by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 3, 2025 |
For years, women have been sold the idea that “equality” in relationships means splitting everything down the middle — bills, responsibilities, effort. But let’s keep it 💯. Does it ever truly feel equal? Does a woman who is handling half the rent, half the groceries, and still managing the emotional, mental, and physical load of the relationship actually have an equal partnership? Or is she just getting the short end of the stick while playing the role of both a provider and a nurturer, for a man who doesn’t even know her value?
At this point, a woman might as well just get a roommate. Think about it: A roommate helps pay the bills, keeps their space tidy, and respects boundaries. But a roommate doesn’t expect submission, devotion, or intimacy. Yet, in a 50/50 relationship, a woman is often expected to do everything a wife does while still carrying a financial load that doesn’t allow her to fully rest in her feminine energy.
So the real question is: Why are women signing up for this? Let’s break down why the 50/50 relationship model is a scam and why women deserve better. 💎
🔥 Like… what’s the actual incentive?! If a woman is gonna be paying half the bills, stressed out, and still expected to cook, clean, and submit—she might as well just get a roommate and keep her peace, freedom, and sexual autonomy.
A roommate:
✅ Splits the bills 50/50
✅ Respects personal space
✅ Doesn’t expect submission, nurturing, or emotional labor
✅ Doesn’t require sex, emotional support, or daily catering
A 50/50 man:
❌ Expects you to split the bills like a man but serve him like a wife
❌ Still wants submission, loyalty, and emotional labor
❌ Still wants sex on demand
❌ Will often still act entitled & expect you to make him feel like a king
❌ Likely won’t give you financial security, protection, or deep masculine leadership
So tell me… what’s the difference? Because in a true high-value relationship, the man should be providing more than just splitting rent.
A Divine Feminine Woman Knows:
✨ A real, intentional masculine man wants to provide.
✨ A high-value man sees taking care of his woman as a privilege.
✨ When a woman is provided for, cherished, and protected, she flourishes.
✨ Love is not a financial transaction, but a man’s ability to lead & protect naturally shows up in how he provides.
Sis, you are not meant to be in a financial struggle partnership—you are meant to be in a divine union where a man leads, provides, and nurtures the home while you lean into your feminine essence, beauty, magnetism, and peace.
If a woman is paying half, stressing like a man, and still expected to cater to her man—she needs to ask herself… why is she signing up for the short end of the stick?
💡 Moral of the story: If a man isn’t stepping up, you might as well get a roommate and call it a day. 🙌🏽🔥💎
THE REALITY OF BEING IN A 50/50 RELATIONSHIP
😤 The truth is, 50/50 sounds nice in theory, but in real life, it doesn’t exist the way people want to believe it does.
The HARSH Reality of 50/50 Relationships for Women:
1️⃣ Women still end up doing MORE. Even in so-called “equal” relationships, the woman still carries more of the mental load, emotional labor, household duties, and often child-rearing. It’s not really 50/50—it’s pay half, work double.
2️⃣ 50/50 is a scam created to weaken feminine energy. High-value, intentional masculine men know their role as providers. If a man wants an equal partner financially, then he better be equal in everything else—including housework, cooking, emotional support, and nurturing her needs. But we both know that’s never how it plays out.
3️⃣ Men don’t respect women they “struggle” with. Most men who push 50/50 don’t even admire the woman for her contributions—they start feeling like she’s another dude in the house. Meanwhile, when a man provides, leads, and protects, he naturally values the woman he’s taking care of.
4️⃣ A man’s natural instinct is to provide. If a man is comfortable watching his woman stress over bills, he is not in his highest masculine energy. A real man finds joy in making sure his woman is stress-free. That’s just facts.
5️⃣ Women are built for creation, not survival. A feminine woman flourishes in ease, safety, and security. When she’s worried about rent, bills, and keeping the lights on, she can’t fully lean into her softness, creativity, and divine purpose.
So NO, I won’t lie to people.
A relationship should be mutually fulfilling, but that does not mean a woman should be pulling half the financial weight while also carrying the entire emotional, spiritual, and household weight.
💎 True balance is:
✨ A man leads, provides, and protects
✨ A woman nurtures, uplifts, and magnetizes
✨ Both feel safe, valued, and appreciated
A queen doesn’t go half on the kingdom — she rests in her throne while her king builds it. 👑🔥
So if a man wants equal financial contribution, he better be equal in every single way. Otherwise, like I said… a roommate makes more sense. PERIOD. 😌💅🏽
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Sis, let’s be real — you’re not here to struggle, chase, or beg for love. You’re meant to be cherished, adored, and provided for by a masculine man who sees your worth. But if you keep attracting men who want 50/50, it’s time for a shift.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 23, 2025 |
Ever found yourself begging a man to love you? ❤️
A 36-year-old client came to me, exhausted from chasing her husband’s love.
The divorce papers were already filed.
He had moved on with another woman.
And there she was ….. crying, broken, and stuck on repeat:
“HE did this… HE said that… HE left me…” It was He, He, He…
I let her get it all out.
Then, I asked her one simple question:
👉 “What is it that you really wanted from him?”
She wiped her tears and said:
💔 “I wanted him to love me… the way I loved him.”
And that’s when everything changed.
I helped her see the truth…that she had chosen this relationship, shown up in a certain way, and that the real work wasn’t about him. It was about her. Our work begun.
Fast forward a few months…
She transformed.
She butterflied. 🦋
Her energy shifted.
And guess what?
Her husband came crawling back, asking to cancel the divorce.
Because the NEW version of her, the one overflowing with deep self-love, was the woman he had always been searching for.
Here’s the truth, ladies…
Instead of begging a man to love you, pour that love into yourself.
The problem isn’t him. It’s the reflection of your inner world.
A man cannot give you something you don’t already have within you.
Because if you truly loved yourself, you would have never chosen a man you had to beg for love in the first place.
When you love yourself unconditionally, your soul radiates a magnetic energy that pulls in a love that’s deep, soulful, and fully conscious.
💖 Are you ready to transform your love life?
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jan 22, 2025 |
Saw this woman about 7 months ago announce that she’d hit 7 figures in her business, and she wrote a post telling her “future husband” that she’s going to be a great business partner for him.
At the time I said nothing… But in my head I was like “Awwwwe. poor baby.. She’s actually thinks that post will attract a King in her life.”
I wanted so badly to comment and tell her the post probably wouldn’t attract the kind of man she wants.
But spirit was like “Goddess. Stay out of non-client business.” I’d already offered her my services and she declined… Honestly it seemed like she was anxious to show me that she didn’t need me…
She found a guy and started posting “couples” photos. It was “bae,” this and “bae” that. All of her followers were like “Yes, Boss Lady! You finding love is so inspiring.”
Later she posted about helping her “boyfriend” build his business to 6 figures, and ended up catching him cheating in the car with another woman…. Chick was on his lap riding and everything, right there in the parking lot…
On Facebook I see many women makes these posts begging men to come “wife” her because she’s going to be a good business partner… (Advertising to get used) Or the women who advertise who they don’t need luxury or anything else from a man, claiming they simply want “love, attention and time.” I smh at these pick me videos that men are so quick to share. Because most men of course want a woman who is sleep, is honest about her desires and is willing to settle for less, only to later be disappointed in him, cause she magically thought he was going to level up and give her her secret desires.
Anyway, back to the story. High Value Men are looking for a feminine partner… Not a business partner. He can get a male business partner.
He wants his woman to have feminine qualities to offer him…
Honestly, ya’ll would be better off advertising blowjobs.
I learned my lesson about thinking my brilliance and success in business plus my good looks was my bragging point for relationships.
Now all I offer a man is my beauty and feminine essence. Everything else he receives will come as a surprise, after getting to know me. There is no need to advertise anything else… Because if he can’t feel her feminine essence and energy simply in her being, he’s unable to emotionally connect to her. Which means everything else that you offer now doesn’t count.
Which is why most women can not get a high value man who provides. Men provide for women with feminine energy. Women who can receive from him.
A high value man’s dick does not get hard at the thought of marrying you cause you say you would make a good business partner.
Any man who responds to that request is going to d*ck you down real good, have you going 50/50 and running his business while he spends money on the side chick. And the side chick won’t have a quarter of your brain or power. It will leave you confused.
You want a man who values your brilliance and business skillsl. But first you must have something to offer him that he feels his valuable….
My question is why do such women choose to ignore feminine advice, level up advice and literally any advice that will help her soften her feminine essence and attract a King into her life?
I’ll get to that answer… But first I look back at myself and I ignored feminine advice in the past, before I shifted into divine feminine Goddess embodiment, because I would see the most unattractive women teaching femininity. They would always say why pretty women couldn’t get or keep a man. And that didn’t resonate with me because I never had a problem getting or keeping a man.
In fact, I’ve never been dumped. Despite that, I ended up breaking up with one of my soulmates and broke my own heart. I asked myself “Why do I keep dumping men?” Men want to marry me and everything. They are willing to give me exactly what I want. They even spoil me, cook for me, take me out nice places and buy me nice things.
In my exploration I began to understand purpose, alignment, clarity and most of all femininity. I realized that I was a perfectionist and put a lot of pressure on those around me to be perfect… I also talked recklessly at times and emasculated men.
Anyway I received divine feminine coaching and magically I started to attract men who would tell me that I have “wife energy.” But that’s a different conversation and a level of embodiment that most women simply will never have, because it requires a ton of inner and outer work.
WHY BRILLIANT WOMEN IGNORE FEMININE WISDOM
When a successful, intelligent woman ignores wisdom that’s all over social media telling her to tune into her femininity, this points to a larger issue about conditioning, misalignment, and misunderstanding feminine power.
Here’s why some women struggle to embrace the advice that would truly help them level up:
1. Societal Conditioning & Overemphasis on Achievement
- Many women are raised to believe their value is tied to their achievements…. Education, career success, and accolades. They’re taught that being “independent” and showing they can “hold their own” will earn them love and respect.
- Not only does this make most successful women believe they are better than drop dead gorgeous women who have “nothing to offer, but nice IG pics.. But this mindset also pushes them into their masculine energy, where they lead with doing, proving, and building, instead of resting in their essence.
- DOING and pushing seems natural and norm.. She believes working harder means she’s worthy…
- Many successful women genuinely believe that advertising their business skills or financial contributions will attract a high-value man, not realizing this often repels Kings who seek softness, love, and peace.
Listen, even me on social media, I’m like “Hey.. I keep running my platform trying to level women up, as a sacrifice to myself.. Even this post, me helping women again, when i could totally be spending my time doing something that will attract high value men to me.
2. Fear of Vulnerability
- Embracing feminine energy requires trusting, receiving, and surrendering. This starts with trusting GOD and trusting yourself. Concepts that can feel foreign or even unsafe to women who’ve been burned in relationships or told to “never depend on a man, and know that the bible says “faith without works is dead” Relaxing, trusting, learning back. letting go and letting GOD just doesn’t seem like a real path to her.
- Many women feel that leading with their feminine energy leaves them vulnerable to being hurt, used, or undervalued, so they overcompensate by trying to control the dynamic with their masculine traits. And this is totally understandable because the truth is men do like women who have their own money and women who don’t need them.. (To a degree… what I said isn’t surface. Surface cause most women don’t know how to receive from a man, which makes her not a choice for a viable mate.)
3. Misunderstanding “Value”
- These women equate their worth with what they can do for a man, not who they are as a woman.
- They believe offering their business savvy or financial contributions is what will make a man commit, when in reality, a man of means already values those qualities in himself and doesn’t need them in a partner. His woman has to bring something else that he values.
4. Insecurity & Lack of Self-Worth
- Deep down, many women who lead with “I’m a great business partner” or “I’ll build him up” don’t feel their feminine essence alone is enough. And it’s not… Cause again, it requires vulnerability and the willingness to be seen, Naked…
- They’ve never been taught to trust that their softness, radiance, beauty, and presence are the most valuable things they can offer the right man. Again, most women don’t have softness, radiance, beauty, nor presence… Yet darn there every woman thinks she does, due to filters.. But in person, she doesn’t look soft and radiant at all. The difference is the women who are drop dead gorgeous in real life, have that going for them… But that doesn’t mean she still isn’t secure and lacks self-worth. Anybody can get the work!
5. Lack of Representation
- Many women don’t see examples of what it looks like to embody Divine Feminine energy while maintaining independence and success.
- They assume it’s an either/or choice: either I’m a powerhouse businesswoman, or I’m a soft feminine Goddess.
Without role models or mentors who live in harmony between the two, they stick to what they know — masculine energy… because it feels safer.
But i find this weird because those who follow me know that I am the embodiment of both. But I guess many don’t see that being a reality for them, because unlike them, I really did that inner work… I had the outer work on lock over a decade ago, and the success tooo. But thankfully I knew to not stop there.
Most successful women literally stopped at the success part. They skipped health, beauty, femininity, relationship mastery and everything else.
WHY? Because our society puts so much pressure on us to succeed. So of course one would believe that success and money is all they need to be worthy of having a great mate. Yet what’s interesting is that to those very same women, some of them have met met with money and deemed his not good enough, because his character and social skills sucked.
But because she deems herself to be a “nice” giving woman, along with success, she believes she is the ultimate mate. Never once thinking that maybe she is missing the attributes that good men look for.
Even down to cooking…. Like most successful women know they run from the kitchen. A man can’t even get a hot home cooked meal out of her.
Successful women are simply behind in relationships…
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- Women who struggle with this don’t always realize they’re in their masculine energy or sabotaging their relationships.
- There is a difference between leading with your essence vs. leading with your résumé. Understanding this shift can change everything. the Solution
Sis, he doesn’t care how many degrees you have, how many zeros are in your bank account, or what you can build with him. High-value men are drawn to your softness, your joy, your essence. Because those are things he can’t buy or build on his own.
Those are the things most of the women he meets doesn’t have. Feminine energy is the key to unlocking the relationship you desire. Once you have that, add your success and baby you are unstoppable!
- What’s Possible: Imagine a man who worships the ground you walk on. Not because you built something for him, but because your presence alone inspires him to be more, do more, and give more. That’s what happens when you master your feminine energy.This allows a man to actually be a leader and a King for you, vs you trying to coddle him and take care of him like you’re the alpha in the
relationship.. You finally get to relax and be a woman who is covered… Seriously, imagine that.
- Many women don’t listen to advice about softening their essence because they feel judged or attacked. Being told you’re imperfect definitely doesn’t feel good. But let’s face the truth.. Pain is often your awakening.. Cause when things are soft, easy and breezy you often ignore it, cause you have a belief that things must be hard in order for it to be worth anything, including yourself and your love life.
Just think.. When has love ever been easy for you?
TRUTH BOMB:
I get it. You’ve worked hard to become the powerhouse you are, and you want a man who values your brilliance. The truth is, a high-value man will admire all of that, but what makes him commit is how you make him feel. Feminine energy is your superpower, and when you embody it, you’ll never feel like you have to prove your worth again.
Not even in business… I went from trying to prove myself in business to finally releasing, leaning back and saying “Hey. If they miss out that’s on them.” Those same people who miss out end up paying another coach thousands and still don’t get results.
Maybe that’s their path to waste $50K, before they realize they should’ve came to you… But you could’ve saved them time and money, by simply owning your worth and charging $50K for your services in the first place…. Cause honey offering your services and magic for $3,000 seems way to good to be true… Which is why she didn’t buy from you… But notice she bought from others… Many others… Peep game.
- ABUNDANCE
- I am the embodiment of the balance between success and feminine energy. Leading with my essence has allowed me to attract abundance, opportunities, connections, and soul aligned relationships.
The Root of Your Resistance
Women ignore feminine advice because they’ve been conditioned to value masculine traits over feminine ones. They see their feminine side as weak, unimportant, or unworthy of love.
When realize your brilliance and your beauty can coexist in harmony, you’ll start to see the path to attracting the King you desire.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 8, 2024 |
Hey there, beautiful souls! If you’re reading this, it’s likely you’re a successful woman who has already accomplished so much. You’ve built a career, achieved goals, and yet, there’s a nagging feeling that you’re meant for more…a calling to embody your highest self and attract the life of luxury, abundance, and fulfillment that you truly deserve.
You’ve outgrown the masses. The small-minded clients and mundane conversations simply don’t resonate with you anymore. You’re ready to quantum leap into a new reality, where you are surrounded by brilliant, like-minded women who uplift and inspire you. You know you are a genius at what you do, armed with knowledge of strategy, sales, and marketing. But there’s a missing piece…the thing that will unlock your next level of wealth with ease.
Ready To Receive More?
Let’s take a moment to explore what’s been holding you back. You may find yourself feeling:
- Bored with your current clientele, wishing for deeper, more meaningful connections.
- Stuck in repetitive patterns that prevent you from reaching your full potential.
- Overwhelmed by the pressure to perform and meet expectations, losing sight of your true desires.
- Disconnected from the essence of who you are, yearning for the freedom to express your divine feminine energy.
But what if I told you that the answer to these challenges lies within? What if you could tap into your inner wisdom, activate the gifts you haven’t yet discovered, and elevate your intuition to extraordinary heights?
The Path to Becoming a Divine Feminine Goddess
Imagine a life where you attract high-ticket clients effortlessly, living a luxury lifestyle while embodying your divine feminine power. A life where fun, connection, and self-love are your daily reality. This is not just a dream; it’s your destiny, waiting to be claimed!
In the Goddess Ascension Collective, we dive deep into the work that transforms not only your mindset but your entire being. Together, we will:
- Do the Money Magic: Break down the barriers that have held you back from embracing wealth.
- Experience Healing and Activations: Connect with your spiritual guides to unlock gifts that are just waiting to be activated.
- Align with Your Soul: Discover the actions that resonate with your highest self, leading you to the success you crave.
The Solution You’ve Been Searching For
This is your invitation to join a powerful community of women who understand you—who see the divine genius within you and support you in reaching new heights. In this space, you will experience:
- Deep Self-Love: Embrace who you are at your core, freeing yourself from self-doubt and limiting beliefs.
- Spiritual Connection: Heighten your intuition and develop a profound connection to your inner guidance.
- Expansion and Fun: Engage in joyful, aligned actions that lead to massive growth and fulfillment.
You’ve worked hard to build your empire, and now it’s time to elevate your experience. It’s time to step into your role as a leader, an embodiment of the divine feminine, and a magnet for wealth and abundance.
Let’s Align Your Path to Success
If you’re ready to break free from the ordinary and step into a life filled with extraordinary luxury, love, impact and influence all around the world, the Goddess Ascension Collective is your solution. Together, we’ll embrace the beauty of opening your heart expanding into a quantum leap, living th life you know you’re meant to have
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 3, 2024 |
Are you a successful woman ready to elevate your life to new heights? Do you yearn to embody your divine feminine energy, manifest wealth, and attract a high-value partner? If so, you’ve come to the right place.
In this transformative blog post, we’ll delve into the secrets of unlocking your divine feminine power and harnessing its energy to create a life of abundance, love, and fulfillment.
The Power of the Divine Feminine
The divine feminine energy is a powerful force that resides within every woman. It is the energy of intuition, creativity, compassion, and love. When we tap into this energy, we can manifest our desires and create a life that is truly extraordinary.
Key Strategies to Embody Your Divine Feminine:
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Self-Love and Self-Care:
- Prioritize self-care practices like meditation, yoga, and spending time in nature.
- Practice self-compassion and forgiveness.
- Nourish your body with healthy food and engage in activities that bring you joy.
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Cultivate Intuition:
- Trust your gut feelings and inner wisdom.
- Journaling and meditation can help you connect with your intuition.
- Pay attention to your dreams and synchronicities.
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Embrace Your Creativity:
- Explore creative outlets like painting, writing, or music.
- Allow your imagination to run wild.
- Embrace spontaneity and playfulness.
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Manifest Your Desires:
- Set clear intentions and visualize your goals.
- Use affirmations and visualization techniques to attract abundance.
- Take inspired action towards your dreams.
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Attract Your Ideal Partner:
- Raise your vibration and embody the qualities of your ideal partner.
- Practice self-love and self-worth.
- Be open to love and allow the universe to bring your soulmate to you.
Conclusion:
By embodying your divine feminine energy, you can unlock your full potential and create a life of abundance, love, and fulfillment. Remember, you are worthy of love, happiness, and success. Embrace your divine feminine power and let it guide you on your journey to a life of magic.
Ready to embark on your journey of self-discovery and manifestation? Book a complimentary consultation with me today to learn how I can help you unlock your divine feminine power and create the life of your dreams.
