Saw this woman about 7 months ago announce that she’d hit 7 figures in her business, and she wrote a post telling her “future husband” that she’s going to be a great business partner for him.
At the time I said nothing… But in my head I was like “Awwwwe. poor baby.. She’s actually thinks that post will attract a King in her life.”
I wanted so badly to comment and tell her the post probably wouldn’t attract the kind of man she wants.
But spirit was like “Goddess. Stay out of non-client business.” I’d already offered her my services and she declined… Honestly it seemed like she was anxious to show me that she didn’t need me…
She found a guy and started posting “couples” photos. It was “bae,” this and “bae” that. All of her followers were like “Yes, Boss Lady! You finding love is so inspiring.”
Later she posted about helping her “boyfriend” build his business to 6 figures, and ended up catching him cheating in the car with another woman…. Chick was on his lap riding and everything, right there in the parking lot…
On Facebook I see many women makes these posts begging men to come “wife” her because she’s going to be a good business partner… (Advertising to get used) Or the women who advertise who they don’t need luxury or anything else from a man, claiming they simply want “love, attention and time.” I smh at these pick me videos that men are so quick to share. Because most men of course want a woman who is sleep, is honest about her desires and is willing to settle for less, only to later be disappointed in him, cause she magically thought he was going to level up and give her her secret desires.
Anyway, back to the story. High Value Men are looking for a feminine partner… Not a business partner. He can get a male business partner.
He wants his woman to have feminine qualities to offer him…
Honestly, ya’ll would be better off advertising blowjobs.
I learned my lesson about thinking my brilliance and success in business plus my good looks was my bragging point for relationships.
Now all I offer a man is my beauty and feminine essence. Everything else he receives will come as a surprise, after getting to know me. There is no need to advertise anything else… Because if he can’t feel her feminine essence and energy simply in her being, he’s unable to emotionally connect to her. Which means everything else that you offer now doesn’t count.
Which is why most women can not get a high value man who provides. Men provide for women with feminine energy. Women who can receive from him.
A high value man’s dick does not get hard at the thought of marrying you cause you say you would make a good business partner.
Any man who responds to that request is going to d*ck you down real good, have you going 50/50 and running his business while he spends money on the side chick. And the side chick won’t have a quarter of your brain or power. It will leave you confused.
You want a man who values your brilliance and business skillsl. But first you must have something to offer him that he feels his valuable….
My question is why do such women choose to ignore feminine advice, level up advice and literally any advice that will help her soften her feminine essence and attract a King into her life?
I’ll get to that answer… But first I look back at myself and I ignored feminine advice in the past, before I shifted into divine feminine Goddess embodiment, because I would see the most unattractive women teaching femininity. They would always say why pretty women couldn’t get or keep a man. And that didn’t resonate with me because I never had a problem getting or keeping a man.
In fact, I’ve never been dumped. Despite that, I ended up breaking up with one of my soulmates and broke my own heart. I asked myself “Why do I keep dumping men?” Men want to marry me and everything. They are willing to give me exactly what I want. They even spoil me, cook for me, take me out nice places and buy me nice things.
In my exploration I began to understand purpose, alignment, clarity and most of all femininity. I realized that I was a perfectionist and put a lot of pressure on those around me to be perfect… I also talked recklessly at times and emasculated men.
Anyway I received divine feminine coaching and magically I started to attract men who would tell me that I have “wife energy.” But that’s a different conversation and a level of embodiment that most women simply will never have, because it requires a ton of inner and outer work.
WHY BRILLIANT WOMEN IGNORE FEMININE WISDOM
When a successful, intelligent woman ignores wisdom that’s all over social media telling her to tune into her femininity, this points to a larger issue about conditioning, misalignment, and misunderstanding feminine power.
Here’s why some women struggle to embrace the advice that would truly help them level up:
1. Societal Conditioning & Overemphasis on Achievement
Many women are raised to believe their value is tied to their achievements…. Education, career success, and accolades. They’re taught that being “independent” and showing they can “hold their own” will earn them love and respect.
Not only does this make most successful women believe they are better than drop dead gorgeous women who have “nothing to offer, but nice IG pics.. But this mindset also pushes them into their masculine energy, where they lead with doing, proving, and building, instead of resting in their essence.
DOING and pushing seems natural and norm.. She believes working harder means she’s worthy…
Many successful women genuinely believe that advertising their business skills or financial contributions will attract a high-value man, not realizing this often repels Kings who seek softness, love, and peace.
Listen, even me on social media, I’m like “Hey.. I keep running my platform trying to level women up, as a sacrifice to myself.. Even this post, me helping women again, when i could totally be spending my time doing something that will attract high value men to me.
2. Fear of Vulnerability
Embracing feminine energy requires trusting, receiving, and surrendering. This starts with trusting GOD and trusting yourself. Concepts that can feel foreign or even unsafe to women who’ve been burned in relationships or told to “never depend on a man, and know that the bible says “faith without works is dead” Relaxing, trusting, learning back. letting go and letting GOD just doesn’t seem like a real path to her.
Many women feel that leading with their feminine energy leaves them vulnerable to being hurt, used, or undervalued, so they overcompensate by trying to control the dynamic with their masculine traits. And this is totally understandable because the truth is men do like women who have their own money and women who don’t need them.. (To a degree… what I said isn’t surface. Surface cause most women don’t know how to receive from a man, which makes her not a choice for a viable mate.)
3. Misunderstanding “Value”
These women equate their worth with what they can do for a man, not who they are as a woman.
They believe offering their business savvy or financial contributions is what will make a man commit, when in reality, a man of means already values those qualities in himself and doesn’t need them in a partner. His woman has to bring something else that he values.
4. Insecurity & Lack of Self-Worth
Deep down, many women who lead with “I’m a great business partner” or “I’ll build him up” don’t feel their feminine essence alone is enough. And it’s not… Cause again, it requires vulnerability and the willingness to be seen, Naked…
They’ve never been taught to trust that their softness, radiance, beauty, and presence are the most valuable things they can offer the right man. Again, most women don’t have softness, radiance, beauty, nor presence… Yet darn there every woman thinks she does, due to filters.. But in person, she doesn’t look soft and radiant at all. The difference is the women who are drop dead gorgeous in real life, have that going for them… But that doesn’t mean she still isn’t secure and lacks self-worth. Anybody can get the work!
5. Lack of Representation
Many women don’t see examples of what it looks like to embody Divine Feminine energy while maintaining independence and success.
They assume it’s an either/or choice: either I’m a powerhouse businesswoman, or I’m a soft feminine Goddess.
Without role models or mentors who live in harmony between the two, they stick to what they know — masculine energy… because it feels safer.
But i find this weird because those who follow me know that I am the embodiment of both. But I guess many don’t see that being a reality for them, because unlike them, I really did that inner work… I had the outer work on lock over a decade ago, and the success tooo. But thankfully I knew to not stop there.
Most successful women literally stopped at the success part. They skipped health, beauty, femininity, relationship mastery and everything else.
WHY? Because our society puts so much pressure on us to succeed. So of course one would believe that success and money is all they need to be worthy of having a great mate. Yet what’s interesting is that to those very same women, some of them have met met with money and deemed his not good enough, because his character and social skills sucked.
But because she deems herself to be a “nice” giving woman, along with success, she believes she is the ultimate mate. Never once thinking that maybe she is missing the attributes that good men look for.
Even down to cooking…. Like most successful women know they run from the kitchen. A man can’t even get a hot home cooked meal out of her.
Successful women are simply behind in relationships…
Women who struggle with this don’t always realize they’re in their masculine energy or sabotaging their relationships.
There is a difference between leading with your essence vs. leading with your résumé. Understanding this shift can change everything. the Solution
Sis, he doesn’t care how many degrees you have, how many zeros are in your bank account, or what you can build with him. High-value men are drawn to your softness, your joy, your essence. Because those are things he can’t buy or build on his own.
Those are the things most of the women he meets doesn’t have. Feminine energy is the key to unlocking the relationship you desire. Once you have that, add your success and baby you are unstoppable!
What’s Possible: Imagine a man who worships the ground you walk on. Not because you built something for him, but because your presence alone inspires him to be more, do more, and give more. That’s what happens when you master your feminine energy.This allows a man to actually be a leader and a King for you, vs you trying to coddle him and take care of him like you’re the alpha in the
relationship.. You finally get to relax and be a woman who is covered… Seriously, imagine that.
Many women don’t listen to advice about softening their essence because they feel judged or attacked. Being told you’re imperfect definitely doesn’t feel good. But let’s face the truth.. Pain is often your awakening.. Cause when things are soft, easy and breezy you often ignore it, cause you have a belief that things must be hard in order for it to be worth anything, including yourself and your love life.
Just think.. When has love ever been easy for you?
TRUTH BOMB: I get it. You’ve worked hard to become the powerhouse you are, and you want a man who values your brilliance. The truth is, a high-value man will admire all of that, but what makes him commit is how you make him feel. Feminine energy is your superpower, and when you embody it, you’ll never feel like you have to prove your worth again.
Not even in business… I went from trying to prove myself in business to finally releasing, leaning back and saying “Hey. If they miss out that’s on them.” Those same people who miss out end up paying another coach thousands and still don’t get results.
Maybe that’s their path to waste $50K, before they realize they should’ve came to you… But you could’ve saved them time and money, by simply owning your worth and charging $50K for your services in the first place…. Cause honey offering your services and magic for $3,000 seems way to good to be true… Which is why she didn’t buy from you… But notice she bought from others… Many others… Peep game.
ABUNDANCE
I am the embodiment of the balance between success and feminine energy. Leading with my essence has allowed me to attract abundance, opportunities, connections, and soul aligned relationships.
The Root of Your Resistance
Women ignore feminine advice because they’ve been conditioned to value masculine traits over feminine ones. They see their feminine side as weak, unimportant, or unworthy of love.
When realize your brilliance and your beauty can coexist in harmony, you’ll start to see the path to attracting the King you desire.
Attracting a high-value man isn’t about chasing or pleading for his attention. It’s about becoming the woman who is magnetic, so aligned with her own vision and power that he can’t help but be drawn to her.
I’ve experienced relationships where men gave, loved, and provided abundantly. But here’s the truth I’ve learned: even the best love can’t fill the space where alignment with your highest self should be. A high-value man will honor you, support your dreams, and match your energy. But you have to first be fully aligned with who you are and what you want in life.
One time I was dating a high value man who was amazing in every sense of the word. If he flew me somewhere he would pull clothes and shoes for me out of nowhere or have them in the closet or in the room when I walked in. There would be purses, coats, earrings, literally whatever i needed to match the fit, plus many other things.
ALIGNING WITH YOUR HV MAN
Attracting a high-value man is about aligning with your highest self. When you step into your true power and embrace your divine feminine energy, love and success flow to you effortlessly. High-value relationships are based on mutual respect, shared vision, and energetic alignment. If you’re ready to align with a soul-aligned partner, it starts with embracing your magnetic energy.
He once said to me, “The difference between you and this other women Kissy, is that you pulled me right into what you were doing, without you asking. I see what you’re doing and believe in you. I want to make your dreams come true.”
He then proceeded to do so… I swear that man did more for me in two months, than some men had done with that time in two years of being with a woman.
He also told me that women before me weren’t ready to receive from him at the level that he gives. For a high value man who understands women, this is his norm.
When you’re fully aligned with your highest self, your energy becomes magnetic. You don’t have to chase love or success, it comes to you effortlessly.
Find a man who worships you and it’s and easy win.
Are you ready to step into your highest self and align with the man who matches your energy? Let’s talk about how we can make that happen.
When Maya hit her late thirties, she found herself stuck. Her love life felt like an endless string of heartbreaks, and her career had hit a plateau. On the outside, she was a go-getter. But on the inside? She was exhausted, burnt out, and disconnected. “Why does everything feel like such a struggle?” she asked herself.
That was the day Maya contacted me and discovered the power of feminine energy. It wasn’t a magic pill, but the shift was undeniable. Within six months of practicing these principles, she met her soulmate and launched a side hustle that brought in six figures in its first year.
How did she do it? She tapped into her feminine energy. And you can, too.
What Is Feminine Energy?
Feminine energy isn’t about being weak or passive—it’s about flow, intuition, creativity, and connection. It complements masculine energy (which focuses on action and logic) to create balance. For too long, society has celebrated masculine traits while suppressing feminine ones. But when you embrace your feminine energy, you open yourself to abundance in love, business, and life.
Here’s how to start:
1. Embrace Your Authenticity
Feminine energy thrives in authenticity. It’s about being true to yourself, being unapologetically you. not conforming to others’ expectations.
When you’re genuine:
In love: You attract partners who appreciate the real you.
In money: You align with career opportunities or business ventures that match your values.
Maya realized she was dimming her light to fit into roles society expected of her. When she stopped trying to “be the perfect girlfriend” or “the ideal employee,” she discovered her true self.
Her Result: Maya attracted a partner who loved her quirks and imperfections. And at work, she was promoted after sharing her bold, innovative ideas.
💡 Your Turn
Journal daily to connect with your inner voice and values.
Journal daily about what feels true to you. Then, take one small step toward living authentically — whether it’s speaking your mind in a meeting or saying no to something that drains you.
2. Trust Your Intuition
Maya used to overthink every decision. But feminine energy relies on intuition — listening to that inner voice. When she started trusting her gut, she stopped wasting time on the wrong men and bad business deals. Intuition is a superpower of feminine energy.
It’s that gut feeling guiding you to the right choice.
In love: Trust your instincts to identify compatible partners or when to walk away.
In money: Use your intuition to make wise financial decisions or seize the right opportunities.
Her Result: One intuitive decision led her to an online workshop that gave her the tools to grow her side hustle. That gut feeling turned into a six-figure income stream.
💡Your Turn: Tip: Spend five minutes daily in silence, asking yourself what feels right for you. Trust the answer — even if it scares you.
3. Build Deep Connections
Feminine energy is magnetic and thrives in relationships. It thrives on connection and collaboration, not competition. Building meaningful connections brings fulfillment and new opportunities.
In love: Deepen intimacy by actively listening and expressing gratitude.
In money: Networking with sincerity opens doors to collaborations and growth.
Maya made it a point to nurture relationships — professionally and personally.
Her Result: Her new network introduced her to high-paying clients, and her partner became her biggest cheerleader.
💡 Your Turn: Focus on creating win-win relationships in personal and professional relationships.
💡 Tip: Deepen your connections. Call a friend, express gratitude to a colleague, or join a community of like-minded individuals.
4. Lean Into Your Creativity
Creativity is a hallmark of feminine energy. It’s not just about art — it’s about thinking outside the box.
In love: Bring playfulness and fresh ideas to your relationships.
In money: Find creative ways to solve problems or grow your income.
For Maya, that meant letting go of rigid structures and exploring new ideas in her business and personal life.
Her Result: She created a signature coaching program that combined her passion for personal growth and business strategy. It sold out in weeks.
💡 Your Turn: Set aside time weekly for activities that inspire creativity, like painting, writing, or brainstorming.
Tip: Set aside one hour this week to explore something creative — brainstorm a new idea, paint, or write.
5. Allow Yourself to Receive
Feminine energy is open and receptive, yet many struggle to receive. Practice letting abundance, love, and support flow into your life.
In love: Accept compliments, kindness, and help from others.
In money: Be open to opportunities, raises, or new income streams without self-sabotage.
Perhaps the hardest part for Maya was learning to receive. Compliments, help, gifts from men, or even financial opportunities felt uncomfortable at first. But feminine energy thrives in openness.
Her Result: Practice saying “thank you” when receiving without deflecting or diminishing it.
💡 Your Turn: The next time someone offers you help, say “thank you” without guilt or deflection. Practice being open to receiving.
💡 Once Maya shifted her mindset, she started attracting opportunities effortlessly — her soulmate, unexpected clients, and financial abundance.
Ready to Unlock Your Feminine Energy?
Maya’s story is proof of what’s possible when you embrace feminine energy. Her transformation inspired ne to write an e-book, Unlocking Feminine Energy for Million Dollar Success in Love & Business.
In this guide, you’ll discover:
How to align with your feminine energy for abundance.
Proven strategies to attract love and wealth effortlessly.
Practical tools to balance feminine and masculine energy in your daily life.
Harnessing your feminine energy isn’t about competing with masculine energy — it’s about balance.
When you harness your feminine energy, life stops feeling like a constant grind. You step into flow, attract opportunities, and thrive in love and business.
Your abundance is waiting. Are you ready to claim it?
Embrace your natural power to achieve more in love and money, with grace and ease.
Your feminine energy is a magnet for abundance. Are you ready to use it?
Hey there, beautiful souls! If you’re reading this, it’s likely you’re a successful woman who has already accomplished so much. You’ve built a career, achieved goals, and yet, there’s a nagging feeling that you’re meant for more…a calling to embody your highest self and attract the life of luxury, abundance, and fulfillment that you truly deserve.
You’ve outgrown the masses. The small-minded clients and mundane conversations simply don’t resonate with you anymore. You’re ready to quantum leap into a new reality, where you are surrounded by brilliant, like-minded women who uplift and inspire you. You know you are a genius at what you do, armed with knowledge of strategy, sales, and marketing. But there’s a missing piece…the thing that will unlock your next level of wealth with ease.
Ready To Receive More?
Let’s take a moment to explore what’s been holding you back. You may find yourself feeling:
Bored with your current clientele, wishing for deeper, more meaningful connections.
Stuck in repetitive patterns that prevent you from reaching your full potential.
Overwhelmed by the pressure to perform and meet expectations, losing sight of your true desires.
Disconnected from the essence of who you are, yearning for the freedom to express your divine feminine energy.
But what if I told you that the answer to these challenges lies within? What if you could tap into your inner wisdom, activate the gifts you haven’t yet discovered, and elevate your intuition to extraordinary heights?
The Path to Becoming a Divine Feminine Goddess
Imagine a life where you attract high-ticket clients effortlessly, living a luxury lifestyle while embodying your divine feminine power. A life where fun, connection, and self-love are your daily reality. This is not just a dream; it’s your destiny, waiting to be claimed!
In the Goddess Ascension Collective, we dive deep into the work that transforms not only your mindset but your entire being. Together, we will:
Do the Money Magic: Break down the barriers that have held you back from embracing wealth.
Experience Healing and Activations: Connect with your spiritual guides to unlock gifts that are just waiting to be activated.
Align with Your Soul: Discover the actions that resonate with your highest self, leading you to the success you crave.
The Solution You’ve Been Searching For
This is your invitation to join a powerful community of women who understand you—who see the divine genius within you and support you in reaching new heights. In this space, you will experience:
Deep Self-Love: Embrace who you are at your core, freeing yourself from self-doubt and limiting beliefs.
Spiritual Connection: Heighten your intuition and develop a profound connection to your inner guidance.
Expansion and Fun: Engage in joyful, aligned actions that lead to massive growth and fulfillment.
You’ve worked hard to build your empire, and now it’s time to elevate your experience. It’s time to step into your role as a leader, an embodiment of the divine feminine, and a magnet for wealth and abundance.
Let’s Align Your Path to Success
If you’re ready to break free from the ordinary and step into a life filled with extraordinary luxury, love, impact and influence all around the world, the Goddess Ascension Collective is your solution. Together, we’ll embrace the beauty of opening your heart expanding into a quantum leap, living th life you know you’re meant to have
Join us and BE YOU— elevate your spirit, and create the life you were born to live. The world is waiting for the magnificent goddess that you are. Let’s GO!
A comment from one of my male blog readers inspired this blog.
In the world of dating, many women focus on attracting the right partner. They invest in their appearance, work on their confidence, and learn the tricks of how to catch a man’s eye. And while attraction is an essential part of the dating journey, it’s only half the story. Keeping a meaningful connection alive—one that leads to a deep, committed relationship—is a whole other challenge.
You might wonder why some relationships seem to fizzle out after the initial excitement, or why the man you’re attracted to pulls away just as things seem to be getting serious. If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I keep the men I truly want?” you’re not alone. Many women experience this pattern, and understanding the reasons behind it can be the first step toward building lasting love.
In this blog, we’ll explore some of the common reasons why attraction alone isn’t enough and what it takes to keep a relationship flourishing beyond the initial spark. And if you’re ready for a deeper dive, I’ll tell you where to find VIP insights that go even further.
1. Attraction vs. Compatibility
Attracting a man and building a lasting relationship with him are two different things. While attraction is essential, compatibility is what sustains a relationship over time. Attraction can fade if there isn’t a deeper connection and alignment in values, lifestyle, and goals.
Why This Matters: Compatibility provides a foundation for mutual understanding and shared purpose. When two people are compatible, they navigate challenges more easily and feel a stronger sense of commitment to each other.
2. Avoiding the Chase for Validation
In the early stages of dating, it’s easy to fall into the trap of seeking validation from the man you’re interested in. This can lead to a dynamic where you’re constantly working to “win” his affection, which can actually push him away.
Why This Matters: Relationships are healthiest when both partners feel secure and valued. When you focus on inner validation and self-worth, you radiate a confidence that naturally attracts lasting interest from a man without the need for constant reassurance.
3. The Importance of Emotional Intimacy
While physical attraction is a great starting point, emotional intimacy is what creates a lasting bond. Emotional intimacy requires vulnerability, communication, and trust. It’s about sharing your authentic self and creating a safe space for your partner to do the same.
Why This Matters: Men who feel emotionally connected are more likely to stay committed. Emotional intimacy goes beyond surface-level attraction, allowing both partners to build a strong foundation that withstands challenges.
4. Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energy
Many women, especially high-achievers, have learned to thrive in their masculine energy—focusing on goals, control, and independence. While these qualities are powerful in the workplace, they can sometimes create a mismatch in romantic relationships. Finding a balance and embracing feminine energy can create space for the man to step into his masculine role.
Why This Matters: Men are often drawn to women who embrace their feminine energy, which includes openness, receptivity, and a sense of ease. Balancing masculine and feminine energy can lead to a more harmonious and mutually fulfilling relationship.
5. Understanding Men’s Needs for Respect and Appreciation
While women often prioritize emotional connection and verbal affirmation, men tend to feel valued through respect and appreciation. They want to feel that they’re admired and that their efforts are noticed and appreciated. Learning to express these forms of appreciation can strengthen a man’s emotional connection and commitment.
Why This Matters: Men are more likely to stay committed when they feel respected and valued for who they are. Showing appreciation and admiration can help maintain a strong connection and keep the relationship healthy.
6. Choosing the Right Man for a Lasting Relationship
Sometimes, the struggle to “keep” a man stems from focusing on men who may not be genuinely compatible or ready for a committed relationship. It’s important to be selective about the type of man you invest your time and energy into, rather than getting attached to the idea of “winning him over.”
Why This Matters: Choosing a man who aligns with your values, goals, and emotional needs increases the likelihood of a fulfilling and lasting relationship. Focusing on quality over quantity is a powerful way to set yourself up for long-term success in love.
Ready to Go Deeper?
If these insights resonated with you, and you’re ready to dive into a more detailed, in-depth look at why women struggle to keep the men they truly desire, I have a VIP blog that goes much deeper. In this exclusive post, we’ll explore the advanced relationship dynamics, attachment patterns, and mindset shifts that can empower you to attract, keep, and build a thriving relationship with the man who aligns with your highest self.
Want to Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship?
If you’re serious about transforming your love life and understanding the core patterns that might be holding you back, I invite you to check out my VIP blog: “Why Women Struggle to Keep the Man They Desire.” Inside, you’ll gain access to high-value insights that go beyond attraction and reveal the deeper truths about sustaining meaningful, lasting love.
