by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 9, 2025 |
Okay men, let’s be fair. Today, we’re going to have a real conversation about why women leave you—even when you think you’re “a good man.”
Here’s the raw truth:
Many men believe that being invested in words, saying all the right things, and “being all in” emotionally makes them a good man in a relationship.
But being a good man is not just about what YOU think makes you good—it’s about being the man that woman wants and needs.
Problem #1: You Chose a Woman Who Doesn’t Even Know Herself
Let’s start here.
Most women are afraid to admit what they truly want from a man. So they settle for relationships with men who are inadequate for their unspoken needs.
💙 If you want a woman to be happy with you, you need to choose a woman who knows herself. A woman who is honest about her wants, needs, and desires. Otherwise, you’re both doomed from the start.
The Hypergamy Truth Most Men Avoid
Here’s what many men don’t know:
Women are naturally hypergamous. We are designed to submit to, follow, and be under the leadership of a strong, powerful King who provides.
But because of modern society, many women have fought against their nature, becoming their own man. We go after money, chase success, and build empires.
Now she’s making 6-7 figures, and suddenly she feels like she’s the prize. But… without learning real communication skills or feminine embodiment.
So what happens?
She gets with a man, and now it’s 50/50 or 70/30, where she’s paying most of the bills, most of the travel, and lowering her standards because she doesn’t want to “burden” him with her lifestyle.
Now she’s talking down to him, emasculating him, all while telling him he’s a king and trying to “build him up” into the man she needs.
But deep down, he knows she doesn’t fully accept him as he is. — She’s loving him for his potential, not his reality.
💔 This is why those relationships turn sour.
💔 She wanted a King, but tried to raise one…and it backfired.
Let’s Get Real: Women Also Choose “Good Men” Who Can’t Satisfy Them
Sometimes women choose a man who can’t sexually satisfy her because “he’s a good man.”
But eventually she faces the truth: she can’t stay where she doesn’t feel fully satisfied.
What MEN Are Doing Wrong (Pay Attention!)
Now, let’s talk about what men are doing to cause women to walk away.
❌ 1. Being boring, never taking her anywhere nice, and offering no excitement.
If you think showing up, eating dinner, and sitting on the couch is enough, you’re wrong. Women crave romance, fun, surprises, and memories.
❌ 2. Being a 50/50 man.
Most women don’t respect 50/50 men. Period. And even worse—many of those men end up cheating on the very woman who is paying half (or more).
❌ 3. Not knowing how to communicate and express emotions.
Women are emotional creatures. If she doesn’t feel loved, appreciated, and secure, she will eventually seek that love elsewhere.
❌ 4. Cheating and thinking money makes it okay.
Just because you provide doesn’t mean you get a free pass to cheat. Women need loyalty, security, and trust… and once you break that, respect is gone forever.
❌ 5. Letting yourself go.
Looks matter. Women need to stay attracted to you. — Appearance, hygiene, fitness all matter. Staying attractive isn’t shallow, it’s human nature.
❤️ What Women Actually Want: Bonding & Emotional Connection
Men, women crave bonding and intimacy —dates, long conversations, deep vulnerability, and shared experiences.
If you never connect on a deeper level, she won’t stay. She needs to feel emotionally secure with you, not just physically provided for.
Why Women Chase the Top 10% of Men
Here’s the harsh reality:
Women chase the top 10% of men because these men:
✅ Know how to treat a woman
✅ Take care of themselves
✅ Provide luxury, love, leadership, and security
✅ Make her feel emotionally and physically satisfied
✅ Spoil her like she’s special
And YES, even rich men get left if they stop making their woman feel loved, cherished, and desired.
So why wouldn’t every man want to follow the blueprint of the top, most desired men?
Final Word: It’s Not Just About Money, It’s About EMOTIONS
At the end of the day, women leave men because their emotional needs are unmet.
A great man is one who knows how to:
✅ Provide and protect
✅ Lead with love and strength
✅ Be emotionally present and vulnerable when needed
✅ Romance and surprise his woman
✅ Dominate in the bedroom
Balance both the emotional and the material — and you’ll never have to worry about losing a good woman.
💥 Ready to Become the Man She Can’t Leave?
If you’re tired of struggling in relationships and want to become the high-value man who naturally attracts and keeps a feminine, loving woman, stay tuned for my upcoming Men’s Guide to Being a King.
Or message me on social media if you’re ready for private coaching on mastering women, love, leadership, and relationships.
In the meantime book a complimentary Clarity Call
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 3, 2025 |
For years, women have been sold the idea that “equality” in relationships means splitting everything down the middle — bills, responsibilities, effort. But let’s keep it 💯. Does it ever truly feel equal? Does a woman who is handling half the rent, half the groceries, and still managing the emotional, mental, and physical load of the relationship actually have an equal partnership? Or is she just getting the short end of the stick while playing the role of both a provider and a nurturer, for a man who doesn’t even know her value?
At this point, a woman might as well just get a roommate. Think about it: A roommate helps pay the bills, keeps their space tidy, and respects boundaries. But a roommate doesn’t expect submission, devotion, or intimacy. Yet, in a 50/50 relationship, a woman is often expected to do everything a wife does while still carrying a financial load that doesn’t allow her to fully rest in her feminine energy.
So the real question is: Why are women signing up for this? Let’s break down why the 50/50 relationship model is a scam and why women deserve better. 💎
🔥 Like… what’s the actual incentive?! If a woman is gonna be paying half the bills, stressed out, and still expected to cook, clean, and submit—she might as well just get a roommate and keep her peace, freedom, and sexual autonomy.
A roommate:
✅ Splits the bills 50/50
✅ Respects personal space
✅ Doesn’t expect submission, nurturing, or emotional labor
✅ Doesn’t require sex, emotional support, or daily catering
A 50/50 man:
❌ Expects you to split the bills like a man but serve him like a wife
❌ Still wants submission, loyalty, and emotional labor
❌ Still wants sex on demand
❌ Will often still act entitled & expect you to make him feel like a king
❌ Likely won’t give you financial security, protection, or deep masculine leadership
So tell me… what’s the difference? Because in a true high-value relationship, the man should be providing more than just splitting rent.
A Divine Feminine Woman Knows:
✨ A real, intentional masculine man wants to provide.
✨ A high-value man sees taking care of his woman as a privilege.
✨ When a woman is provided for, cherished, and protected, she flourishes.
✨ Love is not a financial transaction, but a man’s ability to lead & protect naturally shows up in how he provides.
Sis, you are not meant to be in a financial struggle partnership—you are meant to be in a divine union where a man leads, provides, and nurtures the home while you lean into your feminine essence, beauty, magnetism, and peace.
If a woman is paying half, stressing like a man, and still expected to cater to her man—she needs to ask herself… why is she signing up for the short end of the stick?
💡 Moral of the story: If a man isn’t stepping up, you might as well get a roommate and call it a day. 🙌🏽🔥💎
THE REALITY OF BEING IN A 50/50 RELATIONSHIP
😤 The truth is, 50/50 sounds nice in theory, but in real life, it doesn’t exist the way people want to believe it does.
The HARSH Reality of 50/50 Relationships for Women:
1️⃣ Women still end up doing MORE. Even in so-called “equal” relationships, the woman still carries more of the mental load, emotional labor, household duties, and often child-rearing. It’s not really 50/50—it’s pay half, work double.
2️⃣ 50/50 is a scam created to weaken feminine energy. High-value, intentional masculine men know their role as providers. If a man wants an equal partner financially, then he better be equal in everything else—including housework, cooking, emotional support, and nurturing her needs. But we both know that’s never how it plays out.
3️⃣ Men don’t respect women they “struggle” with. Most men who push 50/50 don’t even admire the woman for her contributions—they start feeling like she’s another dude in the house. Meanwhile, when a man provides, leads, and protects, he naturally values the woman he’s taking care of.
4️⃣ A man’s natural instinct is to provide. If a man is comfortable watching his woman stress over bills, he is not in his highest masculine energy. A real man finds joy in making sure his woman is stress-free. That’s just facts.
5️⃣ Women are built for creation, not survival. A feminine woman flourishes in ease, safety, and security. When she’s worried about rent, bills, and keeping the lights on, she can’t fully lean into her softness, creativity, and divine purpose.
So NO, I won’t lie to people.
A relationship should be mutually fulfilling, but that does not mean a woman should be pulling half the financial weight while also carrying the entire emotional, spiritual, and household weight.
💎 True balance is:
✨ A man leads, provides, and protects
✨ A woman nurtures, uplifts, and magnetizes
✨ Both feel safe, valued, and appreciated
A queen doesn’t go half on the kingdom — she rests in her throne while her king builds it. 👑🔥
So if a man wants equal financial contribution, he better be equal in every single way. Otherwise, like I said… a roommate makes more sense. PERIOD. 😌💅🏽
💎 Ready to Attract a High-Value King Who Provides? 💎
Sis, let’s be real — you’re not here to struggle, chase, or beg for love. You’re meant to be cherished, adored, and provided for by a masculine man who sees your worth. But if you keep attracting men who want 50/50, it’s time for a shift.
That’s why I created “5 Shifts to Attract a High-Value King Who Provides”— a powerful guide designed to help you:
✔️ Stop wasting time on men who can’t meet your standards
✔️ Shift your mindset to attract a masculine provider effortlessly
✔️ Embody your divine feminine magnetism so the RIGHT men pursue YOU
✔️ Position yourself as the kind of woman a King chooses for life
🔥 This isn’t free — because free gets ignored. This is an investment in your future. 🔥
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 23, 2025 |
When you decide you’re worthy, you’re ready and go all in on you, everything shifts. Suddenly, you get what you want.
It really is that simple.
💎 When you decide you’re worthy, you stop unconsciously blocking what’s meant for you.
💎 When you decide you’re ready, you stop waiting for permission and start moving in alignment.
💎 When you go ALL IN on you, the universe, God, and everything around you match that energy.
And then boom. 🚀
🔥 Clients appear.
🔥 Money flows.
🔥 Love aligns.
🔥 Your dreams unfold effortlessly.
Because the only thing that was ever missing? Your full belief in yourself. The moment you embody it, everything shifts instantly. ❤️
Work with me 1 on 1 to shift your reality.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 23, 2025 |
Ever found yourself begging a man to love you? ❤️
A 36-year-old client came to me, exhausted from chasing her husband’s love.
The divorce papers were already filed.
He had moved on with another woman.
And there she was ….. crying, broken, and stuck on repeat:
“HE did this… HE said that… HE left me…” It was He, He, He…
I let her get it all out.
Then, I asked her one simple question:
👉 “What is it that you really wanted from him?”
She wiped her tears and said:
💔 “I wanted him to love me… the way I loved him.”
And that’s when everything changed.
I helped her see the truth…that she had chosen this relationship, shown up in a certain way, and that the real work wasn’t about him. It was about her. Our work begun.
Fast forward a few months…
She transformed.
She butterflied. 🦋
Her energy shifted.
And guess what?
Her husband came crawling back, asking to cancel the divorce.
Because the NEW version of her, the one overflowing with deep self-love, was the woman he had always been searching for.
Here’s the truth, ladies…
Instead of begging a man to love you, pour that love into yourself.
The problem isn’t him. It’s the reflection of your inner world.
A man cannot give you something you don’t already have within you.
Because if you truly loved yourself, you would have never chosen a man you had to beg for love in the first place.
When you love yourself unconditionally, your soul radiates a magnetic energy that pulls in a love that’s deep, soulful, and fully conscious.
💖 Are you ready to transform your love life?
Book Your Goddess Alignment Call now
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 12, 2025 |
Just because you’re a high-value man doesn’t mean women are lining up to LOVE you.
Most men can do nothing for a woman beyond spending money on her. You might have wealth, status, and success, but you don’t have the ism to truly stimulate her heart, mind, body and soul.
And just because you have money doesn’t mean she’s going to fall in love with you.
Money alone doesn’t make a man lovable, just like money alone doesn’t make a woman lovable.
You still have to bring more to the table.
You might have a line of women who want to date you, but how many of them want to LOVE you?
🎲 How many are emotionally, spiritually, and energetically aligned with you?
Know the difference.
The real problem is EGO.
If you’re a man making 6 or 7 figures consistently and can’t find ONE woman you connect with – who loves you as deeply as you love her – it’s not the women. It’s you.
This world is backwards.
Everyone knows the value of money, assets, and status…
But almost no one understands the value of LOVE, which is the most precious currency of them all.
💔 What’s even more interesting is that:
✔️ The more money men make, the more disconnected they become from love. Instead of using their position to find a woman who a woman whose essence elevates him, and inspires him to be better, they use it to separate themselves from love entirely.
✔️ The more successful women become, the more masculine they get, which makes them unattractive to the best men. So they end up choosing from who is available and those be some of the worst men…
And yet… both men and women swear they don’t need help.
That’s the ego talking.
Everyone needs help moving out of their own way.
When you’re ready to stop letting your success keep you from love, and start using it to create the life you really desire, message me.
💜 It’s time to let go of what’s holding you back and step into something real, that you can feel.
THIS IS HOW IT GOES:
A man elevates a woman by creating the foundation, security, and leadership that allows her to thrive in her feminine energy.
In return:
A woman inspires a man by being his muse, through her softness, her love, and her ability to make him feel like a King.
The disconnect happens when men with wealth and success separate themselves from love, often due to ego or fear. They use their position to avoid vulnerability and genuine connection. Instead of seeking a woman whose essence inspires them to be better, they chase superficial connections that keep them emotionally unfulfilled.
When a man chooses a woman who is emotionally, spiritually, and energetically aligned with him, she doesn’t elevate him in a masculine sense, she elevates his soul.
He’s still leading, providing, and holding space for her. But her presence inspires him to reach his highest potential.
A man elevates a woman by creating a life where she can rest in her feminine essence, and she inspires him by being the kind of woman who awakens his heart, his desire, and his higher purpose.
