our behavior or shift our character.

Thou shalt not allow the behavior and characteristics of others to move you out of space, place, nor character.

At any time you can choose to stop dwelling in toxic places and trying to fit in with them, where you don’t belong.

Explore the notion that you CURRENTly possess the power to break free from toxic environments and rise above circumstances that compromise your authenticity.


Transformation happens when your actions align with your thoughts.

When your actions catch up with your thoughts, or vice versa, it can have profound effects on your life and well-being, causing:

  1. Alignment: Achieving alignment between your thoughts and actions creates a sense of congruence and authenticity. This alignment is crucial for personal satisfaction and inner peace.
  2. Empowerment: When your actions align with your thoughts, you feel a sense of empowerment. It reinforces the idea that you have control over your life and can manifest your intentions.
  3. Manifestation: The alignment of thoughts and actions is often associated with the concept of manifestation. When you consistently think positively and align your actions with those thoughts, you may attract more positive outcomes into your life.
  4. Clarity: Alignment brings clarity. When your actions reflect your thoughts, it can lead to a clearer understanding of your goals and desires, making it easier to pursue them.
  5. Productivity: The synergy between thoughts and actions can enhance productivity. Clear thoughts lead to intentional actions, reducing procrastination and increasing efficiency.
  6. Personal Growth: Consistent alignment between thoughts and actions is a catalyst for personal growth. It encourages self-reflection, goal-setting, and a commitment to positive change.

To sum it up, when your thoughts and actions are in harmony, it can create a powerful force for positive change and personal transformation in your life.

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