If a woman leaves one man…
then another…
then another…
and every man is “the problem”…
At some point, we have to ask:
🗣️ “Sis, what’s the common denominator?”
Because being empowered to leave is NOT the same as being healed enough to choose wisely.
🧨 So here’s the TRUTH BOTH WAYS:
1️⃣ Yes, men can’t keep a good woman.
They fumble her, misuse her, lie to her, abuse her, or drain her because they haven’t healed, matured, or learned how to lead.
BUT ALSO—
2️⃣ Many women don’t know how to be a good partner either.
They’re emotionally reactive, wounded, hyper-independent, in masculine energy, trying to mother a man to succeed, still don’t know how to be feminine and receive, or still trying to make men pay for what the last one did.
And if she’s not feminine, safe, soft, or open, the good man will leave too.
🔑 It’s NOT about who can’t keep who.
The real truth is:
🧠 People attract what they ARE energetically.
Not what they want.
💎 The Upgrade:
“Leaving a man isn’t powerful if you keep choosing the same broken pattern in a different body.”
“You’re not healed just because you walk away. You’re healed when you no longer walk into dysfunction in the first place.”
“It’s not about keeping a man. It’s about keeping your standards, your self-worth, and your feminine energy intact.”
So yes, women are leaving. And they should.
But that’s not healing—that’s just step one.
👑 Final Gem:
Real power isn’t just walking away. It’s walking in the room and being so healed, so aligned, and so magnetic that you don’t even entertain what you used to call “love.”
