by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | May 30, 2020 |
I was reading something, that sparked my interest.
I read this and I feel the heart of the person who wrote it. They don’t respect boundaries, doesn’t put themselves first, and believes in self-sacrifice. Yet, they know that love is a choice.
I was thinking of how many people meet their soulmate and have no idea what’s standing in front of them. Soulmates have a very strong connection to one another that goes past emotional love. It’s a love that stands if you just let it be and not let outside sources interfere or try to tell you what it is.
Soulmates won’t go away. Wherever you go, there they are, more than likely triggering you. Reminding you of how not in control of yourself, as you may wish to be.
All too often, LOVE brings up in many people, a FEAR. A fear of choosing wrong, a fear of it not working out. So instead of choosing to fall in love with love, and experience it as it comes, people go running, and screaming, the other way. Then subconsciously carry the belief that love is hard. So they make love hard.
They try to put conditions on love, and determine how they receive it, and from who.
When it comes to being the person who believes love to be hard, the other person in the relationship may not know the belief the other carries, and won’t understand why loving that person is so hard. It’s their fear too that’s showing up. That’s how it manifested. Both would have to break the cycle of FEAR and give in to the love.
Whether they do or don’t, they will always be connected in some energetic way.
Unexplored love due to fear… There goes a real love that will never be. People have become VERY cautious of who they choose to mate with. They want their lives to be peace and heaven on earth.
That’s quite understandable. But are you showing up as that peace?
Regardless, another soulmate will pop up. They always do. Maybe they will feel safe with that one, and this one will feel safe with them too. Because both will have prior found safety within themselves.
Relationships are such beautiful mirrors, if we allow them to be and discuss our feelings authentically. They show us how we are not fulfilling ourselves and placing our needs on others to be our end all and be all. No one can ever do that for you or feel the void. Even if they tried to fill up that expectation, they’d break their own heart.
I believe some soulmates we are meant to meet and experience, so that they can teach us lessons. But we ultimately decide on our own when we are tired of lessons being learned from them.
Sometimes those lessons hurt too much. Sometimes those lessons keep reminding you to listen to your intuition.
Choose love, as long as love is choosing you and getting better. When we don’t choose love, we deny our own truths.
Each soulmate is a chance to choose love again. It’s a chance to see their higher self. God sends you are variety of chances to choose love. Those who choose love, choose you the same. Here is the thing that maybe you missed. God gives us a few chances to get it right. To choose the soul the he’s already chosen for you.
When that part really seeps in. Your one true soulmate will appear.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Aug 30, 2019 |
Watching women cry in online groups about how their Twin Flame left them to marry another woman is the weirdest stuff in the world.
I sit and watch everyone pacify them. Like nobody other than me seems to give them the hard slap they need in order to stop wasting their time and face reality. Like this is real life, and people are throwing their life away over a storyline. These women are falling in love with men who don’t love them back, and using the Twin Flame storyline to maintain hope that the man will someday come back to them. It’s one of the lowest forms of self-esteem I’ve ever seen in my life.
How is it that as a woman you’re publicly confessing that a man doesn’t want you, yet your own mind can’t see that he doesn’t want you. Even if a man isn’t awake, if he chooses to marry another woman he still chose her over you. Send them peace, love and blessings. You also ain’t that woke if you’re still chasing a man who doesn’t want you. That’s common sense. Ya’ll gotta snap out of it.
Why are you okay with being second best? This is why I only deal with smart, boss azz, beautiful chicks. We ain’t got time to be second best. If a man doesn’t want us we say NEXT.
Twin Flame is a b.s, narcissistic storyline filled with abuse and someone being unloved. Trash it! You say he picked his soulmate over you, but does it register that he’s going to treat her better than you? You may actually be the better mate for him but that’s not what his soul wants.
Many men make the mistake of picking the wrong woman. But you gotta let him learn his soul lessons the hard way and wish him the best. And you gotta move on and attract a new man who actually wants to marry you NOW, not later after it didn’t work out with the other chick.
I’m not even trying to be harsh, but if a man is walking his woman down the aisle while you’re on Facebook crying over him, shouldn’t that trigger a message to you that it’s time to let go? I mean honestly he doesn’t care how hurt you are. You aren’t important to him. He can give two phucks less about you romantically. You’ll say “Kissy you’re being harsh.” But you don’t see he’s being harsh towards you, living in his truth, just as much as I’m currently delivering this truth to you. This is where your femininity is backfiring on you. You’re being a sweet little lamb, showing you care, bowing down, expressing your love, telling him you miss him, and he doesn’t care. So just maybe that’s not the man God has for you.
Love is the most amazing thing in the world. But when you bow down to it, without so much as a promise of a ring from him, you are denying the very essence of your soul codes that says you are Queen. Are you a peasant woman or are you a Queen?
Can’t you see that man is killing your soul, making you feel less than? No, you’ll never have Kissy confidence when you’re with a man who treats you like second best. I got rid of men who tried that with me. It would’ve stopped me from walking in my purpose. How am I to help raise the confidence of women if I’m not even confident to leave what’s not good for me behind.
And I understand love more than most humans do. I am The Goddess of Love. I’ve experienced immense, blissful love with men who didn’t value me as much as a valued them, so I stopped valuing them and valued myself some more.
As women we want men to see us, but you gotta realize that when you truly are a chosen one, every man can not see you. I tell ya’ll all the time that Oprah herself could be 33-years-old about to take a leap into fame, dating a 6 figure man who wouldn’t be able to see her plain as day. He’ll look at her like she’s just any other woman. He wouldn’t even be able to see that woman is headed to the top of world, with massive power, sitting on billions.
Anytime a man can’t see you most women start trying to figure out what’s wrong with her. Maybe sometimes you should ask yourself wtf is wrong with him? You feel you’re not perfect, but what’s so perfect about him that he wasted both of your time, by not being willing to go all in with you.
At least that’s the way I see things. A man seeing me or not being able to see me, doesn’t change who I AM or where I am going. I instill this message into my clients.
We could all become better people and improve our relationships. But you do that with someone who wants to do the work to be with you.
Some of you women do the easy thing of staying basic AF. When you’re high value you simply know that a lot of men are dumb. WHY? Because you’ve already done the work. You know you’re the sh*t.
Try it. Do the work. Walk into your purpose instead of focusing on a man. Level Up. Glow Up. Call in a divine King. He will breathe a whole new life into you.
But you gotta love yourself first in order to attract him. You gotta feel like you deserve a man who chooses you first. Self-Love is everything.
Sis, let go. I promise you that some other man will love you. God didn’t send you here to be pitiful. He sent you to reign.
